lastnight i was reading DOODLE topic telling us about her husband interview , while reading i have noticed that her husband interview was almost a copy of mine except the question about sex .. we both had the same consular ( the little black guy ) .. i have have been asked almost the same questions .. and by the end i have heared the same words ( 1-2 MONTHS )
and while me and my wife have been witing for over 2 months now , so let me tell you something about this 2 months thing ...

when he said 1-2 months .. we will call you
we have your name , we have your phone , and all you info
go and be sure .. it can take less .. it can't take more
there is no pain .. there is no hurt .. that won't be sore

maybe i was naive .. coz i did believe .. what he had to say
coz when we called the DOS .. to tell them about the 2 month .. they said there is no way
they said it usually takes .. up to 6 months .. we just need to pray
sure we had to ask .. why he said 2 months .. they said he likes to play
it's bad .. really sad .. it's shame
when somebody thinks it's a game
and for his game we pay
we pay in every tear .. we pay in every hurt .. we pay being apart .. we pay it every day

thousands of miles between us .. and all what remain is .. message , email , phone call
when i look at myself i see unavailable husband , out of service .. or call it whatever you call
FAIR ADMINISTRATIVE PROCESS .. that's all what i'm asking for
not a temporarily suspended husband for 6 months or even more

Did they keep your passport?

your good

You are soo good with writing Wael... Keep doing it ... Im thinking about going to Egypt to be with Adam soon.... this waiting is making me nuts... gotta keep praying and waiting -Tam

My sweetheart

You are in my heart and in my soul...you are always with me...believe in God and that there is a reason for all that is not understood or what we think we should have at this time...

Remember our destiny is written and we have no control over what will happen, when or how...Just know this a test of faith...and we have our love even if there is a distance...

Love is forever

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( Did they keep your passport? )
no mam , they didn't keep my pasport , and yes i got this AP paper .

Oh Wale your words are so true I swear you should be a writer.

I love reading the way you and your loved one expresses feelings. God has really gifted the two of you with expression, what a great talent. Thanks so very much for sharing as it brings much light to the lives here on VJ. May God continue to bless all even when it is trials as that is how we grow. Please don't misunderstand me I remember the hurt and pain that AR/AP bring to our lives and know that some of us have to endure more tiem then others and more tribulations, May love conquer all.

Wael I enjoy reading your postings, you have a way w/words and expressing ur thoughts...and Jeanne Victoria it is beautiful really the way you both express your love for each other...After all isn't what this is all about...and I have to remain positive in this process and remember that in the end the wait is worth it I gain a soulmate and a love like no other...

thanks again both of you for your inspiring words!!

I love ur words sooooooo Much man ... i really Love it because i feel the same i am unavailable Husband ,, i am out of service .. that waiting period is sooo Stupid ... I am from Egypt by the way and i have been waiting for 8 months and 9 days since the interview i had at the American Embassy on Nov 21 2006 and still NOTHING .. that is just a ###### ...
Good luck on ur journey ..

Hey May i ask how long have u been waiting for ...
I had my interview on Nov21 2006 and i still heared nothing from the American Embassy in Cairo .. this is sooooo BAD to be away from ur wife/husband for that LONG .. this is really sooooooo Hard
Good luck on ur journey . NEVER GIVE UP .

May i ask when did ur hubby have his interview at the american embassy in Cairo ...
I had my interview on Nov21 2006 and i still heared Nothing .. all what they did is that sending someone to my house to ask my family about my wife and if they know about her or not .... and that happend something like 40 days ago and since that i heared NOTHING ...

Good luck on ur journey

This thread might help you out a bit: http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.ph...t&p=1082835

i had my interview at 23th of May .. yes i haven't waited how long some other people did .. but when you have been told 1-2 months , then someone else comes and tell you that you have to wait at least 6 months here it's different story .. and the worse after that when you hear somebody confirming that there is no time frame for the AP , so here we realize that there is no time frame for how long we have to stay unavailable husbands .
they got the control , but we still have options , my love is coming within 2 months to stay with me .
so they can play their stupid games as much as they want but they can never beat us

We were told 1 month...it took 4 months.

For now we're ok since my husband has to work to save up enough money to support his sisters for a few months while he's gone until he gets his ead, but I'm sure we'll get ansy once a couple of months goes by with no word.

Yes it is soooooooooooooooo hard to be told something and then for them to totally disregard it. I know it has just been 3 months since our interview and we to were told this same thing. Ever since that date has come and passed I have gotten more and more sad. It just reaffirms how helpless I am against this system!! If only there was somthing to do, but in this situation all you can do is find patience and believe that your path will open at the "right" time. Even though every ounce of my being says that time is now!! Patience is a virtue , but really I have so little to work with after all these months of waiting and living in the no mans land of immigration. I just want my love with me, I feel we are missing so much valuable time together, that will never be given back.

Ok you can shoot me for this since I"m only on day 3 or 4 of AP but I try to look at each day as a gift no matter if we're together or not. There's a reason for each day that I am given and I can't waste them all by wishing that something that isn't in my life was here. (were here? )

So............I'm going to work on preparing my daughters for his arrival, cleaning my very much cluttered home, improving myself as much as I can by reading more and more and more about anything I can get my hands on, etc. Think of this as an opportunity to enrich your lives so that you can share your experiences with each other once you are together.

Of course talk to me four months from now and I'll probably have resorted to smoking cigarettes and cursing like a truck driver.