QUOTE(wolvendove @ Mar 16 2006, 12:49 PM)

Meauxna, you make mistakes too?? My goodness, we are all human here, aren't we?!
Oh hell *yeah* I make mistakes too.. why wouldn't I?

None of this stuff was any less confusing 4 years ago, I have just read it over and over again and read good interpretations of it and I can share my own mistakes so you don't have to make them.
And, when you've been reading up on several different methods, it's easy to mix them up.
One of the best things about a DCF case is that there is more human interactions---as demonstrated here, the worst part is waiting without knowing what's happening and having no one 'official' to ask questions of. Of course, if they stopped to answer all of our questions, they'd never get their actual jobs done, so we must help each other out by sharing our experiences.
But the system is probably a lot more forgiving than what you imagine---each family is different and their evidence will be a bit different, their circumstances etc.. you will do the best when you understand what the CO needs to give you a 'yes', and you proceed to make it easy for them to say YES.
Have either of you two found your way to the archived forums? You'll find a much deeper pool of posts to read from about your respective Consulates and what is needed.
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