QUOTE(alex and lyn @ May 27 2007, 07:46 AM)

hello my fellow vjer's.......im so much excited but queit nervous with my upcoming interview this june 6....To all my fellow vjer's GOOD LUCK and MAY GOD BLESS UN ALL..........
Alex-Lyn
Hi alex and Lyn,
It is perfectly alright to ve nervous and excited about the interview and it is healthy because the excitement creates the boost of adrenalin you need to be alert and keep yout mind racing.
I was so prepared for all the documents and questions during my interview, I had prepared for all the possible questions, but then on the interview, there was a candid question that just came across with a bang....and that was the first question so it oculd make or break the interview results.
But my thoughts to you is to keep cool, be honest, and yes, be sincere in your answers to show that you have a valid relationship and will make every effort to abide by the rules of the country.
The consular officer can read your reactions and replies and you just need to be yourself.
If you want some tips, post me a message and I will mentor you through.
I am already here in the USA, happily married and adjusting to life as a fulltime housewife. But I plan to work as soon as I get the documentation for EAD or AOS. SO dont be afraid to adjust and move your cheese (read the book WHo Moved My Cheese) and you will not be as nervous but be excited about the changes. It is not the interview alone that you need to plan for...it is the married life in the USA.
Will keep you in our prayers.
Richard and Maria