QUOTE(kimandfred @ May 29 2007, 09:39 PM)

I would wait until the day they tell you, then call. If you don't have anything, ask them to enter your name. If they've done anything with it, they can give you your receipt number. I was getting pretty frustrated with them because I filed on April 26th and it was received two days later, but I had no notice and nothing had happened with my bank account. I called this morning, and got an officer would was no help and told me to wait another 30 days. I called a few hours later, got someone else, and after explaining to her that all I knew was it was received via USPS, and that I had filed more than 30 days ago, she asked for my name, then verified my birthdate, my fiance's name and birthdate and was able to get me my receipt number, even though the check hasn't cleared my bank and I haven't received anything physical. Now I can at least track it online. Just be persistent, but polite, and don't let them try to give you vague answers so you go away. It takes less than 5 minutes for them to type in your name and look it up.
I second the part about waiting a short time then calling again. You can tell fairly quickly whether the person that answer the phone "wants" to help you or not.
I usually act very polite, tell them I am deeply concerned, and simply want my to know more. I ask please help. Sometimes the person on the line has been helpful. Other times I get the old "call back in 30 days" speach. Check out my signature and it shows they can and will give information if they want to.
DON'T give up. Visit your fiancee again. Have her visit you. Should be easy from UK. My girl is in Russia and I plan to visit about once every two months until she has her visa. Expensive... but it's much better to be planning your next visit than to stress about the visa.
My fiancee has handled our delays well. She is upset that the lawyer told us one thing... but the USCIS is taking their sweet time considering we are at the VSC.