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darlene
QUOTE(finesse @ May 2 2007, 03:07 PM) *
I returned home from JA last night and what better welcome home gift than an email from the embassy with news of our interview date of June 19th!!!!! Its like God felt my sadness and wanted to lift me up.....Thank you God for that...thank you.



Congratulations! good.gif
The good news just keeps rolling in.
Sonshyne
QUOTE(finesse @ May 2 2007, 12:07 PM) *
I returned home from JA last night and what better welcome home gift than an email from the embassy with news of our interview date of June 19th!!!!! Its like God felt my sadness and wanted to lift me up.....Thank you God for that...thank you.



Congrats that's a great welcome home gift kicking.gif kicking.gif
brownnskinn
QUOTE(kimlbs @ May 2 2007, 11:43 AM) *
QUOTE(Denden @ May 2 2007, 04:13 AM) *
kicking.gif Congrats on all the great news/ approvals/ touches......I wish someone would send some our way blush.gif


Dee...are you guys still waiting for the green card??? If so.....I might suggest writing to your local congressman and senators office. I also called USCIS and asked for a supervisor.....I filed an over 90 day inquiry.....I am not sure if this actually helped us but we got the approval about 4 weeks after and received a letter from USCIS last week responding to my inquiry and said they expedited processing and approved the case!!! SO.....I think this worked...they are afraid of getting sued....many folks are filing lawsuits against USCIS due to the LONGGGG waits.....


I've done all of this. We were told two months ago, by letter that we were we are still pending a security clearance, and to renotify them if we had not heard anything in 6 months huh.gif
nyseness
Hi Ladies and Eric. I have a quick question.

I'm thinking of moving the end of the month but to a different apt (2nd flr) not a different bldg. I say "thinking" b/c it's a $100 increase in rent (currently paying $1000) BUT my heat bill will be less. I have poor installation where I currently live even though my heat is usually on 65 my bill is STILL over $150 each month!!! It's a much bigger space (also a 2 bedroom) and think it would be nice for us esp since we will be filing for Javon's son eventually (whenever Javon FINALLY arrives).

IF I were to move should I contact USCIS and have my address change or should I do nothing? Only the apt # would have from 3R to 2N.
brownnskinn
QUOTE(nyseness @ May 2 2007, 04:35 PM) *
Hi Ladies and Eric. I have a quick question.

I'm thinking of moving the end of the month but to a different apt (2nd flr) not a different bldg. I say "thinking" b/c it's a $100 increase in rent (currently paying $1000) BUT my heat bill will be less. I have poor installation where I currently live even though my heat is usually on 65 my bill is STILL over $150 each month!!! It's a much bigger space (also a 2 bedroom) and think it would be nice for us esp since we will be filing for Javon's son eventually (whenever Javon FINALLY arrives).

Should I contact USCIS and have my address change or should I do nothing?


I think you have 10 days to notifiy them once you move.
nyseness
QUOTE(Denden @ May 2 2007, 04:40 PM) *
QUOTE(nyseness @ May 2 2007, 04:35 PM) *
Hi Ladies and Eric. I have a quick question.

I'm thinking of moving the end of the month but to a different apt (2nd flr) not a different bldg. I say "thinking" b/c it's a $100 increase in rent (currently paying $1000) BUT my heat bill will be less. I have poor installation where I currently live even though my heat is usually on 65 my bill is STILL over $150 each month!!! It's a much bigger space (also a 2 bedroom) and think it would be nice for us esp since we will be filing for Javon's son eventually (whenever Javon FINALLY arrives).

Should I contact USCIS and have my address change or should I do nothing?


I think you have 10 days to notifiy them once you move.


Thanks Dee but I was wondering should I tell them or no? Would an apt # really make a difference? I wonder if that will make them look my file (in case is lost or something...)? blush.gif Just a thought.
jlvr
QUOTE(darlene @ May 1 2007, 06:25 PM) *
ADJUSTMENT OF STATUS APPROVED TODAY!
kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif

Congratulations, darlene, that's great news.
jlvr
QUOTE(Marlita @ May 2 2007, 03:07 AM) *
QUOTE(jlvr @ Apr 30 2007, 06:43 PM) *
I got an email from the embassy today. My fiance's interview has been scheduled for June 19. kicking.gif

That seems so long now. crying.gif But I'm relieved to finally have a date. yes.gif


good.gif Wow! That was quick! What 4 months?! How did you do that? You gotta tell me your secret! Please, please.

I think a large part of it was being able to file through VSC. I went from NOA1 to NOA2 in a month. And I guess not waiting to receive packet 3 in the mail helped speed things, too.
jlvr
QUOTE(kimlbs @ May 1 2007, 10:46 PM) *
QUOTE(kimmykashi @ May 1 2007, 03:38 PM) *
HEY ALL...DOES ANYONE KNOW OR HAS EVER RESCHEDULED AN INTERVIEW DATE ? I AM HAVING SOME ISSUES AND A RESCHEDULE WOULD BE GREAT...

THANKS
KIMMY


I know a few people that had to reschedule. They moved won't reschedule for an earlier date but they will schedule for a later date. At least that is how it used to be......


kicking.gif kicking.gif GREEN CARD arrived today!!!! kicking.gif kicking.gif

Aunt Flo....still waiting....... whistling.gif whistling.gif

Congratulations, kimlbs.
jlvr
QUOTE(kkholiday2006 @ May 2 2007, 09:25 AM) *
Got NOA2 email yesterday...well this morning!!!!

