Hi everyone. It's been a while since I've been here. I brought my wife over last year from Colombia on a K1 visa. Could not have done it without this site and its people.
Here's what's going on:
My wife's mother has lived here for about 7 or 8 years. She came here, divorced and remarried an American Citizen (out of love, of course) and has since become a permanent resident. She's been a PR for about 2 years now.
Her son, who is my wife's brother, is alone in Colombia. He's about 32 but is alone and severely depressed since I brought his sister over and he's by himself now. The father was abusive and left the family a long time ago.
I want to help my Mother -in law petition for her son via the I-130 form. Her son in Colombia, is unmarried and wants to desperately be with his family, as does his Mother here in the US. I've heard and read various things regarding timelines for this, which brings me to question #1:
1. Will it really take 5 years to await approval to bring him over?
And my second question, which I would appreciate anyone's input/opinion on:
2. Will the fact that he is clinically depressed due to the fact that he is without his family HELP or HURT his case? At first I thought it will help if we get a doctor's note, but others have told me that this might HURT our case since he may become a "public charge" since he's depressed.
I appreciate all your help!
Thanks!
John
p.s. and yes one day i will try to update my timeline...
