QUOTE(abdounjen @ Feb 12 2007, 11:01 AM)

so now i have a possible good job opportunity in INDIA. they even said i could bring abdelilah if i wanted....
does anyone here have any idea how i could find out if its possible to get him a visa to go to india? lol even if its just a visitor visa. would that be hard for him to obtain that?
so complicated. i may not do it but i'd like to see if its even possible.......... there are so many negatives: it would just prolong our moving to america (starting the whole visa process over!) starting a family, him beginning HIS career, etc.
but the pros: i've always wanted to go to india and i'd get to be there a whole year! with free room and board, transportation, and a chance to save some real money. this opportunity will never ever come up again (and once i have a baby it sounds impossible)
hmmmm. opinions?

Are you pregnant now? Or have any short term plans to become?
If not, then I say go for it. INS will always wait. But chances like this will not....aaaaaaaaand your SO can come with you too! Great! Better to be together, in a foreign making new memories and adventures then apart. I assume you are young, as you looked it in your pic you posted as a avatar before. Better to do this type of wandering now, before you have children and get older. Regret is a terrible thing!
My husband and I have come up with some hair-brained ideas of our own. For him to live with me in Europe... much easier to get the visa there...during this wait, or me moving (temp) to DZ....

Driving me crazy...but good to think about it. Nothing is worth more then being together.

ANd I assume also you would be able to make enough for you 2 to live right? And have housing?!