Congratulations, good luck with the rest.
Hotlegz
QUOTE(nyseness @ May 2 2007, 05:35 PM) *
Hi Ladies and Eric. I have a quick question.

I'm thinking of moving the end of the month but to a different apt (2nd flr) not a different bldg. I say "thinking" b/c it's a $100 increase in rent (currently paying $1000) BUT my heat bill will be less. I have poor installation where I currently live even though my heat is usually on 65 my bill is STILL over $150 each month!!! It's a much bigger space (also a 2 bedroom) and think it would be nice for us esp since we will be filing for Javon's son eventually (whenever Javon FINALLY arrives).

IF I were to move should I contact USCIS and have my address change or should I do nothing? Only the apt # would have from 3R to 2N.



YOU ARE OBLIGATED TO TELL THEM..AND I THINK ITS 30 DAYS..IT WON'T HURT TO INFORM THEM
jlvr
QUOTE(finesse @ May 2 2007, 03:07 PM) *
I returned home from JA last night and what better welcome home gift than an email from the embassy with news of our interview date of June 19th!!!!! Its like God felt my sadness and wanted to lift me up.....Thank you God for that...thank you.

That's great, finesse, ours is the same date!
Jonesie
Congrats on the recent approvals kicking.gif
interview dates goofy.gif
and graduation yes.gif!
Gotta get back to work for a meeting crying.gif but I'll check in again soon.
sjb1221
QUOTE(Denden @ May 2 2007, 05:30 PM) *
QUOTE(kimlbs @ May 2 2007, 11:43 AM) *
QUOTE(Denden @ May 2 2007, 04:13 AM) *
kicking.gif Congrats on all the great news/ approvals/ touches......I wish someone would send some our way blush.gif


Dee...are you guys still waiting for the green card??? If so.....I might suggest writing to your local congressman and senators office. I also called USCIS and asked for a supervisor.....I filed an over 90 day inquiry.....I am not sure if this actually helped us but we got the approval about 4 weeks after and received a letter from USCIS last week responding to my inquiry and said they expedited processing and approved the case!!! SO.....I think this worked...they are afraid of getting sued....many folks are filing lawsuits against USCIS due to the LONGGGG waits.....


I've done all of this. We were told two months ago, by letter that we were we are still pending a security clearance, and to renotify them if we had not heard anything in 6 months huh.gif


They told us 6 months also....the FBI handles the security clearance not USCIS...Congress or USCIS can't do much but request the status.

Congrats on the interview dates, graudation, touches and approvals. good.gif
jlvr
QUOTE(eric_drewry @ Apr 22 2007, 02:48 PM) *
I am not sure where your man is in JA, but Hope Medical in Mobay can be very accomodating squeezing you in for an appointment quickly. Though they cost a little more than the 2 in Kingston.

Unfortunately Kingston does not always follow their own procedures, but you should be able to get what they call a Blue Sheet Interview, which can take about 2 weeks two schedule. Of course The idiots scheduled a full blown interview for my wife for April 3rd, when we were waiting on a physical, even though that is not what they said they would do.

Here is the info on the medical. Since you have your date make your appointment tomorrow.

YOUR MEDICAL EXAMINATION
1. SCHEDULING YOUR APPOINTMENT
You must schedule your medical examination at least seven days prior to the date of your visa interview. The date of your visa interview appears on your appointment letter. Failure to complete your ..medical examination by the seven days prior to your visa interview may result in delays with your visa application, so you should be sure to make arrangements to take your exam at the earliest opportunity.
There are three locations authorized to perform examinations for immigrant visas, and you may have your exam done at the most convenient location for you.
MoBay Hope Medical Centre Andrews Memorial Hospital Dr. Michael Banbury
Half Moon Shopping Village 27 Hope Road Medical Associates Hospital
Rose Hall, Montego Bay Kingston 10 18 Tangerine PI
St. James (876)926-7401-3 Kingston 10
(876)953-3981 (876)908-2123
US$95 for adults US$90 for adults US$80 for adults
US$50 for children under 15 US$50 for children under 15 US$47 for children under 15
You must call ahead to schedule a specific appointment time with the doctor of your choice.
2. MEDICAL EXAMINATION FEES
The fee schedule is as noted above, payable in U.S. dollars or the Jamaican equivalent. No personal cheques are accepted.
3. WHAT TO BRING TO THE MEDICAL EXAMINATION
-Completed medical history form (on reverse) -Your appointment letter
-Passport -Four (4) passport size pictures
-Any immunization records showing prior vaccinations **Please remove all necklaces and neck chains prior to the examination.
4. IMMUNIZATION
U.S. immigration law requires that all applicants be vaccinated for the following diseases:
Mumps, measles, rubella, polio, tetanus, diptheria, pertussis, influenza type B, hepatitis B, varicella (chicken pox), pneumococcal, and influenza.
Depending upon your age, you may not need all of these vaccinations. Please present your immunization records to the physician at the time of the examination for the physician to determine which immunizations you may need. You may receive any needed vaccinations at the time of your examination. Please note that immunization fees are not included in the cost of your examination. Please be prepared to pay for any additional vaccines that you may require.
5. HIV TESTING
During the immigrant visa medical examination, the physician tests all applicants over the age of 15 for antibodies to the human immunodeficiency virus (HIV), a disease which may lead to acquired immune deficiency syndrome (AIDS). In cases in which the physician has reason to believe that a child under age 15 might be HIV-positive, he or she may require that the child undergo a blood test.
AIDS is the name given to a group of illnesses that may occur in persons infected with HTV. Infection with HIV causes a defect in a person's natural immunity against disease. This defect leaves infected people vulnerable to serious illnesses that would not normally be a threat to someone with a healthy immune system. A positive test result for HIV does not mean you have AIDS, but that you are at risk to' develop it. Any positive results will be confirmed with an additional test.
The results of your test will be provided to a consular officer, and may be reported to the Jamaican health authorities, as required by Jamaican law. If the test results are positive, you will be ineligible for the visa and the consular officer is required by U.S. law to deny the application. However, a waiver of this ineligibility may be possible, and the consular officer will explore that possibility with you during the interview.
Revised 11/05





