Hi, everyone!!

I didn't really have much to say nor do I have a question to ask. I just wanted to say hi to everyone in our forum. How are you guys?

Our forum used to be much more active than it is now. Why is that? I guess many of us have our loved ones with us now and aren't asking the same questions about embassies or needing the same support. Well, I hope we can get the discussion moving again.

K.

It could very well be that the USCIS hasn't really been working and we are still waiting for our petitions to get approved.

Oh, menefe,

I am sorry to hear about your wait. I remember waiting on my petition to be approved and checking everyday for an update. How long has it been since you saw your 'other half'?

K.

I am still around too. I am waiting for my fiance to be here so we can start the AOS process.Hopefully, he gets here safely.I am under stress from just thinking about that.He has to be here alive for us to do anything.

I have not seen him since we got engaged last year.(January 2005) Isn't that long enough.I just want him to be okay.

Im still lurking around but I had to take a VJ break from regular posting because I really find that the spirit of this forum has changed alot in the last year and i think there is alot of judgment that goes on...We share recipes, funny stories and interesting events but there seems to be more of a one up-ism kind of vibe around here lately...In a forum, I know that you open yourself up to alot of feedback--both positive and negative. I know for me, I could live without the negativity or the "you should have done..." , "that was a mistake" kind of vibe. There are better ways to phrase such commentary and alot of folks seem to just fire off responses without serious consideration of alot of other folks, their feelings and differences ....

Still here lurking... just awaiting the interview.... sigh.