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Jomo's girl
QUOTE(MyDestinyAwaits @ Jun 13 2007, 01:06 PM) *
QUOTE(Sonshyne @ Jun 13 2007, 11:56 AM) *
QUOTE(MyDestinyAwaits @ Jun 13 2007, 06:36 AM) *
my fiance has never had cable, and when we stay together in a hotel the tv is constantly on. his addiction: sports (specifically soccer & cricket).

Neil didn't have cable either, they only got on channel in yard JTV blink.gif He didn't watch much tv. The few times we stayed in a hotel it was music vidoes, music vidoes and more music vidoes wacko.gif Oh and how did I forget to soccer and cricket blink.gif

One more thing.... Is channel surfing a man thing??? Or is it just my mans thing?


i'm more of the music video junkie. i don't usually just sit and watch tv, so i turn on some music and while i'm doing other things. i could definitely live without cable.

my man on the other hand, will watch the 2 or 3 channels he's got regardless of whether he likes the show or not. one night he was watching pretty woman! lol

he does a lot of channel surfing too, especially during commercial breaks on the sports channel. a few times he's even tried to be considerate and hands me the remote. i just look at him and say, "i don't want that thing."

he has a strange habit that i thought was a guy thing. he'll have the tv on some soccer and then turn on some music. so you can hear sports and music at the same time. it's a sensory overload for me and i can't stand it. so when his boy came over i asked him, "is this a guy thing?" pointing to the tv and the music. he laughed and said no. then, the next day we go visit his sister and guess what? she's got the tv on and the radio at the same time! lol

it was a family thing, not a guy thing.



What's wrong with "Pretty Woman"? The first time Andre saw it, just about a month ago, he loved it.

The place where we live right now is THE BEST for cable. We get every single channel I can imagine, including On Demand, for $35 a month. Our landlord pays for it and divides it by the 4 apartments. I will be spoiled once we move. We'll never be able to afford all of it again.
nyseness
QUOTE(MyDestinyAwaits @ Jun 13 2007, 01:09 PM) *
QUOTE(nyseness @ Jun 13 2007, 02:04 PM) *
QUOTE(FutureMrs @ Jun 13 2007, 11:19 AM) *
You ladies crack me up! I am debating on getting cable or satellite when Marlon gets here but after reading some of the horror stories here I dunno! lol I do know that Marlon is big time into horror and action films and I too have fallen asleep during them! blink.gif I am more of the romantic comedy/comedy/sci-fi type.

Rhonda: I am so sorry to hear that Tony is soooo pigheaded! You WILL talk him out of it and ALL will work out! Hang in there as you are a strong and smart woman!


i was thinking about doing the same thing. he says he has to has the fox soccer channel, and i was hoping that with a dish we could also get some carribean channels too. only thing is i kinda like getting internet and cable all lumped together in one bill.


I was wondering the same thing but I chose Satellite dish instead. I had Comcast at my last apt but the bill was getting out of hand. Now we have Satellite for 4 tv w/DVR's and my bill is only $65 a month w/two premium channels. Not only that it has way more channels.




I have AT&T. I get my DSL, phone, & Dish all on one bill and I get a discount b/c of my phone and internet service.
NotMrs
QUOTE(nyseness @ Jun 13 2007, 11:04 AM) *
QUOTE(FutureMrs @ Jun 13 2007, 11:19 AM) *
You ladies crack me up! I am debating on getting cable or satellite when Marlon gets here but after reading some of the horror stories here I dunno! lol I do know that Marlon is big time into horror and action films and I too have fallen asleep during them! blink.gif I am more of the romantic comedy/comedy/sci-fi type.

Rhonda: I am so sorry to hear that Tony is soooo pigheaded! You WILL talk him out of it and ALL will work out! Hang in there as you are a strong and smart woman!



I was wondering the same thing but I chose Satellite dish instead. I had Comcast at my last apt but the bill was getting out of hand. Now we have Satellite for 4 tv w/DVR's and my bill is only $65 a month w/two premium channels. Not only that it has way more channels.


That's an idea I will have to check into, thanks!
kkholiday2006
QUOTE(Jomo @ Jun 13 2007, 02:08 PM) *
QUOTE(morantbaygirl @ Jun 13 2007, 12:56 PM) *
I loved Royal Decameron in Mobay. I also stayed in a really inexpensive hotel when I got stranded for 3 additional days by a hurricane, it was called the Big Apple . Its a family owned hotel and you have to get a taxi to go into town but the view from the hillside was beautiful. It was 69.00 dollars a night. I have the number at home. No gym or any frills just nice and clean with bootleg cable in very room laughing.gif laughing.gif .



We tried to stay at the Big Apple that night we ended up in that nasty hotel. It was the night of our engagement and we wanted some privacy away from the family. The Big Apple was full. It looked very nice.

To the girl who asked.........did you want more suggestions then just MoBay? Someone else mentioned Negril. I'm sure we could come up with many more recommendations for you. I thought you just wanted MoBay.