QUOTE(kimmykashi @ Apr 22 2007, 12:38 PM) *
HEY GUYS GUESS WHAT...I JUST GOT A EMAIL REPLY FROM THE EMBASSY THAT CONFIRMING THAT THE APPT FOR MAY 24TH IS FOR AN INTERVIEW ..I AM SO HAPPY...IF HE DOESN'T HAVE THE MEDICAL IN TIME FOR THE RESULTS TO GET TO THE EMBASSY WHAT HAPPENS THEN ?


I knew I should have copied this at the time, I had to go searching for it. wacko.gif

Are these the only three doctors/clinics where the medical can be done? Never mind, I already see the answer. Thanks.
jlvr
Because of the way the info was formatted, it's a little scrambled and I'm trying to unscramble it. This is what I got:

MoBay Hope Medical Centre
Half Moon Shopping Village
Rose Hall, Montego Bay
(876)926-7401-3 (I'll assume that means 7401, 7402 and 7403)
US$95 for adults

Andrews Memorial Hospital
27 Hope Road
Kingston 10
(876)953-3981
US$90 for adults

Dr. Michael Banbury
Medical Associates Hospital
18 Tangerine PI
St. James
Kingston 10
(876)908-2123
US$80 for adults

Can someone please let me know if I have lined the information up correctly, matched all the names, addresses and phone numbers?
Hotlegz
QUOTE(jlvr @ May 2 2007, 06:51 PM) *
Because of the way the info was formatted, it's a little scrambled and I'm trying to unscramble it. This is what I got:

MoBay Hope Medical Centre
Half Moon Shopping Village
Rose Hall, Montego Bay
(876)926-7401-3 (I'll assume that means 7401, 7402 and 7403)
US$95 for adults

Andrews Memorial Hospital
27 Hope Road
Kingston 10
(876)953-3981
US$90 for adults

Dr. Michael Banbury
Medical Associates Hospital
18 Tangerine PI
St. James
Kingston 10
(876)908-2123
US$80 for adults

Can someone please let me know if I have lined the information up correctly, matched all the names, addresses and phone numbers?


YES YOU GOT IT RIGHT...
Hotlegz
QUOTE(finesse @ May 2 2007, 03:07 PM) *
I returned home from JA last night and what better welcome home gift than an email from the embassy with news of our interview date of June 19th!!!!! Its like God felt my sadness and wanted to lift me up.....Thank you God for that...thank you.



CONGRATS FINESSE !!...HE KNOWS WHEN HE IS READY TO GIVE YOU YOUR REWARD...
brownnskinn
QUOTE(sjb1221 @ May 2 2007, 05:36 PM) *
QUOTE(Denden @ May 2 2007, 05:30 PM) *
QUOTE(kimlbs @ May 2 2007, 11:43 AM) *
QUOTE(Denden @ May 2 2007, 04:13 AM) *
kicking.gif Congrats on all the great news/ approvals/ touches......I wish someone would send some our way blush.gif


Dee...are you guys still waiting for the green card??? If so.....I might suggest writing to your local congressman and senators office. I also called USCIS and asked for a supervisor.....I filed an over 90 day inquiry.....I am not sure if this actually helped us but we got the approval about 4 weeks after and received a letter from USCIS last week responding to my inquiry and said they expedited processing and approved the case!!! SO.....I think this worked...they are afraid of getting sued....many folks are filing lawsuits against USCIS due to the LONGGGG waits.....


I've done all of this. We were told two months ago, by letter that we were we are still pending a security clearance, and to renotify them if we had not heard anything in 6 months huh.gif


They told us 6 months also....the FBI handles the security clearance not USCIS...Congress or USCIS can't do much but request the status.

Congrats on the interview dates, graudation, touches and approvals. good.gif


I read some where else on here where another couple who also lived in mo got mixed up a
Anumbers as well, and had delays, I think they had to the the FBI name check twice for us. Before we were told that we were clear by the congress woman.
jlvr
Question, please. Which medical form is my fiance supposed to fill out before his medical appointment? Is it available to download? I assume that they will have sent it to him in packet 4, right? I don't know if I would be able to send it to him in time.
rhondapayter
QUOTE(jlvr @ May 2 2007, 06:10 PM) *
I think a large part of it was being able to file through VSC. I went from NOA1 to NOA2 in a month. And I guess not waiting to receive packet 3 in the mail helped speed things, too.

