Well, I am an honest person, so I tell him when I spend too much time on VJ
Thing is, since I don't work yet, I took everything on me saying since he is working, I am the one that should take care of everything at home, cleaning, cooking, paying bills, etc while looking for a job. Then when I have my depressed days cause nothing is working for me I "evade" by reading and browsing on the web, then when he comes back home I have only few things done. Then he wants to help me cause he feels bad that I am depressed and being the sweet husband that he is wants nothing more than helping me to take a weight off my shoulders... Then I feel that I am not a good wife because I said I would take care of it and I didn't.... So that's when he tells me to get off VJ....So I am the bad one there, I take too much on me sometimes and get pissed when it doesn't happened the way I wanted it to be
Yeah I know, I am such a girl