My fiance know too many people in Negril. We always end up meeting up with some of his friends there. He wants us to be alone..away from family and friends. So, I'm thinking Mobay or Runaway Bay or Ocho Rios area. I've stayed at Rose Hall Resort in Rose Hall (near Mo bay) and it was nice..but they are going through construction over the summer and ZERO rooms are available for my time period.

jlvr
I have cable now but I'm considering satellite because it seems to offer more channels for the same that I'm paying now. I'm not going to change anything until my fiance gets here, so I'll have to see what's available at that time. I'll definitely have to have something, he watches plenty of TV. I hardly watch TV, so it doesn't matter to me.

kimmy, my fiance did his medical at Tangerine Place. I'm really nervous about the interview, keep trying to think of anything that I may have missed as far as documentation. I'm not going to be happy again until I get the phone call from him afterward.
sjb1221
QUOTE(kkholiday2006 @ Jun 13 2007, 02:39 PM) *
QUOTE(Jomo @ Jun 13 2007, 02:08 PM) *
QUOTE(morantbaygirl @ Jun 13 2007, 12:56 PM) *
I loved Royal Decameron in Mobay. I also stayed in a really inexpensive hotel when I got stranded for 3 additional days by a hurricane, it was called the Big Apple . Its a family owned hotel and you have to get a taxi to go into town but the view from the hillside was beautiful. It was 69.00 dollars a night. I have the number at home. No gym or any frills just nice and clean with bootleg cable in very room laughing.gif laughing.gif .



We tried to stay at the Big Apple that night we ended up in that nasty hotel. It was the night of our engagement and we wanted some privacy away from the family. The Big Apple was full. It looked very nice.

To the girl who asked.........did you want more suggestions then just MoBay? Someone else mentioned Negril. I'm sure we could come up with many more recommendations for you. I thought you just wanted MoBay.



My fiance know too many people in Negril. We always end up meeting up with some of his friends there. He wants us to be alone..away from family and friends. So, I'm thinking Mobay or Runaway Bay or Ocho Rios area. I've stayed at Rose Hall Resort in Rose Hall (near Mo bay) and it was nice..but they are going through construction over the summer and ZERO rooms are available for my time period.


When are you going to JA?
Jonesie
Hey everyone!

Rhonda - stay in prayer. Hubby is thinking of the $ that will provide a better life for you and the baby, and he figures that if you two made it thru immigration being in diff. countries, then him being a few states away should be a breeze. I know you don't agree with it (and if I were in your shoes I wouldn't either) but if he is set on it then sit down with him and work out a plan that includes some compromising heart.gif

SJB - girl I would kill for that job! I need to get in and start working for Babylon laughing.gif

QUOTE(Jomo @ Jun 13 2007, 11:08 AM) *
QUOTE(morantbaygirl @ Jun 13 2007, 12:56 PM) *
I loved Royal Decameron in Mobay. I also stayed in a really inexpensive hotel when I got stranded for 3 additional days by a hurricane, it was called the Big Apple . Its a family owned hotel and you have to get a taxi to go into town but the view from the hillside was beautiful. It was 69.00 dollars a night. I have the number at home. No gym or any frills just nice and clean with bootleg cable in very room laughing.gif laughing.gif .



We tried to stay at the Big Apple that night we ended up in that nasty hotel. It was the night of our engagement and we wanted some privacy away from the family. The Big Apple was full. It looked very nice.

To the girl who asked.........did you want more suggestions then just MoBay? Someone else mentioned Negril. I'm sure we could come up with many more recommendations for you. I thought you just wanted MoBay.


Port Antonio is gorgeous...cannot wait to go back when we go to JA. And hands down Boston Bay has some of the best jerk I've had in Jamaica. San San is a nice local beach, and there are reasonable hotel rates in the area.
kkholiday2006
QUOTE(sjb1221 @ Jun 13 2007, 02:43 PM) *
QUOTE(kkholiday2006 @ Jun 13 2007, 02:39 PM) *
QUOTE(Jomo @ Jun 13 2007, 02:08 PM) *
QUOTE(morantbaygirl @ Jun 13 2007, 12:56 PM) *
I loved Royal Decameron in Mobay. I also stayed in a really inexpensive hotel when I got stranded for 3 additional days by a hurricane, it was called the Big Apple . Its a family owned hotel and you have to get a taxi to go into town but the view from the hillside was beautiful. It was 69.00 dollars a night. I have the number at home. No gym or any frills just nice and clean with bootleg cable in very room laughing.gif laughing.gif .



We tried to stay at the Big Apple that night we ended up in that nasty hotel. It was the night of our engagement and we wanted some privacy away from the family. The Big Apple was full. It looked very nice.

To the girl who asked.........did you want more suggestions then just MoBay? Someone else mentioned Negril. I'm sure we could come up with many more recommendations for you. I thought you just wanted MoBay.



My fiance know too many people in Negril. We always end up meeting up with some of his friends there. He wants us to be alone..away from family and friends. So, I'm thinking Mobay or Runaway Bay or Ocho Rios area. I've stayed at Rose Hall Resort in Rose Hall (near Mo bay) and it was nice..but they are going through construction over the summer and ZERO rooms are available for my time period.


When are you going to JA?



July 13th-16th...just for a weekend
morantbaygirl
QUOTE(kkholiday2006 @ Jun 13 2007, 02:39 PM) *
QUOTE(Jomo @ Jun 13 2007, 02:08 PM) *
QUOTE(morantbaygirl @ Jun 13 2007, 12:56 PM) *
I loved Royal Decameron in Mobay. I also stayed in a really inexpensive hotel when I got stranded for 3 additional days by a hurricane, it was called the Big Apple . Its a family owned hotel and you have to get a taxi to go into town but the view from the hillside was beautiful. It was 69.00 dollars a night. I have the number at home. No gym or any frills just nice and clean with bootleg cable in very room laughing.gif laughing.gif .



We tried to stay at the Big Apple that night we ended up in that nasty hotel. It was the night of our engagement and we wanted some privacy away from the family. The Big Apple was full. It looked very nice.

To the girl who asked.........did you want more suggestions then just MoBay? Someone else mentioned Negril. I'm sure we could come up with many more recommendations for you. I thought you just wanted MoBay.



