QUOTE(nhoj360 @ Aug 2 2006, 11:25 AM)

Hi everyone I know none of you know me, but I have been regulary reading your posts this past year for help on my family's visa case. This is the first time I am posting and the reason is quite simple. Their is a fraudulant person among us. If you people really think the member named "Javed" is really Shonnie's husband javed you are delerious. That is just Shonnie in disguise under a new member name. For the past year, even longer shonnie is the only one that was talking about her husbands case, we never once heard even a whisper from her husband. Now all of a sudden when Shonnie gets kicked out of VJ, for whatever reason, two days later we hear from the husband shes been talking about for over a year. Gimme a break. I have feeling Shonnie got kicked out of here for a good reason, and this VJ forum should make sure she stays out along with any aliases she may have. And I am sure "Javed" will reply to me very soon trying to prove "he" is really Javed and not shonnie, but before he does all I have to say is im not buying it so stop wasting your time. Shonnie and everyone else on this forum I am sorry if i have offended anyone of you, but rules are rules, and they are there for a reason. Though i have no solied proof that "javed" is really shonnie, I am sure if VJ administrators trace which computer "Javed" is logging in from, and they can do this, they will find that is of the computer shonnie logged in from for the past year. Im sorry i could not keep my mouth shut about this and let this farce go on, but this forum has been really helpful to me this past year and I hope it stays that way, by making sure the rules are followed and the infamous liars are kept out .
Peace
John

I can understand your concern for possible dishonesty, but it really doesn't matter! If it is indeed Shonnie, she has been a good asset to our forum and a great support to many of us. If it is indeed Javed - even better! We'll have both now.
I appreciate you voicing your concern and hope you will free to join us. Let us know your story and engage us in conversation and really take advantage of the support of this group. You say you have been gaining great insights from this group - I have as well and am happy your journey is easier as a result. Please keep posting. Maybe you'll have insights that can help us as well.
I am very disturbed by the anger and ill feelings that were thrown about prior to the former thread closing - Shonnie was acting out of protection for a group she has found very supportive of her and she has contributed a great deal to. She may indeed have gone too far in her responses - I am not absolving her from that. But, as with everything in the world right now, I feel we must have understanding and compassion - rather than skepticism and hatred.
I welcome you (even though I'm pretty new) and say WHOEVER it is posting doesn't matter - IF they contribute in a positive and supportive manner to those of us who rely on this site for some sanity amidst our struggles.
Thanks for your ear and your concern. Welcome to our thread.
QUOTE(Omid @ Aug 2 2006, 12:30 PM)

Thanks!!! he called me from dubai a bit earlier... he should be boarding towards London in a couple of hours insha'Allah!!
Yipee! I am so happy for you Omid!
I will be eager to hear he's arrived, but will understand of course if we don't hear from you for a bit...
I hope his entry is easy and stress free. I can only imagine now the excitement you are feeling.
thinking of you!