and I explained to her that Loke already has packet 3 and that I need the NOA2 in order to adjust his status when he gets to the states. I told her I knew our petition was approved because of the letter that I got from NVC saying they received the APPROVED I-129F and she said "that's odd" then they should have sent the notice. I said "YEAH" ...
and then she asked if I filed an I-130and I said yes and she checked that and she asked me if I had gotten a notice from them on that and I said "No" and she said "This is so weird"
(note: this was the second lady I talked to because the first one didn't get it either and had to go get her boss) 
She said that the decision for the I-130 was made on May 16th and that I should have gotten a notice of some kind and I said "Was it approved?" and she said "I can't tell you that"
I said "well someone tell me something.. send me a notice or something"
and she asked why I even filed for the K3 and I said that I just want to be with my husband. She and I chatted about how the I-130 is a better visa and she gave me enough hints for me to know that our petition for the I-130 was likely approved. 
She sent a request to have both notices sent out and told me that if I wanted to just be with Loke then I should continue the K3, but IF we are approved on our I-130 and we were willing to wait on it then it would be a better visa... I think we were but I think we should wait until I get the actual notices because she wouldn't tell me.
Do you think that it would be better to just wait for the I-130 if it is not going to require too much of a difference? I know it is a better visa and it is the one we really wanted to get, but he had his medical and everything scheduled. Can we actually get both? Can that happen?
