Hello all,

I have been reading lots here but I have questions of my own and hope anyone would give me advice.

I'm 21 and my boyfriend is 20. We met more than a year ago online and we dated. In feb this year, I went to visit him and his family and stayed for a week, and in April, I visited him for 2 weeks again. Now I'm back in school and I'm going to visit him after summer school finishes. He asked me to marry me and wants to marry me next summer. I'm singaporean so I could stay up to 3 months without a visiting visa. I am wondering should we fill out the applications first or get married first? My university finishes in July 2009 so I'm hoping after studying, I could just go over to the states. But the thing is, I feel that because we are both young, the processor might not approve. Do you think my application for a green card will be slow or disapproved? I do not wish to go back to Singapore and wait there because it's expensive to fly back and forth.

Thanks for any comments.