QUOTE(ineedofhelp @ Apr 10 2007, 07:46 PM)

thanks for the quick response.
well, my wife is not the sponsor, its actually a friend of mine, who have no objection to keep sponsoring me if i get divorced.
also, u mentioned that i need to convince the officer that it wasnt a sham. well, we had two interviews already. what more evidence i need to give if I showed enough documents earlier? my wife is willing to help me i.e. she will acompany me infront of an immigration judge-if we are asked to- and she will say that it wasnt a sham. is that of any good?
my confusion is how long would i be able to stay in the US if i informed immigration that my divorce is final? would that constitute a voluntray departure? do they give me a "time frame" to leave the US? see I'd rather depart voluntary than getting deined since i would like to come back later to the US if i ever wanted to visit again.
Here's another case where it is important to define what you mean by sponsor. The petitioner is a sponsor, but a joint sponsor is not always the petitioner. If yours is a marriage-based petition, then your wife is the primary sponsor. You may have another sponsor ( a friend in your case) to meet the financial requirements of the Affidavit, but the petitioner in a marriage-based case is the US citizen spouse.
Any marriage that is less than two years old at the time the adjustment of status is approved will result in a conditional green card. In marriage-based cases, the parties must be in a viable marriage at the time that the adjustment of status application is reviewed. Should parties divorce prior to the adjudication of the adjustment application, the regulations in the INA stipulate that the alien's application will be denied, because the whole basis for immigrant benefit is based upon marriage to a US citizen. No marriage - no basis.
There are occasions where parties are in a viable marriage at the time the adjustment of status application is submitted, but backlogs or delays in adjudicating could result in a marriage ending while the application is pending review. Bear in mind that if parties ahve been married less than 2 years when the application is approved, the benefit conferred is only conditional and would be subject to removal of those conditions 2 years later on. If an alien somehow "slipped through the cracks" with an untimely divorce, it would be evident later in the process.
You're a little confused with the process of adjudication of adjustment applications. If the alien's case does not meet the standards required to prove that the marriage is bona fide, he or she will receive a denial, be advised that removal proceedings will commence and the alien will receive instructions for an NTA (Notice to Appear) before an Immigration Judge to review the denial. He or she will have another stab at proving the bonafide nature of the marriage in the proceedings. During that hearing the Service will present the facts that rendered a decision to deny. If compelling, the IJ will affirm the decision and issue instructions for the alien to depart the USA. Of course, he or she can then appeal that decision.
Normally, the alien is informed of how long he or she has to depart. 60 days comes to mind.
If you have been called for two adjustment of status interviews already, there must be some basis for USCIS to doubt the validity of your marriage. Even if your US citizen spouse vouches for the marriage, there can still be facts that put the validity of the union in question. There are, after all, "sham" marriages, where parties act in concert to gain immigration benefit for an alien, usually to the financial benefit of the US citizen spouse

You say that your wife is intent on assisting you with your residency. If yours is a bonafide marriage, why, then is she filing for divorce at such a precarious point in the process?