My fiance know too many people in Negril. We always end up meeting up with some of his friends there. He wants us to be alone..away from family and friends. So, I'm thinking Mobay or Runaway Bay or Ocho Rios area. I've stayed at Rose Hall Resort in Rose Hall (near Mo bay) and it was nice..but they are going through construction over the summer and ZERO rooms are available for my time period.



Club Ambience in Runnaway Bay was really nice and reasonable for all inclusive. But Runnaway Bay is not near anything. There is a laughing.gif strip club across the street with one stripper laughing.gif no0pb.gif . Girl she would never make it in Atlanta evry man in the club was sleep. laughing.gif . It only cost us $10 us to go to Ochi and if you are real adventurous you clould ride the public bus ohmy.gif and fear for your life.
Sonshyne
QUOTE(morantbaygirl @ Jun 13 2007, 12:19 PM) *
Club Ambience in Runnaway Bay was really nice and reasonable for all inclusive. But Runnaway Bay is not near anything. There is a laughing.gif strip club across the street with one stripper laughing.gif no0pb.gif . Girl she would never make it in Atlanta evry man in the club was sleep. laughing.gif . It only cost us $10 us to go to Ochi and if you are real adventurous you clould ride the public bus ohmy.gif and fear for your life.


You know you're wrong for that laughing.gif You got me sitting here at work cracking up laughing.gif laughing.gif
Sonshyne
QUOTE(kimmykashi @ Jun 13 2007, 10:31 AM) *
Hey sonshyne how was ur wedding ?


We haven't jumped the broom yet our wedding date is June 22nd yes.gif
Sonshyne
QUOTE(Jonesie @ Jun 13 2007, 11:46 AM) *
Port Antonio is gorgeous...cannot wait to go back when we go to JA. And hands down Boston Bay has some of the best jerk I've had in Jamaica. San San is a nice local beach, and there are reasonable hotel rates in the area.


Port Antonio is really nice.. We had dinner there when I was there in April.
Mrs. Palmer
Hi everyone! Just checking in to see how everyone is doing...I'm actually preparing to leave for JA to visit my baby on Sunday...I'll be down there for a month!! I can't wait to see him!! kicking.gif kicking.gif good.gif While I'm down there my fiance will be picking out the suits he wants for the wedding...does anyone know of any good photographers near the Ochi area?
waynegeraldine
QUOTE(Sonshyne @ Jun 13 2007, 11:56 AM) *
QUOTE(MyDestinyAwaits @ Jun 13 2007, 06:36 AM) *
my fiance has never had cable, and when we stay together in a hotel the tv is constantly on. his addiction: sports (specifically soccer & cricket).

Neil didn't have cable either, they only got on channel in yard JTV blink.gif He didn't watch much tv. The few times we stayed in a hotel it was music vidoes, music vidoes and more music vidoes wacko.gif Oh and how did I forget to soccer and cricket blink.gif

One more thing.... Is channel surfing a man thing??? Or is it just my mans thing?


A man thing, we can't one channel it's just not possible, men won't watch if the action stops or is paused and we aren't really interested in every last detail of anything on TV except sports. Maybe I should speak for myself whistling.gif
Mrs. Palmer
QUOTE(kkholiday2006 @ Jun 13 2007, 12:32 PM) *
QUOTE(FutureMrs @ Jun 13 2007, 12:19 PM) *
You ladies crack me up! I am debating on getting cable or satellite when Marlon gets here but after reading some of the horror stories here I dunno! lol I do know that Marlon is big time into horror and action films and I too have fallen asleep during them! blink.gif I am more of the romantic comedy/comedy/sci-fi type.

Rhonda: I am so sorry to hear that Tony is soooo pigheaded! You WILL talk him out of it and ALL will work out! Hang in there as you are a strong and smart woman!



My fiance complained so much about my 13 inch tv that I finally updated to a flat screen 20 inch. It was a deal I could not refuse...So now he wants me to throw away a perfectly working 13 inch tv saying that it is too small and a piece of junk. That TV got me through college. Also, I got Direct TV so that I can watch shows with him....via telephone....and we crack up laughing together. I miss him.

Has anyone stayed at Rooms on the Beach in Ocho Rios/Runaway Bay? The are having a great deal $94 a night...but it seems a little suspect.

If not, what a nice place either Montego Bay or Ocho area to stay?



Whenever my fiance and I wanted to get away from family and friends we would go to MoBay and stay at Toby's Resort...it's pretty cool...decent, clean, safe, quiet, decent food, and cable channels...I enjoyed staying there each time I went (and the staff are nice too)...In Ochi, my friends and I stayed at the Crane Ridge Resort once (back in Oct '05)...it was nice, plus it has a kitchenette, nice pool and pool bar (but you have to keep bugging the staff about towels)...other than that, it was cool too....
Hotlegz
QUOTE(jlvr @ Jun 13 2007, 02:42 PM) *
I have cable now but I'm considering satellite because it seems to offer more channels for the same that I'm paying now. I'm not going to change anything until my fiance gets here, so I'll have to see what's available at that time. I'll definitely have to have something, he watches plenty of TV. I hardly watch TV, so it doesn't matter to me.

kimmy, my fiance did his medical at Tangerine Place. I'm really nervous about the interview, keep trying to think of anything that I may have missed as far as documentation. I'm not going to be happy again until I get the phone call from him afterward.



I know...u wanna post what u have..for a run thru ?
Hotlegz
QUOTE(Sonshyne @ Jun 13 2007, 03:41 PM) *
QUOTE(kimmykashi @ Jun 13 2007, 10:31 AM) *
Hey sonshyne how was ur wedding ?