Yes, that's why. Vermont is and has been the quickest (by far) of any of the service centers. IMO, it is completely UNFAIR that how long it takes depends on where in the U.S. you live. mad.gif The whole thing should be centralized.
rhondapayter
I have to apply to lift Tony's "conditions" pretty soon. Next week will be 90 days before GC expires - I can send the paperwork any time after that. I am so overwhelmed wacko.gif I'm not in paperwork mode anymore!!! After all the stupid paperwork for the I-129f, then the interview, then AOS, I sorta pushed everything into a drawer and forgot about it! I think I'm gonna have to check out the forum regarding this specifically.

Shemonya - aren't you guys not too far behind me??
sjb1221
QUOTE(rhondapayter @ May 3 2007, 03:39 AM) *
I have to apply to lift Tony's "conditions" pretty soon. Next week will be 90 days before GC expires - I can send the paperwork any time after that. I am so overwhelmed wacko.gif I'm not in paperwork mode anymore!!! After all the stupid paperwork for the I-129f, then the interview, then AOS, I sorta pushed everything into a drawer and forgot about it! I think I'm gonna have to check out the forum regarding this specifically.

Shemonya - aren't you guys not too far behind me??


I feel 'ya on more paperwork. Damien's GC expires April 2008.....ours took so long due to the security clearance process. I believe there's a few people between us...maybe Jamie or Julie....can't remember.

Good morning VJ family.
missjones
Good Morning,

Can someone please tell me the contents of packet 3, and if any of these documents can be obtained prior to receiving the actual packet. I know its the police record /birth certificate, but what else?

~Miss Jones
darlene
Good morning everyone! Good vibes to Jax. Looking forward to hearing good news later today.
finesse
QUOTE(jlvr @ May 2 2007, 05:26 PM) *
QUOTE(finesse @ May 2 2007, 03:07 PM) *
I returned home from JA last night and what better welcome home gift than an email from the embassy with news of our interview date of June 19th!!!!! Its like God felt my sadness and wanted to lift me up.....Thank you God for that...thank you.

That's great, finesse, ours is the same date!


what time is yours at? are you attending?
Sonshyne
Best wishes for Jax and her husband today good.gif
sjb1221
QUOTE(Sonshyne @ May 3 2007, 11:25 AM) *
Best wishes for Jax and her husband today good.gif


Ditto.
nyseness
QUOTE(missjones @ May 3 2007, 08:30 AM) *
Good Morning,

Can someone please tell me the contents of packet 3, and if any of these documents can be obtained prior to receiving the actual packet. I know its the police record /birth certificate, but what else?

~Miss Jones


For the CR1 visa you won't get a packet 3 only packet 4 w/the interview letter and form for the medical. Someone put a list on this thread for the docs needed. Try doing a search.
nannygirl82
well ladies i think the end has finally come....mike won't change his ways and when we were fighting this morning he asked me if i was going to call immigration to cancel his AOS and i said i thought about it...he said wow i see it clearly i better start acting right so i can get my green card....and i just let him go at that because that is all i needed to hear to basically confirm what i have been thinking for a month....not sure where to go from here or what i am going to do but it really sucks....

JAX best of luck to you!!
nyseness
I'm sorry to hear Shauna

QUOTE(sjb1221 @ May 3 2007, 10:26 AM) *
QUOTE(Sonshyne @ May 3 2007, 11:25 AM) *
Best wishes for Jax and her husband today good.gif


Ditto.



Ditto good.gif
morantbaygirl
QUOTE(nannygirl82 @ May 3 2007, 12:17 PM) *
well ladies i think the end has finally come....mike won't change his ways and when we were fighting this morning he asked me if i was going to call immigration to cancel his AOS and i said i thought about it...he said wow i see it clearly i better start acting right so i can get my green card....and i just let him go at that because that is all i needed to hear to basically confirm what i have been thinking for a month....not sure where to go from here or what i am going to do but it really sucks....

JAX best of luck to you!!


Nannygirl my heart goes out to you. You have to do what's best for you!!!! We are here for you know matter what you decide. yes.gif
darlene
QUOTE(nannygirl82 @ May 3 2007, 12:17 PM) *
well ladies i think the end has finally come....mike won't change his ways and when we were fighting this morning he asked me if i was going to call immigration to cancel his AOS and i said i thought about it...he said wow i see it clearly i better start acting right so i can get my green card....and i just let him go at that because that is all i needed to hear to basically confirm what i have been thinking for a month....not sure where to go from here or what i am going to do but it really sucks....

JAX best of luck to you!!


I am so sorry things are not working out. What the heck is wrong with these men??? How quickly they forget where they come from! I am here for you....
jlvr
QUOTE(darlene @ May 3 2007, 09:37 AM) *
Good morning everyone! Good vibes to Jax. Looking forward to hearing good news later today.

Good luck Jax! good.gif good.gif

QUOTE(finesse @ May 3 2007, 09:46 AM) *
QUOTE(jlvr @ May 2 2007, 05:26 PM) *
QUOTE(finesse @ May 2 2007, 03:07 PM) *
I returned home from JA last night and what better welcome home gift than an email from the embassy with news of our interview date of June 19th!!!!! Its like God felt my sadness and wanted to lift me up.....Thank you God for that...thank you.

