QUOTE(ChinaDavid @ May 5 2007, 03:09 PM)

It is a good idea to closely read and follow all the instructions provided at the various websites, especially the USCIS website. However, this forum should provide good information to you, instead of just snippy comments. In my experience, after filing the I-130, I received a form I-797C, Notice of Receipt. Once you have received notification that the I-130 has been received, you need to file an I-129F along with a photocopy of the form I-797C that you received, and any other required forms. Read the instructions carefully in order to avoid processing delays. There will be an additional filing fee. Check the website.
http://www.uscis.gov/files/form/I-129F.pdf Good luck and God bless you both.
Considering advice to read the guides and post a timeline to be "snippy comments" is a gross miscalculation. It is actually the very best possible advice that could be given at this point. One can obtain comprehensive information and then with the information in their timeline to guide the specific answers, the OP can come back and ask the more specific questions that come to them as they read the comprehensive guides.
What would be rude, would be for one to expect others to reinvent the guides for them instead of reading them.