QUOTE(slim @ May 16 2007, 09:16 AM)

QUOTE(bruc @ May 13 2007, 05:06 AM)

Give The Gift of Life
Adopt a Child From Russia
I was watching a show the other day on adoptions from Russia. These American parents were adopting babies from Novokuznetsk, and paying something like $35,000 for the entire process. One family was selling their house, the other woman was using her life savings, and the irony of it was they were so happy to be "saving" these little girls from "God knows what kind of life" that they didn't even realize paying $35,000 for a baby was actually supporting several Russians quite nicely.
My wife and I were watching in amazement, wondering how these people were "saving" the one little girl they chose to adopt, meanwhile turing a blind eye to their translator and all the adoption staff without so much as a second thought about how they managed to overcome the horrible place that is "Siberia" and how they managed to make something of themselves without a "gracious" American benefactor..... and how they managed to take $35,000 from someone and "dispose of" one of their orphans.
Who really needs the help?
This was not doing the necessary research on adoption in Russia but something people should be careful about and pay attention to slim's post.
There are many agencies that are truthful and a lot less money for an adoption in Russia.
I have friends that have adopted from Russia with the cost being in the range of $10,000 excluding travel expenses.
I've done what is called a private adoption and my total cost in Russia was about $2500.00 mostly attorney and court fees in Russia.
I held firm with her old dad, someone she hasn't seen since the age of two nor heard from, and I refused to pay him any money to sign the necessary papers.
When she gets to America and the day her mom and I get married she will automatically becomes my daughter and takes my last name.
My advise to anyone wanting to adopt their fiance's kid is to do the leg work over there before the kids enters the US especially if there's a dad over there.
I've been asked a lot of times..why do you want to adopt this kid...I would have it no other way...I was adopted also by two wonderful and loving parents.
My grown daughters with kids have also decided to adopt a kid from Russia and have already started making the plans to do so.
I'm certain my parents , their grand parents would have been proud of us.
bruc