That's great, finesse, ours is the same date!


what time is yours at? are you attending?

It says 8am, I don't know how realistic that is. I don't think I'll be able to attend, I've got so much going on here. There's no way I could take the necessary days. Especially since I'll be there at the end of this month. sad.gif

QUOTE(darlene @ May 3 2007, 01:22 PM) *
QUOTE(nannygirl82 @ May 3 2007, 12:17 PM) *
well ladies i think the end has finally come....mike won't change his ways and when we were fighting this morning he asked me if i was going to call immigration to cancel his AOS and i said i thought about it...he said wow i see it clearly i better start acting right so i can get my green card....and i just let him go at that because that is all i needed to hear to basically confirm what i have been thinking for a month....not sure where to go from here or what i am going to do but it really sucks....

JAX best of luck to you!!


I am so sorry things are not working out. What the heck is wrong with these men??? How quickly they forget where they come from! I am here for you....

Ditto, nannygirl. sad.gif I don't know what I could add.
kimlbs
jlvr....You might consider rescheduling your trip next month to the actually date of interview. It is far better to actually attend the interview. In our case, they asked me most of the questions. Plus, the nerves are so crazy that he really need you at the interview to support him. Just my opinion....... whistling.gif

Shauna-Call me girl......I think the adjustment for many of these men is really hard and they begin to act up . Duane and I had a LONGGGGG talk last night...(considering the fact that we are both stressed about me possibly being pregnant) and he gave me a wonderful view into how he is actually feeling....so let me summarize for everyone so that each of us can learn something (especially for those of you that are in the stages of K-1 still:

So...he said that he came to America with so many expectations of how "foreign" was.....primarily based on what he heard or saw through television....even though I had gone over things a million times with him before he arrived, he says that once he arrived, he finally realized that everything was so different.....poverty to some degree was actually worse in America....our econony requires them to work three times harder than they ever worked back in Jamaica, everything is "on-hold" waiting for our crazy government to push the approved button......as a man, he felt helpless and unable to provide, eveything in the house was "mine" and he did not feel anything was "his home", he was homesick, missed his kids, missed his family, he was starting his life all over in a place where he knows nobody but me and has very little to offer me. This can make any man feel worthless and depressed...they kill their free time by doing studid stuff on the internet, sleeping, eating and basically being depressed while we go on and live our life as usual.....

Sooo....now after 10 months of being in this Country, he has finally started to understand my point of view. Our marriage is the main focus, making money to provide for us as a family and trying to save for all the good things like vacations, "new toys" and having good Christian values. He said that it has taken him months to finally get it....He realizes that the adjustment for both of us has been hard and he has acted extremely selfish at times because he only saw the impact that everything was having on him and NOT me........For the most part, we ALL would be kidding ourselves to think that these men did not see any opportunity in coming to America. There is more opportunity here than in Jamaica but for most of them.....this was not their primary goal or reason for coming...They did fall in love with us and most of these men truly do LOVE us and...they really want it to work out. They just do not know how to make it work in the beginning and it takes an incredibly amount of time, patience and energy......Now. some of you may not have had any of these adjustment problems and I admire you....I KNOW for a fact that Duane loves me to death and we have had some really tough times with this adjustment....this is HARD WORK......

So Miss Shauna.......ONLY YOU know how Mike truly feels about you and maybe you need to step back and really get in touch with those feelings. If you think this can be saved, hang tough......it does get better with time.....Duane has really worked hard to adjust and I would have kicked myself in the butt if I let him leave 4 months ago when I packed his SH.....ITTTT....So...hang in there girl..... good.gif
missjones
yes.gif Hey Everyone,

I have decided to delete my VJ account today due to some issues from another thread. I strongly believe that some people on this site are very disrespectful and take pleasure in making others feel stupid. This is supposed to be an informational site and no one should feel stupid or be-littled (sp?) in any way. It really upsets me the way posts are being replied to and even when I first joined VJ, I was a little shocked at the way my posts were being answered. I don't like being disrespected, nor do I like to watch others being disrespected. I clearly indicated this in the thread "Do You Treat People The Same As Online" (Off Topic Form) and apparently someone took my comments as well as others as threatening.

So I am going to go to rid myself of this teenage chat room behavior because my “threatening” comments can be prevented if I didn’t come on this site. The last thing I want is for someone to think my 5’4, pregnant body could be threatening, when I can barely stand up in the morning.

Maybe I have anger management issues, but I can only operate based on where I come from, and whether it is online or in person, respect is expected regardless of where the other person is located. People are disrespectful online because they feel that they can be, and I just think it’s rude. And its seriously getting on my nerves.

So I hope everyone has the speediest approvals, I hope all marriages work out, I hope all babies are born healthy (hopefully we are all carrying one) and if you are pregnant I hope you wear a bikini on the beach because our big bellies are adorable! Maybe I will catch you all in JA someday. If do you want to get in touch with me, my email is: jlenoir2003@yahoo.com or lenoirjb@alverno.edu. I check my emails daily. Thanks for all the support, you guys were very helpful.

rose.gif Mrs. Jones
finesse
QUOTE(jlvr @ May 3 2007, 01:07 PM) *
QUOTE(darlene @ May 3 2007, 09:37 AM) *
Good morning everyone! Good vibes to Jax. Looking forward to hearing good news later today.

