My answers:
1) 2
2) 1

Caro,

He actually had to hold my hands to keep me from running away during the ceremony, and it was probably about 8-9 months after we were married before I got over my cold feet.

No idea why. Absolutely none. I love him, I knew I wanted to marry him, not worried about any of the things you mentioned or anything else that came to mind ... just this weird feeling that I was making the wrong decision. Even though I knew I wasn't.

We'll have been married three years in July.

2 and 1 for me as well

Wow! that sounds bad! I'm glad to hear you got over it
I think it's normal to feel a little spooked about marriage...it is a big commitment, a big change, and a risk in many ways.
still, I can't wait to take that risk with my fiance

Caro,

3 & 5

Someone without cold feet! I'm jelous!

Nope.

I didn't have cold feet either - I couldn't wait to get married.
Before we applied for the fiance visa it made me a bit scared to get married. But once we applied for the visa and we knew it was for real I was excited.
And then when my (now) husband arrived - ecstatic and even more sure he is the one for me - the one I want to marry and spend the rest of my life with.

Neither of us had cold feet...no doubts, no fears, just sublime happiness that we were finally able to get to this point. Maybe it was because we have good communication between us. We talk everything out, talk about anything. One thing that never came up though was the cold feet issue. It just wasn't an issue at all.

Cold feet? Never.

wow this is an interesting result,
I never would have guessed that so many people would answer they had no cold feet
interesting!

Caro,

Nope, no cold feet. Our sixth anniversary is coming up on June 8th.

nope... no cold feet... I had no doubts about marrying him... and so far its been amazing!

Karen: I agree 100%!!!



No cold feet for either of us.

at first I thought this post was about actual cold feet which I do have a lot of the time...


but no I had no cold feet when it came time to get married etc... I knew he was the one from the moment I first saw him in person and there wasn't a doubt in my mind that I was going to marry him...

no cold feet. if i had any doubt whatsoever i wouldnt leave my country and risk coming here.

No cold feet here. I was waiting every day for it to finally happen.

I'm not a daredevil though! To me getting married to Suj was not a risk but something I felt totally sure about.

No cold feet about the guy, cold feet about entering into an institution I never wanted to be part of. Ah well.

Cold feet yes!!!!!

But not about marring my husband but about getting married and being the center of attention.

Same here

That sounds like something i could do but i dnt think he would hold my hand instead he would just point me out the nearest exit jk

2 & 1 I what if everything to death, which is NOT good in this situation.

I was completely and utterly calm and at peace. even on our wedding day, the only time I got nervous was when it was my turn to walk down the staircase, I was petrified that I was going to trip and fall!

"actual cold feet thread" will be next
put it down as upcoming attractions

I was soo ready, didn't have cold feet in the least the only thing I was nervous about was falling in the heels. I'm afraid of heartbreak.

awwww ty sh

i'll be honest and say i'm a little scared. its a huge risk marrying someone not only from another culture, another religion, language, etc! anyone who is in my shoes and isn't at least a little afraid is fooling themselves imho.

no cold feet from my side too

no cold feet from my side too

The actual move was what made me most nervous (packing boxes, decide what to keep and what to give away, sell car/appartment etc. )

No doubts about the man, but some about the location, I have to admit. All is well now...

Yes, cold feet, because it's a big deal to make a permanent and my parents have a miserable marriage. I think it's normal; one would be nervous before making other life-changing decisions, this one's no different except more permanent.

2 & 3

But yours doesn't have to be miserable. Coming from a miserable former marriage myself it took me awhile to *want* a new relationship. Once I let myself go and believe in Joel, I knew for sure this was going to last. There went any possibility of cold feet.