QUOTE(nora &ryan @ Jul 14 2007, 04:14 AM)

the children are 4 and 7……
If I go with the “follow to join “ from which stage will we start from …. Is it will so hard for me to do long distance paper work ….. can someone from my family follow up with their papers work
You won't be starting over when you designate that the children will join you later for your K-1. I believe you just need to fax the DS-230 Part 1 to the Consulate (be sure the medical and any other documents are completed by then, or will be by the K-2 interview), have an interview scheduled, pay the K-2 visa fees and then the K-2s are received. Just keep in mind to allow enough time for the medicals/interviews to be scheduled/visas received; as I said, the K-2 must be received within a year of the K-1. Once the K-2s are received the children will just need to enter the US within 6 months.
I know there was at least one other VJ member (was it raymaga from Canada???) that went through the "follow-to-join" process. Hopefully she will see this or you can PM her and confirm the details above.
If the K-2 process isn't done within that time, then an I-130 with fees would have to be filed for the children by your husband and you would essentially be starting all over. Once eventually approved, then I also *think* an I-824 has to be filed in order for the Embassy to take action on the approved I-130.
Hope the timelines and process work out for you! Best wishes