Good luck Jax! good.gif good.gif

QUOTE(finesse @ May 3 2007, 09:46 AM) *
QUOTE(jlvr @ May 2 2007, 05:26 PM) *
QUOTE(finesse @ May 2 2007, 03:07 PM) *
I returned home from JA last night and what better welcome home gift than an email from the embassy with news of our interview date of June 19th!!!!! Its like God felt my sadness and wanted to lift me up.....Thank you God for that...thank you.

That's great, finesse, ours is the same date!


what time is yours at? are you attending?

It says 8am, I don't know how realistic that is. I don't think I'll be able to attend, I've got so much going on here. There's no way I could take the necessary days. Especially since I'll be there at the end of this month. sad.gif

QUOTE(darlene @ May 3 2007, 01:22 PM) *
QUOTE(nannygirl82 @ May 3 2007, 12:17 PM) *
well ladies i think the end has finally come....mike won't change his ways and when we were fighting this morning he asked me if i was going to call immigration to cancel his AOS and i said i thought about it...he said wow i see it clearly i better start acting right so i can get my green card....and i just let him go at that because that is all i needed to hear to basically confirm what i have been thinking for a month....not sure where to go from here or what i am going to do but it really sucks....

JAX best of luck to you!!


I am so sorry things are not working out. What the heck is wrong with these men??? How quickly they forget where they come from! I am here for you....

Ditto, nannygirl. sad.gif I don't know what I could add.


Ours is at 7:15am. I didn't even think the place opened til 8. Not sure if I can attend either since I just went for 2 weeks. I was thinking of going once he actually gets the visa for like a 4 day weekend and have a farewell party for him with his family(assuming all goes well). But who knows, anything can happen....
jlvr
QUOTE(kimlbs @ May 3 2007, 03:05 PM) *
jlvr....You might consider rescheduling your trip next month to the actually date of interview. It is far better to actually attend the interview. In our case, they asked me most of the questions. Plus, the nerves are so crazy that he really need you at the interview to support him. Just my opinion....... whistling.gif

Nope, can't reschedule the trip. There are a bunch of other people going. I'll just have to go over stuff while I'm there with him and hope.

QUOTE(missjones @ May 3 2007, 03:06 PM) *
yes.gif Hey Everyone,

I have decided to delete my VJ account today due to some issues from another thread.

rose.gif Mrs. Jones

Don't let anyone run you off the board. It's just words on a screen and they can be ignored.

QUOTE(finesse @ May 3 2007, 04:06 PM) *
Ours is at 7:15am. I didn't even think the place opened til 8. Not sure if I can attend either since I just went for 2 weeks. I was thinking of going once he actually gets the visa for like a 4 day weekend and have a farewell party for him with his family(assuming all goes well). But who knows, anything can happen....

I don't even know if I would be able to go once he gets the visa. I think I'll just have to settle for getting him at the airport. sad.gif
kimlbs
QUOTE
I have decided to delete my VJ account today due to some issues from another thread.
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Don't go.......it is why I try to stay close to home..."yardies thread" Everytime I venture into other threads, I get annoyed by all the rude behavior some of these people display......Stay around and do not let them bother you...some of these people have nothing better to do and clearly do not understand the purpose of VJ....
luvtravlin
QUOTE(missjones @ May 3 2007, 03:06 PM) *
yes.gif Hey Everyone,

I have decided to delete my VJ account today due to some issues from another thread. I strongly believe that some people on this site are very disrespectful and take pleasure in making others feel stupid. This is supposed to be an informational site and no one should feel stupid or be-littled (sp?) in any way. It really upsets me the way posts are being replied to and even when I first joined VJ, I was a little shocked at the way my posts were being answered. I don't like being disrespected, nor do I like to watch others being disrespected. I clearly indicated this in the thread "Do You Treat People The Same As Online" (Off Topic Form) and apparently someone took my comments as well as others as threatening.

So I am going to go to rid myself of this teenage chat room behavior because my “threatening” comments can be prevented if I didn’t come on this site. The last thing I want is for someone to think my 5’4, pregnant body could be threatening, when I can barely stand up in the morning.

Maybe I have anger management issues, but I can only operate based on where I come from, and whether it is online or in person, respect is expected regardless of where the other person is located. People are disrespectful online because they feel that they can be, and I just think it’s rude. And its seriously getting on my nerves.

So I hope everyone has the speediest approvals, I hope all marriages work out, I hope all babies are born healthy (hopefully we are all carrying one) and if you are pregnant I hope you wear a bikini on the beach because our big bellies are adorable! Maybe I will catch you all in JA someday. If do you want to get in touch with me, my email is: jlenoir2003@yahoo.com or lenoirjb@alverno.edu. I check my emails daily. Thanks for all the support, you guys were very helpful.

rose.gif Mrs. Jones


Are you talking 'bout the Yardie thread??? If so, did "I" miss something? If it's another part of the VJ site, shoot....I wouldn't listen to what some of them say. I go on other threads to try to find information and sometimes I'm just amazed at how rude some folks are. It's UNbelievable!!! We may say things on this Yardie thread, that are from **our** personal experience, but .....someone was very disrespectful and made someone feel stupid ??

I hope you stay, everyones insight is valuable in one way or another !!!!

