wow congrats to you helen and have a safe trip.
God bless you again.

Congratulations Ate Helen. Have a safe trip and good luck on your journey together.

Congrats Ate Helen......enjoy the trip....

Congrats Ate Cora! Now the waiting is really over (at least for you). Patienly Waiting no more!

Best wishes!

Cheers!


Mae

DS 157 that is from the bank validity.

Hello everyone.....just want to know if the NBI clearance is sufficient in lieu of police clearances that one should get in places they've lived since 16 years old?......and is there a rule on what size of paper i should print the emails and chat logs?....thanks to anyone who would be kind enough to answer me

The requirement is for countries you've lived in. The NBI clearance will cover all places you've lived in the Philippines. If you've lived in other countries for a year or more, you will need a clearance for those countries in addition to the NBI clearance.

Barangay clearances are not needed.

thanks.....now that's a relief coz I've lived in many parts of the Phils. since 16 y.o.

you will only need police clearances if you lived outside the Phils for more than 6 months/per country or place, if you have not lived abroad all you need is your NBI clearance. No rule on what size of paper you should use, you can use short or long coupon bonds, i printed mine on short bond paper

...thanks....i'm still waiting for NOA2 but i like to start working on some proofs i need to bring for the interview...our relationship is on its 8th year now and i'm not so sure how to go about printing emails and chat logs coz it's quite a lot....since you were kind enough to answer me i'll ask again what would you suggest i do....would it be enough to choose an email for each month for the entire 8 years?....thanks again.

CONGRATS HELEN

Yeheeeeey! Delbros delivered my son’s visa this afternoon. El Mas Guapo, we’re relieved to hear the good news! Now, time to write your request for an expedited interview. Let us know developments. Kim Tung, any news on your visa?

Updating list to welcome GoBruins!

Legend:
OK - Visa approved
AR - Admin Review/Add'l Docs Required
ME - Military Expedite
AO - Age-Out (Derivative approaching age 21)

Name..................NOA2....MNL REC'D..PACKET...INTERVIEW..MNL CASE#..STATUS..DELIVERED/#OF DAYS/PLACE DLVRD

K1 LIST
01..gobdogman.......09-07-06..10-20-06..xx-xx-xx..02-26-07..2006-789xxx..AR..Apr 15/48 days/Dumaguete

02..patrick808......10-18-06..10-30-06..01-24-07..03-08-07..2006-800xxx..OK..Date and place delivered please?
03..Joone745........10-20-06..11-01-06..xx-xx-xx..03-09-07..2006-800xxx..OK..Mar 16/07 days/Bacolod
04..Wes.............11-02-06..11-17-06..12-29-06..03-20-07..2006-818xxx..AR..Pending result of add'l tests
05..49bstreet.......09-29-06..11-21-06..01-23-07..03-21-07..2006-820xxx..OK..Apr 12/22 days/Tuguegarao
06..maylet29........10-27-06..11-21-06..xx-xx-xx..03-22-07..2006-820xxx..OK..Mar 27/05 days/Quezon City
07..kismet..........11-02-06..11-20-06..01-26-07..03-22-07..2006-820xxx..OK..Mar 28/06 days/Cainta
08..iya.............11-02-06..11-20-06..02-02-07..03-23-07..2006-820xxx..OK..Mar 29/06 days/Quezon City
09..boch............11-08-06..11-29-06..01-05-07..03-23-07..2006-820xxx..OK..??
10..B&N.............11-03-06..11-29-06..01-24-07..03-26-07..2006-824xxx..OK..Apr 02/07 days/Makati
11..Alanlvsjudy.....11-06-06..xx-xx-xx..xx-xx-xx..03-27-07..2006-824xxx..OK..Apr 02/06 days/Pasay
12..EllaJosh........11-14-06..xx-xx-xx..xx-xx-xx..03-23-07..2006-834xxx..OK..??
13..jackieadam......11-20-06..12-28-06..xx-xx-xx..03-23-07..2006-xxxxxx..OK..Mar 28/05 days/Makati

