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Every case is different. It is not helpful to you to try to compare your case to others. Even the timeslines on VJ are only estimates. The USCIS processing times are not useful since, as stated, they show they oldest case still unapproved.
Not it's not right that you were given misinformation but this is normal with USCIS. For that reason, it's not really worth it to call, especially when you are within normal timing.
The embassy will never have information about your case BEFORE it has been approved or BEFORE it has passed through the National Visa Center since they would have no way to receive that information.
The best advice was already given to you -- relax...you've got a bit longer to go...and don't worry about the misguided nugget of information...
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Thank you very much for your reply, as it was very supportive

I agree we still have time to wait

But the problem is sometimes they don't update information on USCIS website

and people recieve envelopes from NVC or Embassy saying "we recieved your approved petition"

when USCIS web-site says your petition is pending
We decided to call them in 3 weeks if we don't hear anything... but probably my Fiance will call them tomorrow asking why they gave wrong information... or may be we don't need to argue with them as if we make them mad who know what they will do with our petition