QUOTE(calijatt @ Aug 9 2007, 03:00 PM)

Since we are talking about what you can bring with you from india. I think someone should also post or create thread about employment. That when people come here how they can gain right skills to get suitable employment as per their previous experience and qualification. What are dos and donts. If my case get approved I will be posting more I just dont feel like it doing right now :-( waiting waiting....... thanks pbgirl, pattu rani, nikita everyone
Bring with you your certificate, Master and all. Check with your current employer if you can use them as reference, specially if you are in the IT field, with VOIP, Email, so don't be surprise if they call up your references in India.
That said, Be prepare to be at home for a couple of months, for folks that are very active, and always working, it's a whole different mindset being at home, away from friends, specially when your hubby goes to work, so try to find something to keep your mind occupied while your hubby is at work.
Get a library Card
My hubby taught me how to drive, started with stick shift, struggle with it too much, then hubby got me an automatic, so within a couple of months I had my driver's license. So slowly you start gaining your independence, feeling free, even if it's just driving to do grocery shopping.
My hubby mentioned it would have been easier for me if I was in NY, on the east coast, my software background in Bangalore was with Financing, my hubby is out here in the sillicon valley, it's a whole different software architecture that I was used to, They are more into coding, deeper into the technical software, applications. So I had to go back to school while waiting for my EAD, to update my skillset, Check your Local Adult education Program, they have some Adult classes, and also Took some online IT courses, Go to different interviews, studied the Job Market, so it was almost a year before I landed my 1st Job in the US as a contractor.
No more 8 pages CV, along with providing personal details about yourself on your resume. So it's basically a major task to shrink down 5-10 pages CV into a 2 pages Max resume to fit the US job market format.
Tips
Don't be afraid to go to Temp agency or work as contractor, mostly what to look after is the experience, the networking, even if the pay is not what you expect as long as it's somewhere you can learn, and your skill can be useful, Another factor Contractor work most of the time out here Pays more than regular, but since you are married, you'll be on your hubby/spouse medical insurance, so don't worry much about the coverage. Sooner or later you might be converted into a Permanent/ Regular employee.
If not, once you learn as much as you can from that company, and by now you pretty much start to get a good understanding of the job market, what are the requirement, the skill set they are looking for.
REVAMP YOUR RESUME, and God after the job that suit your background, experience. IT's my 3rd company now, 2 contractor now a regular employee for a financing company on campus of the major search engine on the net.