14..DeaniWait.......11-28-06..12-19-06..02-27-07..04-04-07..2006-842xxx..OK..Apr 11/07 days/Picked up
15..wthornton.......11-28-06..12-19-06..02-26-07..04-04-07..2006-842xxx..??
16..DocMay..........11-15-06..12-12-06..02-26-07..04-10-07..2006-845xxx..AR..
17..George&Jenny....11-27-06..12-12-06..xx-xx-xx..04-10-07..2006-845xxx..OK..Apr 13/03 days/Cagayan de Oro
18..genlramos.......11-17-06..12-19-06..xx-xx-xx..04-11-07..2006-845xxx..OK..Apr 17/06 days/Pasay City
19..DaveandFleur....10-17-06..12-19-06..02-28-07..04-11-07..2006-845xxx..OK
20..PatientlyWait...12-04-06..12-27-06..02-26-07..04-13-07..2006-852xxx..OK..Apr 26/13 days/Las Pinas
21..Kayz............12-14-06..12-27-06..02-26-07..04-16-07..2006-854xxx..OK
22..sanfrancisco....xx-xx-06..xx-xx-xx..xx-xx-xx..04-17-07..2006-8xxxxx..OK
23..supra...........12-07-06..01-08-07..03-03-07..04-18-07..2006-860xxx..OK..Apr 23/05 days/Cebu
24..elmasguapo......12-15-06..01-08-07..xx-xx-xx..04-24-07..2006-xxxxxx..Interview postponed
25..Dean/Gra........12-26-06..01-04-07..02-27-06..04-23-07..2007-503xxx..OK
26..Mike Marivic....01-04-07..01-20-07..02-26-07..04-24-07..2007-508xxx..OK
27..CocoPuff........12-29-06..01-16.07..03-03-07..04-25-07..2007-5xxxxx..OK
28..MarieandBryan...01-10-07..xx-xx-xx..xx-xx-xx..04-27-07..2007-52xxxx

29..Skeeter211......01-17-07..02-27-07..04-02-07..05-03-07..2007-52xxxx
30..chadandlira.....01-25-07..xx-xx-xx..04-02-07..05-09-07..2007-536xxx
31..Honeysweet......02-01-07..02-20-07..xx-xx-xx..05-10-07..2007-540xxx
32..imaskin.........02-07-07..xx-xx-xx..03-30-07..05-24-07..2007-xxxxxx
33..gracy_byron.....02-08-07..02-28-07..xx-xx-xx..05-18-07..2007-xxxxxx
34..chadmides.......02-12-07..xx-xx-xx..xx-xx-xx..05-10-07..2007-547xxx
35..joemaria........02-12-07..02-28-07..xx-xx-xx..05-22-07..2007-55xxx

36..orion44.........02-22-07..xx-xx-xx..xx-xx-xx..06-05-07..2007-xxxxxx
37..David-MaeForev..02-27-07..03-14-07..xx-xx-xx..06-07-07..2007-564xxx
38..JeffK...........03-08-07..xx-xx-xx..xx-xx-xx..06-18-07..2007-573xxx

39..CountryBoy......03-29-07..04-23-07..xx-xx-xx..xx-xx-xx..2007-608xxx
40..trakon2002......04-05-07..xx-xx-xx..xx-xx-xx..xx-xx-xx..2007-xxxxxx

K3 LIST
01..AnneiyandJacky..11-28-06….xx-xx-xx..02-27-07..04-17-07..2006-685xxx..AR..Co-sponsor
02..dj2004..........11-16-06..12-12-06..02-27-07..04-03-07..2006-839xxx..OK
03..luvbugs4ever....12-14-06..12-21-06..03-02-07..04-16-07..2006-8xxxxx..Interview postponed
04..M&M.............11-20-06..xx-xx-xx..03-02-07..04-16-07..2007-503xxx..CR visa approved.
05..Jeff&Boo........12-26-06..01-12-07..02-26-07..04-26-07..2007-5xxxxx

07..CherylandMike...02-05-07..02-26-07..xx-xx-xx..05-16-07..2007-546xxx
08..Robor007........02-06-07..02-26-07..03-30-07..05-15-07..2007-546xxx

IR-1/CR-1
Name.................NOA2.....CASE CMPLT..PACKET..INTERVIEW...MNL CASE#..STATUS
01..w1n78...........09-05-06..11-16-06..02-05-07..03-02-07..2006-764xxx..AR..Mar 23/21 days/Makati
02..soulm8z0928.....09-06-06..11-16-06..02-05-07..03-14-07..2006-76xxxx..OK..Mar 20/06 days/Metro Manila
03..M&M.............09-07-06..11-15-06..02-05-07..03-15-07..2006-765xxx..OK..Mar 19/4days/Taguig
04..dims1...........09-20-06..12-01-06..02-06-07..03-19-07..2006-775xxx..AR..Co-sponsor
05..KimTung.........09-26-06..12-21-06..xx-xx-xx..03-22-07..2006-779xxx..AR..