We haven't jumped the broom yet our wedding date is June 22nd yes.gif



Oh ok..kool...
Jonesie
QUOTE(Belly @ Jun 13 2007, 12:46 PM) *
Hi everyone! Just checking in to see how everyone is doing...I'm actually preparing to leave for JA to visit my baby on Sunday...I'll be down there for a month!! I can't wait to see him!! kicking.gif kicking.gif good.gif While I'm down there my fiance will be picking out the suits he wants for the wedding...does anyone know of any good photographers near the Ochi area?


They are in Negril but really nice ppl - met them when I was living in JA. They are on my list of photographers to use when we renew vows in JA
http://sungoldphotojamaica.com/ and they travel for a nominal fee

Also try http://www.tropicalweddingsjamaica.com/ they are located in Ochi

Have a great month in JA kicking.gif

QUOTE(Sonshyne @ Jun 13 2007, 12:41 PM) *
QUOTE(kimmykashi @ Jun 13 2007, 10:31 AM) *
Hey sonshyne how was ur wedding ?


We haven't jumped the broom yet our wedding date is June 22nd yes.gif


Congrats yes.gif

QUOTE(Sonshyne @ Jun 13 2007, 12:38 PM) *
QUOTE(morantbaygirl @ Jun 13 2007, 12:19 PM) *
Club Ambience in Runnaway Bay was really nice and reasonable for all inclusive. But Runnaway Bay is not near anything. There is a laughing.gif strip club across the street with one stripper laughing.gif no0pb.gif . Girl she would never make it in Atlanta evry man in the club was sleep. laughing.gif . It only cost us $10 us to go to Ochi and if you are real adventurous you clould ride the public bus ohmy.gif and fear for your life.


You know you're wrong for that laughing.gif You got me sitting here at work cracking up laughing.gif laughing.gif


laughing.gif been to a few of the clubs in Negril and one thing I can say is that the owners were definitely equal opportunity employers laughing.gif every body type, age, nationality, etc. you could think of was in there. The music was good but since I don't swing that way I was bored...extremely bored.
nannygirl82
well some good news to report...mike got a job today!!! nailed it on his first interview!!! so proud of him kicking.gif kicking.gif
BelwinMills
QUOTE(nannygirl82 @ Jun 13 2007, 08:14 PM) *
well some good news to report...mike got a job today!!! nailed it on his first interview!!! so proud of him kicking.gif kicking.gif

Congratulations Shauna! Whoo Mike. What will he be doing?
BelwinMills
QUOTE(rhondapayter @ Jun 13 2007, 02:54 AM) *
QUOTE(BelwinMills @ Jun 12 2007, 08:52 PM) *
My temper in this sistution would be crazy mad. I would talk to him and try to reason with him.

Add to that my raging hormones and out of control emotions and it's no wonder we had a HUGE fight yesterday over the phone crying.gif He mentioned this whole thing about a month ago and I told him THEN that it was a very bad idea and I was not going to be ok with it. Then he tells me yesterday that he already signed the paperwork for it mad.gif ranting33va.gif Without even talking it over with me!! I'm hurt, upset, mad, scared, worried ..... I'm losing my mind. Then he has the nerve to tell me today that we'll talk about it but he's already made up his mind! What the f***????? I don't get any say in this??? I am sooooooo MAD. mad.gif

Could he try to get another job near you guys. Dwain has considered driving a truck from Lowes. Which is 12 hours a day and makes more money than me with a masters degree in teaching. There also companies where you drive the whole week and then get the weekends off and he would still be close to home. My cousin is a truck driver and makes some real good cash and never can spend it cause he is on the road all the time.
jlvr
QUOTE(kimmykashi @ Jun 13 2007, 04:12 PM) *
QUOTE(jlvr @ Jun 13 2007, 02:42 PM) *
I have cable now but I'm considering satellite because it seems to offer more channels for the same that I'm paying now. I'm not going to change anything until my fiance gets here, so I'll have to see what's available at that time. I'll definitely have to have something, he watches plenty of TV. I hardly watch TV, so it doesn't matter to me.

kimmy, my fiance did his medical at Tangerine Place. I'm really nervous about the interview, keep trying to think of anything that I may have missed as far as documentation. I'm not going to be happy again until I get the phone call from him afterward.



I know...u wanna post what u have..for a run thru ?

Okay

DS-230 part II
DS-156
DS-156K
DS-157
I-134
-Copy of 2003-2006 Tax Returns
-Bank letter
-Two months of bank statements
-Two paystubs
-Employment letter
Birth certificate (mine and his)
No Impediment Certificate
Police Certificate
Letter of intent (mine and his)
His passport
Passport photos
Copy of my boarding pass and itinerary
Two months of phone records
NOA2
Copy of I-129 Packet

I know that I've all that I can on my end but I'll be anxious anyway. I can't even think of what I'd do if he were denied.
jlvr
QUOTE(nannygirl82 @ Jun 13 2007, 09:14 PM) *
well some good news to report...mike got a job today!!! nailed it on his first interview!!! so proud of him kicking.gif kicking.gif

Congratulations, that's great.

Congratulations, Sonshyne, on the upcoming wedding. I'm busy planning my own, but I refuse to really plan until I get a call on June 19.

Rhonda, I'm sorry to hear about this situation with your husband, even though I haven't posted about it. I hope that it works out okay.
BelwinMills
QUOTE(Sonshyne @ Jun 13 2007, 02:41 PM) *
QUOTE(kimmykashi @ Jun 13 2007, 10:31 AM) *
Hey sonshyne how was ur wedding ?


We haven't jumped the broom yet our wedding date is June 22nd yes.gif

Pam all the best with your wedding plans.
Elizabethnhenry
Hey There Old Timers!!! Hi there Newbies!!!

