QUOTE(ding @ Jul 23 2007, 06:41 AM)

She doesn't need to work here and we want the QUICKEST way to get her here. I'll pay the extra fee (ding swallows hard).
1) Consular processing in Bangkok;
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If you haven't filed yet, you clearly indicate on the I-130 that you want Consular processing of your I-130 instead of adjusting status in the US. Also put this in your cover letter. We have no history of anybody doing this successfully, (or not) so I suggest you make it as clear as possible. Maybe write "Consular Processing Please" in big red letters on every page of the actual I-130.
This is great advice from pushbrk, I'm sure, but I'm not clear on it at all. How does this work?
2) I've been advised to NOT file the I-129F. But then I read that it's quicker than the I-130 Petition for Alien Relative.
I just need some basic overview, I guess. I've studied the instructions but don't know what to do to get her here quickest. I'd like to do BOTH tracks and abandon the slowest, but how do I do that?
Remember I can only tell you from my experiance.
130 gets her CR1 visa. 129 F gets K3. Difference?
CR1 is better for reasons related to green card & ease of lenght of stay which can evolve into permanet resident.
K3 is same but is usually different stay length & path the green card. Most people go for both because the K3 is quicker . Not in my case.
I must tell you that I believe pushbrk is wrong with all respect.
To file DCF , you, the petioner must reside in Thailand for about two years. Call the counsulate & ask them of have her do it. It is located directly across the street form Embassy in BKK.
Fastest way to get her here is NOT to marry in BKK. You can then ask for a tourist visa for her. But make sure you read & understand exactly what the "strongest ties " rule is. Do not mistake in your understanding of this . I tried 3 times to get one & failed 3 times. But I was married to my Thai wife & I could not prove to them enough to meet strongest ties bit.
With tourist visa you could decide to marry here but be very careful & understand that they will think you will then file adjustment of status & deniy the visa because of that. They are trained to do so.
You will find it extremely diffucult to pass interview . Do not use Thai lawyer or agency. They are huge liers. I spent 2,000 finding that out & was told off the record by Embassy officer that they would like to stop all of them from stealing money from clients.
The time lines here on V J have been very accurate . Use them & believe in them. A false sense of what you can really do & expect will lead to huge dissapointment.
I have been involved in all of this for about 8 months now. I thought I could find a way to speed it up & did not. We have to live with the system in place & you will learn why as you Journey I think.
Visa Journey provides an invaluable service in doing what they do. Best to start reading everything they have about what this takes so you can form realistic view.