06..vsmtqhdy........09-25-06..xx-xx-xx..xx-xx-xx..04-20-07..2006-xxxxxx..OK..Apr 27/07 days/??
07..randynrose......09-29-06..02-06-07..03-06-07..04-20-07..2006-xxxxxx..OK
08..StarProg........12-28-06..xx-xx-xx..xx-xx-xx..xx-xx-xx..2007-508xxx
09..Gobruins........12-20-06..04-03-07..xx-xx-xx..05-23-07..2007-50xxxx
10..Robor007........02-06-07..xx-xx-xx..xx-xx-xx..xx-xx-xx..2007-xxxxxx

(1) Yes, you may request Embassy to send packet to St. Lukes so Mom can pick it up.

(2) Yes, Mom needs to pay delivery fee at the Delbros counter located inside the embassy. It is easy to find. No, delivery fee is not included in the $380.

(3) P165 delivery fee for Metro Manila, more pag sa probinsiya. Mom may request visa pick up after interview with the consul. Judging from others who have done it before, there seems to be no special reason for requesting pick up. Some applicants were successful in requesting pick up, others were not. Subject to the mood of the consul if he will grant it or not.

(4) Travel tax of P1,620 will be included in the cost if ticket is purchased in Manila. If you buy it from Expedia and other on-line service, travel tax is not included so Mom has to bring P1,620 and pay at the airport + P750 airport terminal fee.

Congratulations to Helen and Ate Cora for receiving their visa, happy for u gurls!
You deserve trully the best...God bless!

To ElMasguapo, happy to know your fiancee got cleared in her medical thats really a good news.

And again for those successfully had their interview...our congratulations to you guys!

Congratulation Cora..happy to hear the good news!!!

You have been a great help thank you for the infomation. what questions will they ask on the one on one interview?

Wow thanks PW! As always maasahan talaga ang fellow noyPi

Congrats! Finally you got your son's visa. I had a similar experience with our visas back in 2004. All the other applicants who were interviewed the same day received their visas in a span of 2-3 days, mine took about a week. When I got the passports, I found out that the delay was because the embassy made a mistake on my daughter's K2 visa, they spelled her name wrong, so they canceled the first visa and made another one. It's good to know that quality control is working. Anyway, congrats and welcome to America very soon!!!!

hmmm...im a little worried now. i looked at my fiancee's visa and under the annotation it has my name spelled incorrectly. everything for her name to her A# is correct but the only part thats wrong is that in my last name, they transposed a letter. all my paperwork i submitted has my name spelled out correct as her petitioner and all of it was typed out. should we worry about this? or not since all of her information on the visa is correct already.

Joemaria, I noticed your avatar says "my Alabama" will you live in Alabama?

We are very close to the Alabama state line. PM us and let us know where you will be, maybe we will be near enough to visit.

Good Luck!

I would guess that as long as all her information is correct you will be ok. But, I would call the embassy for sure and ask them just to be safe.

I posted this a few days ago, I'm not sure it got buried in a blizzard of congratulations or there were no opinions about the timing if a visit (or could be bad breath). I'll get a mint and give it another try...

Congratulations ate Cora! sexy mommy in vj...

Well in my opinion and in the opinion of an immigration lawyer I consulted, if you have the time and the money you should attend her interview.

Thanks! Sort of what I thought. Time and money, sigh.

Congratulations to everyone with their visas. It is so encouraging to hear of your success. Thanks to everyone on this site for your help in helping others get approved.

I have a question about the medical at St. Lukes. What does someone do if it is the time of their monthly cycle?

Thanks

wow!i've been looking for this thread cause it contained relevant informations...!i finally found it...!!thnx to all the vj's here..!:)

I heard its not advisable to have the physical exam when somebody has their period. My cousin was asked to come back when her period is done. The Dr cant take a good look down there when its that time of the month. They usually ask when did you have your period, first and last days of it and if you had a sexual contact after then etc.