Ah wah gwaan!!??? Hey Rhonda, Kelly, Jonesie, Jamie, BellwinMills, Mindy!!! Where's MsSquito?? It has been so long, I forgot my password! ohmy.gif Just popping in to say hi; I can't keep up anymore with daily or even weekly forum activity, but I do think of you all often. Very often. luv.gif

I was in JA last week - only a 6 day trip. It rained A LOT, and I nearly lost all internal organs on those Portland to Ochee roads, but it was still a nice trip. I was very cranky to see all the trees laden with GREEN mangoes! no0pb.gif HMMPFF! I did manage to pay some highway robbers $150JA each for some Julie mangoes. Got some naseberry and of course my coconut jelly. Some apples (cashews to the Guyanese) and soursop too. Saw some guavas but they looked huge and wierd so I did not eat them. laughing.gif

For those of you who remember us, Henry and I are doing well. He is still working at the hospital and working a lot of overtime; only taking one class this semester. We are trying to save as much as we can.

We looked into buying a little house in JA, but the thought of two mortgages was darn scary and the max loan to a US citizen is 70% and to a JA citizen who is resident overseas is 80% so you need a healthy downpayment. We decided to buy an acre of land and build a house the way Anna's parents did-- one section at a time. (Hey Anna!!! How's life in Chitown!??)

The question now is where - so we spent a week driving all around. Henry is from St. Thomas, but I am not feeling it (sorry St. Thomas folks). I really want to be over in Hanover. I just love all the history and feel of that parish and I hope we can get something in or just outside Lucea or Green Island before the prices go TOTALLY nuts...as they have begun climbing with all the recent resort and subdivision developments.

Anywho, that's about all I have for an update. If anyone else is buying or building at this time or did in the past, I would love to hear from you. yes.gif

So be well all of you.

HUGS to all old timers. Hope things are going well for you. rose.gif

Hope everyone is doing well.
rhondapayter
QUOTE(AlienUKGirl @ Jun 13 2007, 07:34 AM) *
Does your company have any branches where he's going to be working??
If they do, maybe you could transfer without losing your benefits?

No - no GM plants down there. It's very difficult to transfer too even if there was. Also, I need to be near my doctor - the appointments are just going to get more frequent as I get further along. I've been with the same doc for over 10 years. Since I'm slightly high risk, I need someone who knows my history to keep an eye on me.

QUOTE(Jomo @ Jun 13 2007, 08:31 AM) *
I talked to Andre about this last night and he said your husband is crazy. He said he doesn't even want to work the night shift cause he wants to be able to sleep next to me.

I'm really starting to think he just doesn't love me or care about me anymore crying.gif
rhondapayter
QUOTE(MyDestinyAwaits @ Jun 13 2007, 09:36 AM) *
rhonda, i'd also be shocked and insanely pissed off if my husband signed papers to do something as major as that without first consulting me. i can't believe that he has his mind set on it. he's actually okay with potentially (or probably) missing the baby's birth?

He says he's going to take a month off when the baby is born, but how's he going to know exactly when I'm going to go into labor??? He's such as a**hole ranting33va.gif The "D" word came up today more than once. We had another HUGE fight over the phone.
rhondapayter
QUOTE(Sonshyne @ Jun 13 2007, 11:37 AM) *
QUOTE(sjb1221 @ Jun 13 2007, 08:30 AM) *
I had to fake a headache to get out of going...he had a wonderful time...I had a few hours to myself kicking.gif


laughing.gif laughing.gif I've had to do this a few times myself whistling.gif

I have the opposite problem - I NEVER see my man crying.gif
rhondapayter
QUOTE(kkholiday2006 @ Jun 13 2007, 12:32 PM) *
Has anyone stayed at Rooms on the Beach in Ocho Rios/Runaway Bay? The are having a great deal $94 a night...but it seems a little suspect.

YES yes.gif I love that place!! We stayed there last time I was in JA (Aug. 06) and we're staying there again this August. I got our room for $75 a night this time!! You can PM me or e-mail me if you need more info.
rhondapayter
QUOTE(Jonesie @ Jun 13 2007, 02:46 PM) *
Rhonda - stay in prayer. Hubby is thinking of the $ that will provide a better life for you and the baby, and he figures that if you two made it thru immigration being in diff. countries, then him being a few states away should be a breeze. I know you don't agree with it (and if I were in your shoes I wouldn't either) but if he is set on it then sit down with him and work out a plan that includes some compromising heart.gif

Thanks Jonesie luv.gif
rhondapayter
QUOTE(BelwinMills @ Jun 13 2007, 09:30 PM) *
Could he try to get another job near you guys.

That's the first thing I said too. He claims he's tried, but I know otherwise. This just seems like a huge money making opportunity to him and he can not be talked out of it. He had the nerve to tell me that I'M being selfish no0pb.gif ohmy.gif He said that finally something good was happening for him and I have to try and shoot it down.
rhondapayter
QUOTE(Elizabethnhenry @ Jun 13 2007, 11:29 PM) *
Hey There Old Timers!!! Hi there Newbies!!!

Ah wah gwaan!!??? Hey Rhonda, Kelly, Jonesie, Jamie, BellwinMills, Mindy!!! Where's MsSquito?? It has been so long, I forgot my password! ohmy.gif Just popping in to say hi; I can't keep up anymore with daily or even weekly forum activity, but I do think of you all often. Very often. luv.gif

It's so nice to see you kicking.gif I'm glad everything is going well for you guys. Don't be such a stranger!!
JaEnglishGirl
QUOTE(rhondapayter @ Jun 14 2007, 07:53 AM) *
QUOTE(BelwinMills @ Jun 13 2007, 09:30 PM) *
Could he try to get another job near you guys.

