QUOTE(pushbrk @ Jun 22 2007, 11:44 PM)

File the papers using her name. Marriage in and of itself does not change her name. If she wants to change her name, that is a specific legal process you would want to look into, including all ramifications.
In many US States, the woman's name change at marriage is nothing more than checking a box on a form. Then you have all the issues of changing identification, passports etc. Foreign marriages don't alway make it so simple for a woman to take her husband's name, even if she wants to.
So, again, use her official name. If it has been changed, officially, then complete the process by changing the name on her passport and any other identifying documents as appropriate.
Thanks Gemangel, BelwinMills & pushbrk!
We really would like my wife to use my last name, and have that everywhere, but if that will delay the process, I would not want to risk that.
In India, a very traditional society, almost all women take their husband's last name after marriage.... So, it is the norm there, rather than an exception. And I did not think there was any need for anything else to change her last name except her passport.
From the Indian passport agency's website, the requirements for getting the name changed are:
" (

CHANGE OF NAME
I. Following marriage, remarriage or divorce:
(a) A woman applying for change of name/surname in existing
passport due to marriage must furnish:
(i) Photocopy of the Husband's passport, if any, and
(ii) An attested copy of marriage certificate issued by Registrar of Marriage OR an affidavit from the husband and wife along with a joint photograph,
(Specimen at Annexure D)."
So, it seems pretty straightforward. But I honestly don't know how long the damn thing takes in India, and don't want the process to kill our application...
My concern is that if we don't change her name now, she will continue her maiden name for several years (until she gets her green card & SS#, and will then need to change it in all of them later). Might as well start with her new name and have the new name be the one used everywhere: her I-130, I 129F, --->green card, SS#, etc.....
Any suggestions???