Not sure if this is the right forum for this, but Gary arrived on Saturday (!!!!) and I thought I would let you all know about his POE experience in Chicago. The man who processed his visa had never seen a K1 before, so he had to call over someone else to walk him through it. Gary could hear what the supervisor was telling the man learning how to process the visa, and he told him to be especially concerned with looking through my papers for red flags. He also told the new guy that if there was a 25 year age gap "you can start asking questions." He told him to ask 1)Where we met, 2) Why I was in England at the time, and 3) How long we had known each other. The whole thing only took about half an hour, and that's with the new guy learning.
Just to clarify, they were both very polite, and it didn't seem to Gary as though the supervisor was telling the new guy to look for a reason to deny entry to people or anything like that (although we only have a 2 year age difference, so that wasn't an issue) but I thought it might be interesting for some people to have this very slight insight into the processing at POE.
