QUOTE(junglecatgrandma @ Jun 15 2007, 08:15 AM)

First of all, this is all so new to me, that I dont even understand all the abbreviations yet! My question is this... If I am a widow, and partially handicapped, how can I sponsor my fiance to come here? Also, I am going to the uk to be with him soon, and we are thinking of getting married there. Will this make, getting his visa, easier to get, or harder? He is not a citizen of the UK, he is there working. I am not getting any younger, and have been alone a long time. We have known each other for 4 yrs now, but my upcoming trip to uk, will be our first face to face meeting. All of this visa stuff just confuses me so much! Any and all opinions are welcom, and appreciated. I forgot to mention that at present i have no income at all, and my son has been paying my bills. I do own a small house.
LDRS [Long Distance Relationships via imternet] can be great and seem like the "real thing".
Better to meet first and "try the shoe on to see if fits in all ways" before committing to marriage.
LOTS of LDRs "go flat" after meeting in person!
If all works out then you can worry about how to get him here.