hey guys
i did not hear anything from the embassy this days the last email i got from them says ur case is with the officer for final review we will contact u once that has been compelted i got this answer for 3 monthes now and they must onley take 3 weeks i really do not know what to do me and wife are fighting i,m so nearvus we did all what we can called congressmen and consular officers here and no way today my wife called me and i was so nearvus or maybe i did not feel good i did not go to work for almost 4 days my boss was calling me and he told me theres lots of work for me at the lab i have to finish it ..... i told him i,m not in the mood to work or to do anything at all he told me this will not work ur working for the biggest comapny in the middle east and u must respect it and u must respect ur work contract i told him i do not care he told me i must be at work tommorrow 9am and i will not be able to leave not before i finish the work i told him no one can tell me what to do and i can leave when i wish he told me u seem not in agood mood we will talk later i told him bye then my wife called i told her i,m not in the mood for talking and i hang up the fone i know she will be crying now and she will not sleep i tried to call her she closed the fone any way i do not know really what to do i,m thinking so badely of divorce guys but i really love her and when i think like that it cut my heart it makes my heart burn and i really be in bad paitent please tell me what to do coz i really gave up about my visa.

Take it easy bro! This visa issue could make you very depressed if you're not careful. Don't lose your job over it. Just hang on. You'll get there. Good Luck!

Hang in there and keep yourself busy at work, don't get sick over it. Be patient and don't argue with her, she is as stressed out as you are. Get a grip on yourself before it makes you crazy. Loads of tension go with this visa stuff, blow it off and stay focused.

yes don't leave things in the hope that something will fall through your mailbox - call em up until you are surer that you know what is happening - but then , as the others are saying, you have to try and do something else once you have done all you can for now...

I have been through this all before so I know about high blood pressure and I am the first to get paranoid and hysterical about what they do - which seems like on purpose - but it doesnt help and most times it all works out ok in the end..

alan

Seka, I know how badly this visa process can take a toll on your mind, body and spirit. As another VJer had mentioned, your wife is struggling and worried just as much as you are right now so instead of pushing her away, you two have to remain on the same page and keep fighting through this visa process. Please do not let how your feeling right now overtake you and jeopardize your job and your wife. I am not sure if you are a religious or spiritual person, but in case you are this would be a good time to give your worries to god and pray about it..Right now you need the inner strength to see past this difficult time and think of the future and the positive things that lie ahead for your and your wife. If you let it, this visa process and the strain of a being separated from your loved one, will get the best of you but like many who have came and gone through this process with "bumps" encountered along the way, many of them got through this tough stage and are happily reunited and living life with their husbands and wives-This too will be you one day very soon, you just need to keep believing in that especially right now to get past this rough time. Now especially is when you need to confide in your wife and share your stress with her. There were many times when my significant other was extremely stressed out over this visa process and wanted to give up and there were too many times when I cried and felt too much stress and sometimes we took it out on each other, but we always came back to each other and vented our frustrations and somehow got passed those moments.

Hey man, take it easy. I know how you feel but life is not always a straight road. You goota bend with the corners. You will get where u wanna be. So focus on work it will help take ur mind off things.!!!!!

ya akhi make woddow and pray to Allah..inchallah you will get over this I totally underestand what you are going thru please have Iman in allah..
allah youfareej 3ank