QUOTE(Mikalie @ Mar 20 2006, 05:52 PM)

QUOTE(KarenCee @ Mar 20 2006, 06:41 PM)

Hmmm....to even entertain a scenario does open the door for speculation y'know....

I totally agree!
To the OP--instead of asking about divorce implications, why not ask about getting some marriage counseling to try to work on your problems? From personal experience, I know that at around the two year mark, lots of people start thinking it is all over because that is when the "infatuation" phase usually has run its course. All it means is that the time has come to really work on the real love stage of the marriage. Unfortunately this is when too many people give up.
You might also want to do some reading on the stages of marriage. Sounds like you are now between stages. It would be sad for you not to seek some help. Best wishes in working things out. Divorce is a very bad experience to go through.
i understand what you are saying, but counseling is not the cure for every one. especially if you have an career oriented disagreement. all i can say is we will see how it goes from now, but at least we are ok now. honestly, if we really have to file divorce, immigration's opinion does not matter much to me any more. the only way to stay with her was to file the papers, and that's what i did, if our marriage doesnt work out, my stay is no longer needed.