QUOTE(bszoom42 @ May 22 2007, 03:51 PM)

I spent a month doing the wrong kind of research (was very confused between the different kinds of visas.) After finding VisaJourney, everything became very clear. I wish I found it sooner, because even though everything is written plain and clear here in the guides, and the members are very helpful, I'm very slow to learn things. I needed to read things 4 or 5 times to sink in. For example, even though I read all the guides at least 3 times before filing, I still made the following mistakes that I wouldn't make now:
1. I used "N/A" without listing the reason why N/A; for example, I would now write "N/A - single, never married".
2. Although I listed all the contents on my cover letter, I did not use tabs to help the Adjudicator find the appropriate section faster.
3. I did a lot of the printing using an Inkjet color printer; since then, I found that the quality difference between a color laserjet and inkjet is huge; and I would reprint everything using a color laserjet.
4. I would have sent more primary evidence of how we met in the past two years. Even though I sent many pictures, boarding passes, visa entry/exit stamps, and receipts of purchases; I did not send everything I had. I would have sent the movie ticket stubs we had and all of the receipts from purchases.
If I found this website while I was still in India; I would have taken photos of us together in front of a some public place with the date showing in the background. I also would have made an effort to get receipts with both of our names on it - at the time; I had thought that just the photographs were enough.
Anyway, best of luck to you and your journey!
This is good advice, for the most part, but comes in a step past where it seems the OP is in the journey. Also, just factually, I don't believe giving an explanation for N/A responses is necessary (never says in the instructions to do so). Also, with evidence, it is almost universally a case where quality will win out over quantity. You don't want to shove a pile of stuff at the adjudicators. There's stuff that is important and that they'll expect to see and will be comfortable seeing. That is what needs to be included. Photos are always very low on that list and ARE NOT sufficient evidence to prove meeting w/in the last 2 years. They are nice. They can help. But they aren't the bottom line.
To the OP - take a deep breath, go to the guides here and see what kind of visa you think you need. then go to www.uscis.gov and go to "immigration forms" - read the instructions for the I-129F. Read them again. Read them a 3d time. Then come back here, check the guides and the FAQ again, and you'll probably find that you understand a lot more than before you read all that information.
It's a steep, fast learning curve. It won't be so scary for too long. Promise.