I was faced with this same dilema. My Fiance wanted me to come for her interview and also to excort her back. Trouble was that I did not have enough time on the books at work to stay more than 10 days. (8 days after travel time) I did not think it was a good idea to guess when her visa would be issued and get a ticket for the end of that time frame. Secondly, I did not have enough money with plane tickets to Manila costing about $1000 each to make two trips in hopefully less than a month. Consequently, I told me sweetheart it was one or the other. I would come for the interview and she would fly here alone or I would skip the interview and come to get her. She, bless her heart, told me she understood and without a complaint out of her lips said she wanted me there for her interview most of all. So that's what I am doing.

And good news is.....I hop on the plane tomorrow night for Manila!!! WOOOHOO!!!! Can't wait to see my baby again!!!! Hope I remember everything! I gotta work tomight too and I haven't even started to pack! I am soooo bad!

Congrats to Dean and Gracia, Mike and Marivic, and CocoPuff on successful interviews. Congrats to all those that received their visas recently, especially to you Cora for such a long and agonzing wait. Congrats to Elmasguapo for great news on the medical results. I know I am probably missing someone here and I apologize for not keeping up. I will just say that I have read it here and congratulated you in my mind when I did, so you are now officially congratulated in print if I did not say it before.

Talk to you all later.....from Manila if not before.

Scott (and Mirasol)

Good luck Skeeter and Marisol, sure its gonna be a happy trip

Hi PW,


I still have not receive my visa. Its already been 4 weeks on AR, it really worries me now...
Anyway, congratulations to you and everyone here who has their visa.

-
Kim

Congrats on the delivery of your Visa for your son.
Seems many of us after you have been put on hold for some reason.
Our Visa has still not come.
As of today, in fact it still has not even left the Embassy.
I am starting to think we have been put on some sort of AR.
They have no explanations so far, and no replies as to why our Visa has not been released to Delbros. So I am starting to think something happened, and maybe they are rethinking them selves on our Visa, and I don't really know. They told her she was approved, told her she should have her Visa by Friday, and today is Friday, and it is not even released by the Embassy. So I guess I dont get it. Every step of the way, they have made sure they have made us wait even longer at every corner we have turned, even when our papers have been correct.So I guess having been married before, and bringing some one to the States has put us on the USCIS Highway to Hell. Maybe I am just getting ahead of myself, and there is a bigger explanation, but having no answers, and No Visa having been released a full week later is getting us down. And by the time they reopen on Monday , ity will have been 10 days and still at the Embassy. We have prayed every night, and are without answers anymore... Good luck to everyone still waiting, and those approved, and still waiting.
Just when we thought we were over the waits, let downs, and on our way, they have built yet another hurdle...It just isn't fair. I was hoping my Dear Rose would bee in my arms for my Birthday next weekend, and now, I'm not sure.
God bless Everyone...
Randy N Rose

Thanks guys for the warm congratulations!!!

PW-> just an update po: Visa delivered after 4 working days -> San Pedro, Laguna

PW, please update our timeline. We got approved on the interview last april 27, 2007. Thank you & Godbless!


Regards,

Bryan & Marie

Congratulations!

We are on the same boat here.. I got my visa last thursday and i noticed that my fiancees last name was misspelled in the annotation part too. Instead of his last name having 2 L's, they only put 1 L. Did you have a chance to call embassy already?? What do we need to do??

Happly Married now! Enjoy!

That is so great! Congrats!

CONGRATULATIONS BRYAN & MARIE

TO OUR DEAR PW CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR VISA DELIVERY Finally huh Now it is our turn to wait for ours and hoping that no screwing up from Delbros

To Elmasguapo...glad you guys got out of the medical issues...Good Luck on your interview! You can do it And to all here on the journey to medical and visa interview GOOD LUCK AND GOD SPEED!

Coco Puff

Hi! It would be wise to have it all available but i don't think the CO will question much of your 8th year relationship It is a sure approval for me As long as all important documents are complete especially DS forms, BC, NBI, Police Cert, Ceno if applicable, I134, and other important dox in your case.

