QUOTE(rhondapayter @ Jun 12 2007, 08:13 AM)

Ladies I have a big dilemma. Tony wants to go to Louisiana to work for 8 months!

The work would start in September. The baby is due in December. He says he would come home on weekends. I have a HUGE problem with this and he doesn't seem to understand or he just doesnt' care. All he sees are $$$ signs. I do not want to be a single mom. This is my first baby - I am scared to death

I do not want a weekend relationship with my husband - I want him there every day. I had enough of long distance relationship BS when he was still in Jamaica.
Not to mention, there are no direct flights from there to Detroit and the flights cost about $400 each!! That would be $1600 a month in plane fares plus he would have to rent an apartment down there for during the week. He doesn't seem to understand the insanity of his plan. The more I try to talk him out of it, the more stubborn and determined he is to make it happen. Please advise

Oh myyyy....I totally understand him wanting to make some mega bucks, especially with the baby coming, he wants to be able to provide...But I would flip my lid if my other half suggested doing this!!
He says he'll come back on weekends, but I would lay money on him coming back for the first few, then the visits getting further and further apart

WOuld it be worth talking to his mom or sister maybe?
They would understand how you feel about being left alone while pregnant, even though I'd go ape even if I wasn't!!
I would be scared of being home alone, when you're pregnant ANYTHING can happen

Again, you hardly see enough of him as it is with your crazy shifts....
Maybe sitting him down and telling him how much you love him and how much you desperately need him around now more than ever might work.