QUOTE(JayJay @ Feb 16 2007, 09:39 PM)

He cannot make her go back. This is a VERY common threat extended by 'lovely' men who like to emotionally and often physically abuse their wives. These men think they "have the power" to send the wife anywhere they see fit, but this isn't true at all - it's what's called "little w*lly syndrome", where the husband is making up for other shortcomings by being overbearing, controlling and abusive.
That's all it is - and nothing to be afraid of. I'd recommend the lady in question sign teh divorce papers and get this guy out of her life (after all, who wants to be married to an idiot who doesn't know when to quit?). Hopefully he won't get another girlfriend until he grows up sufficiently to realise one cannot treat a person like that.
In the meanwhile, file to remove conditions - she can do this all by herself, as the strong, independant woman she can be. And move. Far away from the other dude! If necessary, get a restraining order to boot!
Hope that alleviates the concerns somewhat

If only it could be that simple. The spouse is threatening his alien partner to do "this, or suffer that". They aren't divorced yet, so what makes you believe that if she were to sign the petition or if she should even refuse to some terms that he wouldn't stretch the divorce out endlessly? If he were able to do so beyond the expiry date on her conditional green card, she'd effectively be out of status, lose her privileges to work and might fall prey to even more of his machinations.
In cases like this, if she has evidence of his abusive means, or his attempt to control her life, then by all means she should speak with an immigration attorney about battered spouse benefits.