We are in our 4th year and we did prep all and we mean ALL (snail mails, emails, phone logs, etc for each year) and they only asked for 3 snail mails (original) and that's it. But as a good advise have everything available at least to cover 2-3 correspondence for each year and the most important is within the 2 year period when you applied for this petition and also include the current ones. Just be prepared with all the possible documents to support your relationship. You wouldn't know what they are going to ask until you get there. I know the whole process is stressful but you'll do great

Coco Puff

Goodluck to everyone....and for us that had started yet....

ako din just started. But every journey starts somewhere. But about how long the does the NOA1 take? I live in Hawaii, so I know it takes longer for mail to get to CA. I have been busy at my new job, but it has been two weeks now. So i am worried a bit.

it takes one week for u to recieve NOA1 and takes 4 months to recieve NOA2.

* PW on your visa delivery

* MarieandBryan on your visa approval

and

* vic&el4ever on your wedding

hey sanfrancisco, i have not had a chance to call the embassy yet. im assuming it will be ok since all of my fiancee's information is correct. i'll let you know if i get a chance to call them. let me know if you get to call them also and what they said. hope it won't be a problem since it's just the annotation part

Don't worry, it will come, ours took just over two weeks.

Best of luck!

Mine is still on the way CSC sent it on April 24, hopefully next week we get it by mail...

my husband just sent our I-130 petition last week
still have a looong way to go
it would be really cool if i could bend space and time
but i can only twiddle my thumbs and count the stars in the sky, sadly

:sigh:

There was a similar case last year and embassy said that as long as the beneficiary’s info was correct, it was okay. But I would second DeanIWait, better for both of you to call embassy to inform them of the mistake and ask them if there is a need for correction. Then please let us know what they say.



The applicant will be asked to come back after the monthly cycle. This is the reason why we suggest to take the medical at least a month prior to interview so there is enough time to react for unexpected problems like monthly cycles, having cough & colds resulting to blurry x-rays, additional tests, etc.


Happy reading!!!



4-6 weeks is the norm for AR. I hope they release the visa soon.



I am thinking that maybe because of the network problem that occurred at Delbros last week, that the embassy temporarily stopped releasing shipments while waiting for Delbros to catch up with their pending deliveries. Maybe tomorrow, everything will be back to normal.



Congratulations and best wishes, Vic&el.

Updating list to congratulate MarieandBryan on visa approval.

Legend:
OK - Visa approved
AR - Admin Review/Add'l Docs Required
ME - Military Expedite
AO - Age-Out (Derivative approaching age 21)

Name..................NOA2....MNL REC'D..PACKET...INTERVIEW..MNL CASE#..STATUS..DELIVERED/#OF DAYS/PLACE DLVRD

K1 LIST
01..gobdogman.......09-07-06..10-20-06..xx-xx-xx..02-26-07..2006-789xxx..AR..Apr 15/48 days/Dumaguete

02..patrick808......10-18-06..10-30-06..01-24-07..03-08-07..2006-800xxx..OK..Date and place delivered please?
03..Joone745........10-20-06..11-01-06..xx-xx-xx..03-09-07..2006-800xxx..OK..Mar 16/07 days/Bacolod
04..Wes.............11-02-06..11-17-06..12-29-06..03-20-07..2006-818xxx..AR..Pending result of add'l tests
05..49bstreet.......09-29-06..11-21-06..01-23-07..03-21-07..2006-820xxx..OK..Apr 12/22 days/Tuguegarao
06..maylet29........10-27-06..11-21-06..xx-xx-xx..03-22-07..2006-820xxx..OK..Mar 27/05 days/Quezon City
07..kismet..........11-02-06..11-20-06..01-26-07..03-22-07..2006-820xxx..OK..Mar 28/06 days/Cainta
08..iya.............11-02-06..11-20-06..02-02-07..03-23-07..2006-820xxx..OK..Mar 29/06 days/Quezon City
09..boch............11-08-06..11-29-06..01-05-07..03-23-07..2006-820xxx..OK..??
10..B&N.............11-03-06..11-29-06..01-24-07..03-26-07..2006-824xxx..OK..Apr 02/07 days/Makati
11..Alanlvsjudy.....11-06-06..xx-xx-xx..xx-xx-xx..03-27-07..2006-824xxx..OK..Apr 02/06 days/Pasay
12..EllaJosh........11-14-06..xx-xx-xx..xx-xx-xx..03-23-07..2006-834xxx..OK..??
13..jackieadam......11-20-06..12-28-06..xx-xx-xx..03-23-07..2006-xxxxxx..OK..Mar 28/05 days/Makati

