This all seems so pointless and silly.
I find that a hurtful thing to read, actually. I just figured out what the people who are advocating the re-org have in common: They answer immigration related questions from anyone/everyone. They investe time in making sure they are current with a wide variety of information and they engage in conversations with others to learn new information that they can share with others. They monitor USCIS press releases, congressional action, and reports from actual offices. They put out effort to save people money, time and heartache.
Your attitude directly subtracts from that collective effort and leaves me looking at what it is you gain from being here, other than socialization. From your point of view, I can then see why you think it's all pointless and silly.
I'm sorry you find it hurtful, but it is honestly the way I feel. And I think you're reading more into what I mean. This whole moving this thread/congrats subforum/etc is silly and pointless. That's not saying I find the people here useless...that's two different things.
I understand people's need to 'give back' and once I'm further along the journey and have more knowledge, I'm sure I'll dispense it too. I think it's great to 'give back' and help others as others have helped you. But no one here is an immigration specialist...and I think there's a very fine line between passing along knowledge and making it part of one's day to update onesself as to the current changes and then dispense that information as if one were a visa helpdesk. But hey, different strokes, whatever.
Now here's my line in the sand. While I like pretty much each and every person who's an 'organizer' or 'scout', I find myself confused by the apparant need to display these 'badges of honor'. We all know certain members always had the capability of moving stuff....and hey, if that's what's needed, then fine! But why title it? I don't say that out of anything but pure curiosity. Does it serve some validation of sorts?
And what I also find silly and pointless is the amount of threads that have been moved...so much so it's caused an apparant kerfuffle with people as this is the umpteenth time it's been brought up. Some threads stay, others get moved...and it's 'all for the good of ease with information' or whatever the reason is, yet there was really not much confusion beforehand. We share each other's highs and lows...but now certain threads are deemed not as meritorious as others...and the K-1 forum? PUT PROBLEMS IN THE MAIN FORUM! but slink off to some congrats siberia for good news cos it might hurt or upset people or it's cluttering or what have you.
So please don't read into what I say and turn it into something it's not....I'm hardly subtle as it is. The people here are great and whatnot, but forgive me for saying but the power trips are not.
after all, not just anyone can move a thread
ETA: I myself find it hurtful that you feel the need to question what I gain from this site merely for disagreeing with you. Surely the passion which I display for these changes at least shows that I give a sh!t about this site, if not I wouldn't much care, would I? My reasons for being here are just like anyone else's...and the fact that they are questioned is shocking tbh...obviously there were delays in my case which prevented us from filing so as I'm not 'down the line' there's not too much I can say firsthand from experience, is there? But I help out when I can...you should remember that, no?
