QUOTE(neel06 @ Aug 1 2007, 09:21 PM)

should i already mail my tax papers, job letter and stuff to my husband or do i send that to nvc....
and does my husband have to contact the embassy or will they contact him... ?
We did K1 so I am not sure if the K3 route is different. If it is the same, here is the info (anyone who did K3, please confirm if different).
After the Consulate receives the case, they will mail out Packet 3 to your husband. Your husband will sign some papers showing that he is ready for the interview, and he will return them to the Consulate. Then the Consulate will schedule the interview (usually not sooner than 5-8 weeks after receiving the paperwork from your husband) and they will mail Packet 4 to your husband, with interview date and other instructions.
Your tax papers, sponsorship form, job letter, bank statements, etc., will only be needed two weeks before the interview (your husband will hand them over in person at a local VFS office). Since your information should be as recent as possible, you can wait till your husband mails them back the info requested in Packet 3, or even until he gets the interview date. However, until then you can work on collecting the info, like requesting the bank letter, gathering up all tax info and copying it, requesting job letter etc. Good luck!