[size="4"][/size] MINDY WHERE ARE YOU??????????????????????

luvtravlin
QUOTE(kimlbs @ May 3 2007, 03:05 PM) *
jlvr....You might consider rescheduling your trip next month to the actually date of interview. It is far better to actually attend the interview. In our case, they asked me most of the questions. Plus, the nerves are so crazy that he really need you at the interview to support him. Just my opinion....... whistling.gif

Shauna-Call me girl......I think the adjustment for many of these men is really hard and they begin to act up . Duane and I had a LONGGGGG talk last night...(considering the fact that we are both stressed about me possibly being pregnant) and he gave me a wonderful view into how he is actually feeling....so let me summarize for everyone so that each of us can learn something (especially for those of you that are in the stages of K-1 still:

So...he said that he came to America with so many expectations of how "foreign" was.....primarily based on what he heard or saw through television....even though I had gone over things a million times with him before he arrived, he says that once he arrived, he finally realized that everything was so different.....poverty to some degree was actually worse in America....our econony requires them to work three times harder than they ever worked back in Jamaica, everything is "on-hold" waiting for our crazy government to push the approved button......as a man, he felt helpless and unable to provide, eveything in the house was "mine" and he did not feel anything was "his home", he was homesick, missed his kids, missed his family, he was starting his life all over in a place where he knows nobody but me and has very little to offer me. This can make any man feel worthless and depressed...they kill their free time by doing studid stuff on the internet, sleeping, eating and basically being depressed while we go on and live our life as usual.....

Sooo....now after 10 months of being in this Country, he has finally started to understand my point of view. Our marriage is the main focus, making money to provide for us as a family and trying to save for all the good things like vacations, "new toys" and having good Christian values. He said that it has taken him months to finally get it....He realizes that the adjustment for both of us has been hard and he has acted extremely selfish at times because he only saw the impact that everything was having on him and NOT me........For the most part, we ALL would be kidding ourselves to think that these men did not see any opportunity in coming to America. There is more opportunity here than in Jamaica but for most of them.....this was not their primary goal or reason for coming...They did fall in love with us and most of these men truly do LOVE us and...they really want it to work out. They just do not know how to make it work in the beginning and it takes an incredibly amount of time, patience and energy......Now. some of you may not have had any of these adjustment problems and I admire you....I KNOW for a fact that Duane loves me to death and we have had some really tough times with this adjustment....this is HARD WORK......

So Miss Shauna.......ONLY YOU know how Mike truly feels about you and maybe you need to step back and really get in touch with those feelings. If you think this can be saved, hang tough......it does get better with time.....Duane has really worked hard to adjust and I would have kicked myself in the butt if I let him leave 4 months ago when I packed his SH.....ITTTT....So...hang in there girl..... good.gif



Kim..............EVERYTHING you had said is RIGHT ON THE MONEY, at least in "my/our" experience !!!!! Craig was bee-atching today about not having a job, not having money, not feeling like a man because HE can't help and WAA-LAA a call came in from a temp agency for him to work tomorrow and then another came in to start working at a hotel on Tuesday!!!! Craig does now (finally) help out around the house with dishes, laundry and making the bed.....it's a start.

I know that Craig loves me as well, we are both very much commited to each other. We "get into it" differently now. Those women days are gone and he FINALLY realizes that STUPID S**T will NOT get him anywhere but BACK to Jamaica. He did it ONLY for "the money"....whatever. His priorities have TOTALLY changed, for the better. Our relationship and the relationship he has with my son is SOOO much better.

Craig has been...this month will be 11 months !

Hey Shemonya, have you guys ever been to the Jerk Pit in College Park ?? We went there today....it was AWESOME!!! It's only about 25 min from our place. We met up with one of my clients out that way today and it was right around the corner. Thank god it's not closer, we'd go broke !!!

Shauna..........girl, I'm here for ya. He just needs a good ole butt -whoopin !!!




Hotlegz
QUOTE(sjb1221 @ May 3 2007, 11:26 AM) *
QUOTE(Sonshyne @ May 3 2007, 11:25 AM) *
Best wishes for Jax and her husband today good.gif


Ditto.


YES DEFINATE GOOD VIBES TO JAX smile.gif
Hotlegz
QUOTE(jlvr @ May 3 2007, 05:48 PM) *
QUOTE(kimlbs @ May 3 2007, 03:05 PM) *
jlvr....You might consider rescheduling your trip next month to the actually date of interview. It is far better to actually attend the interview. In our case, they asked me most of the questions. Plus, the nerves are so crazy that he really need you at the interview to support him. Just my opinion....... whistling.gif

Nope, can't reschedule the trip. There are a bunch of other people going. I'll just have to go over stuff while I'm there with him and hope.

QUOTE(missjones @ May 3 2007, 03:06 PM) *
yes.gif Hey Everyone,

I have decided to delete my VJ account today due to some issues from another thread.

rose.gif Mrs. Jones

Don't let anyone run you off the board. It's just words on a screen and they can be ignored.

QUOTE(finesse @ May 3 2007, 04:06 PM) *
Ours is at 7:15am. I didn't even think the place opened til 8. Not sure if I can attend either since I just went for 2 weeks. I was thinking of going once he actually gets the visa for like a 4 day weekend and have a farewell party for him with his family(assuming all goes well). But who knows, anything can happen....