14..DeaniWait.......11-28-06..12-19-06..02-27-07..04-04-07..2006-842xxx..OK..Apr 11/07 days/Picked up
15..wthornton.......11-28-06..12-19-06..02-26-07..04-04-07..2006-842xxx..??
16..DocMay..........11-15-06..12-12-06..02-26-07..04-10-07..2006-845xxx..AR..
17..George&Jenny....11-27-06..12-12-06..xx-xx-xx..04-10-07..2006-845xxx..OK..Apr 13/03 days/Cagayan de Oro
18..genlramos.......11-17-06..12-19-06..xx-xx-xx..04-11-07..2006-845xxx..OK..Apr 17/06 days/Pasay City
19..DaveandFleur....10-17-06..12-19-06..02-28-07..04-11-07..2006-845xxx..OK
20..PatientlyWait...12-04-06..12-27-06..02-26-07..04-13-07..2006-852xxx..OK..Apr 26/13 days/Las Pinas
21..Kayz............12-14-06..12-27-06..02-26-07..04-16-07..2006-854xxx..OK
22..sanfrancisco....xx-xx-06..xx-xx-xx..xx-xx-xx..04-17-07..2006-8xxxxx..OK
23..supra...........12-07-06..01-08-07..03-03-07..04-18-07..2006-860xxx..OK..Apr 23/05 days/Cebu
24..elmasguapo......12-15-06..01-08-07..xx-xx-xx..04-24-07..2006-xxxxxx..Interview postponed
25..Dean/Gra........12-26-06..01-04-07..02-27-06..04-23-07..2007-503xxx..OK
26..Mike Marivic....01-04-07..01-20-07..02-26-07..04-24-07..2007-508xxx..OK
27..CocoPuff........12-29-06..01-16.07..03-03-07..04-25-07..2007-5xxxxx..OK
28..MarieandBryan...01-10-07..xx-xx-xx..xx-xx-xx..04-27-07..2007-52xxxx..OK

29..Skeeter211......01-17-07..02-27-07..04-02-07..05-03-07..2007-52xxxx
30..chadandlira.....01-25-07..xx-xx-xx..04-02-07..05-09-07..2007-536xxx
31..Honeysweet......02-01-07..02-20-07..xx-xx-xx..05-10-07..2007-540xxx
32..imaskin.........02-07-07..xx-xx-xx..03-30-07..05-24-07..2007-xxxxxx
33..gracy_byron.....02-08-07..02-28-07..xx-xx-xx..05-18-07..2007-xxxxxx
34..chadmides.......02-12-07..xx-xx-xx..xx-xx-xx..05-10-07..2007-547xxx
35..joemaria........02-12-07..02-28-07..xx-xx-xx..05-22-07..2007-55xxx

36..orion44.........02-22-07..xx-xx-xx..xx-xx-xx..06-05-07..2007-xxxxxx
37..David-MaeForev..02-27-07..03-14-07..xx-xx-xx..06-07-07..2007-564xxx
38..JeffK...........03-08-07..xx-xx-xx..xx-xx-xx..06-18-07..2007-573xxx

39..CountryBoy......03-29-07..04-23-07..xx-xx-xx..xx-xx-xx..2007-608xxx
40..trakon2002......04-05-07..xx-xx-xx..xx-xx-xx..xx-xx-xx..2007-xxxxxx

K3 LIST
01..AnneiyandJacky..11-28-06….xx-xx-xx..02-27-07..04-17-07..2006-685xxx..AR..Co-sponsor
02..dj2004..........11-16-06..12-12-06..02-27-07..04-03-07..2006-839xxx..OK
03..luvbugs4ever....12-14-06..12-21-06..03-02-07..04-16-07..2006-8xxxxx..Interview postponed
04..M&M.............11-20-06..xx-xx-xx..03-02-07..04-16-07..2007-503xxx..CR visa approved.
05..Jeff&Boo........12-26-06..01-12-07..02-26-07..04-26-07..2007-5xxxxx