That's the first thing I said too. He claims he's tried, but I know otherwise. This just seems like a huge money making opportunity to him and he can not be talked out of it. He had the nerve to tell me that I'M being selfish no0pb.gif ohmy.gif He said that finally something good was happening for him and I have to try and shoot it down.

Really sorry to hear this sad.gif
There's just no advice I have to give about this, apart from talk it through and do your utmost best to show him how much this means to you sad.gif
I can definitely understand him wanting to make a lot of money for the baby, and if this is his first real chance to make a lot, I can see him perhaps seeing this as his chance to equal your salary and maybe thinking you want to be the major money earner in the house.
All I can say is try and make him see that having him close to you means far more than money and to your family unit. And the best start he could possibly give to his child is supporting you emotionally.

My heart goes out to you, with my first pregnancy I had a lot of problems to deal with regarding his father and it was a living nightmare, wouldn't wish the stress on anyone.

Praying you two reach a resolution.
Hotlegz
QUOTE(jlvr @ Jun 13 2007, 09:39 PM) *
QUOTE(kimmykashi @ Jun 13 2007, 04:12 PM) *
QUOTE(jlvr @ Jun 13 2007, 02:42 PM) *
I have cable now but I'm considering satellite because it seems to offer more channels for the same that I'm paying now. I'm not going to change anything until my fiance gets here, so I'll have to see what's available at that time. I'll definitely have to have something, he watches plenty of TV. I hardly watch TV, so it doesn't matter to me.

kimmy, my fiance did his medical at Tangerine Place. I'm really nervous about the interview, keep trying to think of anything that I may have missed as far as documentation. I'm not going to be happy again until I get the phone call from him afterward.



I know...u wanna post what u have..for a run thru ?

Okay

DS-230 part II
DS-156
DS-156K
DS-157
I-134
-Copy of 2003-2006 Tax Returns
-Bank letter
-Two months of bank statements
-Two paystubs
-Employment letter
Birth certificate (mine and his)
No Impediment Certificate
Police Certificate
Letter of intent (mine and his)
His passport
Passport photos
Copy of my boarding pass and itinerary
Two months of phone records
NOA2
Copy of I-129 Packet

I know that I've all that I can on my end but I'll be anxious anyway. I can't even think of what I'd do if he were denied.



U are FINE !...everything will go well..u won't get denied...
Hotlegz
QUOTE(rhondapayter @ Jun 14 2007, 02:27 AM) *
QUOTE(AlienUKGirl @ Jun 13 2007, 07:34 AM) *
Does your company have any branches where he's going to be working??
If they do, maybe you could transfer without losing your benefits?

No - no GM plants down there. It's very difficult to transfer too even if there was. Also, I need to be near my doctor - the appointments are just going to get more frequent as I get further along. I've been with the same doc for over 10 years. Since I'm slightly high risk, I need someone who knows my history to keep an eye on me.

QUOTE(Jomo @ Jun 13 2007, 08:31 AM) *
I talked to Andre about this last night and he said your husband is crazy. He said he doesn't even want to work the night shift cause he wants to be able to sleep next to me.

I'm really starting to think he just doesn't love me or care about me anymore crying.gif


OHH Rhonda...I don't think so, it could be he's scared and trying to find an outlet.. I'm sure he loves u..he cannot see past $$$ cause he wants to take of the baby and u WELL..I know it's easier said than done...but keep the faith ...it will work out
waynegeraldine
Do I really need to get a copy of my Birth Certificate for the interview, I'm a naturalized U.S. citizen,

Thanks for your help.
jlvr
QUOTE(waynegeraldine @ Jun 14 2007, 08:05 AM) *
Do I really need to get a copy of my Birth Certificate for the interview, I'm a naturalized U.S. citizen,

Thanks for your help.

I read somewhere that they can ask for the originals at any time. But that might have meant at the service center before it gets to NVC. I just sent it anyway, just in case.
jlvr
QUOTE(rhondapayter @ Jun 14 2007, 02:53 AM) *
QUOTE(BelwinMills @ Jun 13 2007, 09:30 PM) *
Could he try to get another job near you guys.

That's the first thing I said too. He claims he's tried, but I know otherwise. This just seems like a huge money making opportunity to him and he can not be talked out of it. He had the nerve to tell me that I'M being selfish no0pb.gif ohmy.gif He said that finally something good was happening for him and I have to try and shoot it down.

Oh Rhonda, I'm really sorry that this is happening and making you so miserable while you're pregnant. Please try not to stress too much, although that sounds ludicrous. Let him know that the stress is not good for the baby. I don't know of any other advice, except what Jonesie said. Maybe the two of you need to find a compromise.
Sonshyne
QUOTE(nannygirl82 @ Jun 13 2007, 06:14 PM) *
well some good news to report...mike got a job today!!! nailed it on his first interview!!! so proud of him kicking.gif kicking.gif


Congrats to your husband kicking.gif
nannygirl82
QUOTE(BelwinMills @ Jun 13 2007, 09:20 PM) *
QUOTE(nannygirl82 @ Jun 13 2007, 08:14 PM) *
well some good news to report...mike got a job today!!! nailed it on his first interview!!! so proud of him kicking.gif kicking.gif

Congratulations Shauna! Whoo Mike. What will he be doing?


he will be working at toy's r 'us unloading the trucks...restocking the shelves....all that fun stuff....mike said the guy pretty much just looked at how tall he was and said yup your are hired laughing.gif he said the guy was very interested in what he did with the sting rays and they were talking about JA cause he had just come back...so i think it will be a great job for him!!
Jomo's girl
FYI:


US Embassy warns against fraudulent visa appointments
published: Thursday | June 14, 2007

The United States Embassy in St. Andrew says it is investigating the attempted manipulation of its online non-immigrant visa appointment system.