I don't even know if I would be able to go once he gets the visa. I think I'll just have to settle for getting him at the airport. sad.gif


I KNOW EXACTLY WHAT U MEAN..I WANTED TO ATTEND MY HUSBAND INTERVIEW AS WELL BUT I WAS JUST THERE ABOUT 2WKS..AND I CAN'T GO BACK IN SPACE OF 1MTH..I JUST PRAY AND KNOW THAT GOD WILL SEE HIM THRU FOR HIS INTERVIEW...AND I PRAY I CAN GO BACK AND TRAVEL WITH HIM WHEN HE GETS HIS VISA..I THINK IT WOULD BE A LITTLE BETTER EXPERIENCE FOR HIM ..IT WILL WORK OUT
cambutler
hey everyone, what a gwaan?

I'm just dropping in and looking at the tread, luv's post helped me see what lies ahead of me, my husband will be here on the 17th and i can already tell it will be a trial, i am grateful for the insight. I was just talking to my mum today cuz rahan wants to work asap cuz we're both very broke from the whole thing and i was telling her i didn't want him to take certain jobs cuz i don't want him to be exploited, but she showed me that "yuh haffi crawl before yuh walk" so i let go of that..

I just moved and i haven't changed the address with USCIS but when i went to the website to change the address, AR-11 asked for a alien number but he doesn't have one yet so i don't know what to do. i don't want them to send any of our info to my old address. what do i do?
jlvr
QUOTE(cambutler @ May 3 2007, 08:19 PM) *
hey everyone, what a gwaan?

I'm just dropping in and looking at the tread, luv's post helped me see what lies ahead of me, my husband will be here on the 17th and i can already tell it will be a trial, i am grateful for the insight. I was just talking to my mum today cuz rahan wants to work asap cuz we're both very broke from the whole thing and i was telling her i didn't want him to take certain jobs cuz i don't want him to be exploited, but she showed me that "yuh haffi crawl before yuh walk" so i let go of that..

I just moved and i haven't changed the address with USCIS but when i went to the website to change the address, AR-11 asked for a alien number but he doesn't have one yet so i don't know what to do. i don't want them to send any of our info to my old address. what do i do?

Isn't there an alien number on the NOA2? I thought so, but maybe I'm wrong.
sjb1221
QUOTE(luvtravlin @ May 3 2007, 07:25 PM) *
Hey Shemonya, have you guys ever been to the Jerk Pit in College Park ?? We went there today....it was AWESOME!!! It's only about 25 min from our place. We met up with one of my clients out that way today and it was right around the corner. Thank god it's not closer, we'd go broke !!!


Nope but I heard it was good. There's a Jerk Hill somewhere in that area too.
JaEnglishGirl
QUOTE(darlene @ May 3 2007, 06:22 PM) *
I am so sorry things are not working out. What the heck is wrong with these men??? How quickly they forget where they come from! I am here for you....

Could you clarify this??
JaEnglishGirl
QUOTE(nannygirl82 @ May 3 2007, 05:17 PM) *
well ladies i think the end has finally come....mike won't change his ways and when we were fighting this morning he asked me if i was going to call immigration to cancel his AOS and i said i thought about it...he said wow i see it clearly i better start acting right so i can get my green card....and i just let him go at that because that is all i needed to hear to basically confirm what i have been thinking for a month....not sure where to go from here or what i am going to do but it really sucks....

JAX best of luck to you!!

Nanygirl, I am really sorry to hear how this has panned out....You deserve so much more....I applaud the fact you stayed calm, because if I was in your situation, he would be on the street in two seconds flat......The say women's intuition is never wrong.....
JaEnglishGirl
QUOTE(missjones @ May 3 2007, 08:06 PM) *
yes.gif Hey Everyone,

I have decided to delete my VJ account today due to some issues from another thread. I strongly believe that some people on this site are very disrespectful and take pleasure in making others feel stupid. This is supposed to be an informational site and no one should feel stupid or be-littled (sp?) in any way. It really upsets me the way posts are being replied to and even when I first joined VJ, I was a little shocked at the way my posts were being answered. I don't like being disrespected, nor do I like to watch others being disrespected. I clearly indicated this in the thread "Do You Treat People The Same As Online" (Off Topic Form) and apparently someone took my comments as well as others as threatening.


So I hope everyone has the speediest approvals, I hope all marriages work out, I hope all babies are born healthy (hopefully we are all carrying one) and if you are pregnant I hope you wear a bikini on the beach because our big bellies are adorable! Maybe I will catch you all in JA someday. If do you want to get in touch with me, my email is: jlenoir2003@yahoo.com or lenoirjb@alverno.edu. I check my emails daily. Thanks for all the support, you guys were very helpful.

rose.gif Mrs. Jones

Just sent you email.
I've just gone and read the thread, and I don't actually think Captain Ewok was referencing YOU, think it was the other person 'I adore' or whatever their name was.
rhondapayter
QUOTE(sjb1221 @ May 3 2007, 08:01 AM) *
I feel 'ya on more paperwork. Damien's GC expires April 2008.....ours took so long due to the security clearance process. I believe there's a few people between us...maybe Jamie or Julie....can't remember.

Good morning VJ family.

Yeah, you've got some time still blush.gif Tony's expires August 2007.
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