QUOTE(olga2oo7 @ Aug 7 2007, 03:22 PM)

this happened in 2001 and was in proceedings until 2006 and his lawyer advised him to go back......
i got in contact with his old lawyer and told me that it would be a lil over $5000
in fact he did not make the extreme hardship so important...... and as a matter of fact the only hardship that i have is emotional and financial...... no illness or anything
i am sooo confused about everything
You really need to take a step back and start doing some research. Emotional doesn't count for anything but there are many, many other strong points you can make. You start by thinking about each and every way you life would change if you had to relocate permanently to his country. Safety, security, your education, your health, employment (of lack of), language problems, being separated from your family, losing your health insurance, retirement savings, social security, home, etc. Proof of extreme hardship is the key, vital part of the waiver process. If your lawyer says otherwise, dump him and consult with someone who is experienced in waivers.