In a statement yesterday, the embassy said it was also warning the Jamaican public to avoid dealing with persons offering to procure early visa appointments.

"All applicants for U.S. visitor visas are required to give their full name, passport number and Paymaster receipt number to reserve a visa appointment," the embassy said. "A growing number of appointments made on the embassy's online system contain fictitious information and have been made simply to hold a place in our interview schedule."

Fictitious appointments

The embassy added: "These fictitious appointments cause problems for everyone, especially by adding to the waiting time for legitimate travellers from Jamaica to secure a timely appointment."

The embassy said persons found to be tampering with the appointment database and/or filing fraudulent appointments will be reported to the Jamaican authorities for possible criminal prosecution.

Also, according to the statement, persons entering the U.S. Embassy with falsified appointment letters will be denied visas and may be subject to permanent visa ineligibility.

All applicants or honest, reliable persons acting on their behalf should schedule visa appointments online at: https://evisaforms.state.gov/default. asp?postcode=KNG&appcode=3

This is an electronic calendar that will show available dates and times.

Applicants should avoid people or businesses that claim to be able to schedule expedited appointments. There is no charge for scheduling visa interview appointments (including emergency appointments) on the embassy's electronic calendar.

If you believe that a travel agent or individual is providing questionable services, please inform the embassy at kingstonvisas@state.gov so that we can act to prevent other applicants from being charged high fees for fraudulent services.

The embassy is also urging applicants who change their appointments to remember to delete their previous dates to allow the other slots to be made available for other applicants.

Any individual who reserves more than one date at the same time invites having one or both of the appointments deleted.


Jengles
QUOTE(Belly @ Jun 13 2007, 03:46 PM) *
Hi everyone! Just checking in to see how everyone is doing...I'm actually preparing to leave for JA to visit my baby on Sunday...I'll be down there for a month!! I can't wait to see him!! kicking.gif kicking.gif good.gif While I'm down there my fiance will be picking out the suits he wants for the wedding...does anyone know of any good photographers near the Ochi area?



I got married in Ochi, if you want I can send pm you our photographer's number he also did the video.
DonnaJay
QUOTE(Jomo @ Jun 14 2007, 08:40 AM) *
FYI:


US Embassy warns against fraudulent visa appointments
published: Thursday | June 14, 2007

The United States Embassy in St. Andrew says it is investigating the attempted manipulation of its online non-immigrant visa appointment system.

In a statement yesterday, the embassy said it was also warning the Jamaican public to avoid dealing with persons offering to procure early visa appointments.

"All applicants for U.S. visitor visas are required to give their full name, passport number and Paymaster receipt number to reserve a visa appointment," the embassy said. "A growing number of appointments made on the embassy's online system contain fictitious information and have been made simply to hold a place in our interview schedule."

Fictitious appointments

The embassy added: "These fictitious appointments cause problems for everyone, especially by adding to the waiting time for legitimate travellers from Jamaica to secure a timely appointment."

The embassy said persons found to be tampering with the appointment database and/or filing fraudulent appointments will be reported to the Jamaican authorities for possible criminal prosecution.

Also, according to the statement, persons entering the U.S. Embassy with falsified appointment letters will be denied visas and may be subject to permanent visa ineligibility.

All applicants or honest, reliable persons acting on their behalf should schedule visa appointments online at: https://evisaforms.state.gov/default. asp?postcode=KNG&appcode=3

This is an electronic calendar that will show available dates and times.

Applicants should avoid people or businesses that claim to be able to schedule expedited appointments. There is no charge for scheduling visa interview appointments (including emergency appointments) on the embassy's electronic calendar.

If you believe that a travel agent or individual is providing questionable services, please inform the embassy at kingstonvisas@state.gov so that we can act to prevent other applicants from being charged high fees for fraudulent services.

The embassy is also urging applicants who change their appointments to remember to delete their previous dates to allow the other slots to be made available for other applicants.

Any individual who reserves more than one date at the same time invites having one or both of the appointments deleted.



Is it necessary to set an appointment date here, https://evisaforms.state.gov? The DS-230 part 1 was sent in to the embassy. I thought after they received the DS-230 an appointment would be set up? Do I need to fill out the DS-156 now and get an appointment or wait and get an appointment when I call the embassy?
Jengles


Hubby told me last night about the visa fraud going on down there, it was announced over the radio. he told me it cost $180K JA to get a visa, because everyone from security to the interviewing officer has to get their cut.

Hopefully, this will speed up the process for people who are waiting patiently to get legitimate appointments.
Jengles
QUOTE(Jay_Donna @ Jun 14 2007, 09:10 AM) *
QUOTE(Jomo @ Jun 14 2007, 08:40 AM) *
FYI:


US Embassy warns against fraudulent visa appointments
published: Thursday | June 14, 2007

The United States Embassy in St. Andrew says it is investigating the attempted manipulation of its online non-immigrant visa appointment system.

In a statement yesterday, the embassy said it was also warning the Jamaican public to avoid dealing with persons offering to procure early visa appointments.

"All applicants for U.S. visitor visas are required to give their full name, passport number and Paymaster receipt number to reserve a visa appointment," the embassy said. "A growing number of appointments made on the embassy's online system contain fictitious information and have been made simply to hold a place in our interview schedule."

Fictitious appointments

The embassy added: "These fictitious appointments cause problems for everyone, especially by adding to the waiting time for legitimate travellers from Jamaica to secure a timely appointment."