07..CherylandMike...02-05-07..02-26-07..xx-xx-xx..05-16-07..2007-546xxx
08..Robor007........02-06-07..02-26-07..03-30-07..05-15-07..2007-546xxx

IR-1/CR-1
Name.................NOA2.....CASE CMPLT..PACKET..INTERVIEW...MNL CASE#..STATUS
01..w1n78...........09-05-06..11-16-06..02-05-07..03-02-07..2006-764xxx..AR..Mar 23/21 days/Makati
02..soulm8z0928.....09-06-06..11-16-06..02-05-07..03-14-07..2006-76xxxx..OK..Mar 20/06 days/Metro Manila
03..M&M.............09-07-06..11-15-06..02-05-07..03-15-07..2006-765xxx..OK..Mar 19/4days/Taguig
04..dims1...........09-20-06..12-01-06..02-06-07..03-19-07..2006-775xxx..AR..Co-sponsor
05..KimTung.........09-26-06..12-21-06..xx-xx-xx..03-22-07..2006-779xxx..AR..

06..vsmtqhdy........09-25-06..xx-xx-xx..xx-xx-xx..04-20-07..2006-xxxxxx..OK..Apr 27/07 days/San Pedro, Laguna
07..randynrose......09-29-06..02-06-07..03-06-07..04-20-07..2006-xxxxxx..OK
08..StarProg........12-28-06..xx-xx-xx..xx-xx-xx..xx-xx-xx..2007-508xxx
09..Gobruins........12-20-06..04-03-07..xx-xx-xx..05-23-07..2007-50xxxx
10..Robor007........02-06-07..xx-xx-xx..xx-xx-xx..xx-xx-xx..2007-xxxxxx

Hello everyone, it has been awhile since I visited here in the forum. The last 23 days since Rosemarie left me have been very stressful and hard on me emotionally. It seems that I need closure to this awful situation that I have faced with. It is truly difficult to accept that I gave someone 100% of my love and that they could treat me this way.

I had not heard a word from her until Wenesday night. I received an email from her that said she wanted to work things out and was coming back soon. Actually, it was like she re-opened the wound saying that, as it brought about very confusing feelings. I had to think about this a lot. While we were together, her lies were often and she never seemed to be very affectionate. I assumed possibly this was because she was inexperienced in relationships, as well as we are from different cultures. I am then informed she is a lesbian by a cousin of hers and a friend of hers that now lives in the USA. I find these things very unsettling.

She showed up with police here unannounced on Friday and wanted her things. I agreed and allowed her to get everything that was hers and actually carried out her suitcases for her. She made the statement that maybe she will come back. I replied that wasnt a possibility at this point. I told her that she needed to return back to the Philippines. I also informed her that I withdrew my petition for her visa and there will be no greencard or AOS for her. I offered to buy her a ticket back, but told her I would not give her the money, but only a ticket was all. She then replied not to me not to buy it, that herfriends will help her. She is staying with a Filipina here in my city I learned. The filipina is married to a very sick man. I met the girl once and being the intuitive person that I am, I felt as though the girl didn't like me for some reason unexplainable. A filipina friend of my wife has called dthe girl Rosemarie is staying with to talk. She told me that the girl talked awful of me. She said things like I should be charged with rape of my wife? I have never heard such absurd things as this woman said.

I am now of the opinion that my wife not only has used me, but possibly will try to find anyways she can to stay here. I have many questions that I need answered or at least some feedback on.
1. I have withdrawn my petition for her, she has no AOS or greencard. Can she stay here legally anyways?
2. I was under the impression that being I am the sponsor, she by law had to be living with me?
3. Is there a way or do I have any right to know if she is in the USA or back in Philippines?
4. How can I divorce her without her signing the divorce papers? I don't know what address to send them too!
5. Is there a number that I can call for help or to have questions answered?

I somewhat apoligize that I post this here. But, I have been a memeber here a long time and respect the opinions and feedback that I receive here very much. I appreciate the concern and caring of all of you that have replied to me here. I hope and pray that you have happiness and a blessed life together.

Glenn

Glenn, I would love to write an essay here, but will refrain. Ive been following this since day one. Go where youre heart leads you, but always remember: First time shame on you, second time shame on me. Best of luck, Jeff