The embassy said persons found to be tampering with the appointment database and/or filing fraudulent appointments will be reported to the Jamaican authorities for possible criminal prosecution.

Also, according to the statement, persons entering the U.S. Embassy with falsified appointment letters will be denied visas and may be subject to permanent visa ineligibility.

All applicants or honest, reliable persons acting on their behalf should schedule visa appointments online at: https://evisaforms.state.gov/default. asp?postcode=KNG&appcode=3

This is an electronic calendar that will show available dates and times.

Applicants should avoid people or businesses that claim to be able to schedule expedited appointments. There is no charge for scheduling visa interview appointments (including emergency appointments) on the embassy's electronic calendar.

If you believe that a travel agent or individual is providing questionable services, please inform the embassy at kingstonvisas@state.gov so that we can act to prevent other applicants from being charged high fees for fraudulent services.

The embassy is also urging applicants who change their appointments to remember to delete their previous dates to allow the other slots to be made available for other applicants.

Any individual who reserves more than one date at the same time invites having one or both of the appointments deleted.



Is it necessary to set an appointment date here, https://evisaforms.state.gov? The DS-230 part 1 was sent in to the embassy. I thought after they received the DS-230 an appointment would be set up? Do I need to fill out the DS-156 now and get an appointment or wait and get an appointment when I call the embassy?



No that is for vistor's visas. The embassy will set a date for your for you and will mail the letter to you
NotMrs
Congrats to Mike on the new job! kicking.gif

Rhonda: Hang in there, we are all here for you! rose.gif

Evidently Kingston received Marlon's DS-230 but they are waiting for the package from the NVC. Should have that interview date soon, I hope! good.gif
kkholiday2006
QUOTE(Jomo @ Jun 14 2007, 08:40 AM) *
FYI:


US Embassy warns against fraudulent visa appointments
published: Thursday | June 14, 2007

The United States Embassy in St. Andrew says it is investigating the attempted manipulation of its online non-immigrant visa appointment system.

In a statement yesterday, the embassy said it was also warning the Jamaican public to avoid dealing with persons offering to procure early visa appointments.

"All applicants for U.S. visitor visas are required to give their full name, passport number and Paymaster receipt number to reserve a visa appointment," the embassy said. "A growing number of appointments made on the embassy's online system contain fictitious information and have been made simply to hold a place in our interview schedule."

Fictitious appointments

The embassy added: "These fictitious appointments cause problems for everyone, especially by adding to the waiting time for legitimate travellers from Jamaica to secure a timely appointment."

The embassy said persons found to be tampering with the appointment database and/or filing fraudulent appointments will be reported to the Jamaican authorities for possible criminal prosecution.

Also, according to the statement, persons entering the U.S. Embassy with falsified appointment letters will be denied visas and may be subject to permanent visa ineligibility.

All applicants or honest, reliable persons acting on their behalf should schedule visa appointments online at: https://evisaforms.state.gov/default. asp?postcode=KNG&appcode=3

This is an electronic calendar that will show available dates and times.

Applicants should avoid people or businesses that claim to be able to schedule expedited appointments. There is no charge for scheduling visa interview appointments (including emergency appointments) on the embassy's electronic calendar.

If you believe that a travel agent or individual is providing questionable services, please inform the embassy at kingstonvisas@state.gov so that we can act to prevent other applicants from being charged high fees for fraudulent services.

The embassy is also urging applicants who change their appointments to remember to delete their previous dates to allow the other slots to be made available for other applicants.

Any individual who reserves more than one date at the same time invites having one or both of the appointments deleted.



This explains why they are giving out appointments that are like 45 days away.
waynegeraldine
Ending my journey

I want to say a big thank you to all of you guys and I wish you all the success and happiness in your relationships, I apologise for sullying up the joyfulnes of the board.

I would just like to say that I'm ending my Visa Journey, I don't think my fiance is ready for marriage, we have gone through a lot and I have tolerated a lot to get to this point, I have finally decided that it makes no sense to continue to relationship anymore and I'm officially ending my Journey. Thanks for all you answers and personal messages.


Lee
Jomo's girl
QUOTE(waynegeraldine @ Jun 14 2007, 12:27 PM) *
Ending my journey

I want to say a big thank you to all of you guys and I wish you all the success and happiness in your relationships, I apologise for sullying up the joyfulnes of the board.

I would just like to say that I'm ending my Visa Journey, I don't think my fiance is ready for marriage, we have gone through a lot and I have tolerated a lot to get to this point, I have finally decided that it makes no sense to continue to relationship anymore and I'm officially ending my Journey. Thanks for all you answers and personal messages.


Lee


I'm so sorry to hear that Lee. Best of luck to you in everything in your future.
Hotlegz
QUOTE(waynegeraldine @ Jun 14 2007, 08:05 AM) *
Do I really need to get a copy of my Birth Certificate for the interview, I'm a naturalized U.S. citizen,

Thanks for your help.


U should take it with you, u never know with them

QUOTE(waynegeraldine @ Jun 14 2007, 01:27 PM) *
Ending my journey

I want to say a big thank you to all of you guys and I wish you all the success and happiness in your relationships, I apologise for sullying up the joyfulnes of the board.

I would just like to say that I'm ending my Visa Journey, I don't think my fiance is ready for marriage, we have gone through a lot and I have tolerated a lot to get to this point, I have finally decided that it makes no sense to continue to relationship anymore and I'm officially ending my Journey. Thanks for all you answers and personal messages.


Lee


Sorry to hear that Lee, I always say better now than later

Good luck
Kimmy
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