QUOTE(Aussielad @ Feb 7 2007, 07:40 AM)

congratulations!, thats a first we've seen here on VJ
If you've been around long enough.....there's been a few cases like this, (including a B-2 I got for my own wife
I read how one person in the Russia forum got one for his fiancee' even while they were doing a k-1. I've read of 1-2 other cases as well. I think everything "Hannah and Grant" said was on the mark. Just be honest, calm (or try ...in my case, I was probably not so calm as much as I was "reasonably determined"

....in trying to be persuasive when there to get my wife her visa, since I actually went in person to the consulate with my wife and spoke to certain peope there, before even attempting to try for a b-2)
What I learned was that there are some very good people who work at the consulates. I've been fortunate enough to meet a few in particular, who have gone out of their way to help my wife and I during our 2 year immigration process.
I think if someone can go in person to the consulate/embassy....that's always better. (I happened to be visiting my wife in Turkey when she applied for the b-2). But, if that's not possible, then I guess a good letter on a spouse's behalf, would be the next best thing. You just have to be convincing enough, so they do not fear you will be an "immigration" risk. In my wife and I's case, we were fortunate in that they trusted us and my argument on her behalf apparently was convincing enough for them to give her a 10 year tourist visa. (I REALLY hope they don't expect the immigrant process to take that long

. ) On the bright side, at least if this process does take longer than we thought, we don't have the concern of having to try and get another b-2. The one we got will last us long enough.
And as "Hannah and Grant" said........it is just $100 to try. I felt the gains of attempting and getting a b-2 were more than enough to offset the risks of being denied one and losing the $100.
I think in general.....it all depends on the each individual's circumstance, who they meet at the consulate/embassy, and how convincing an argument they can make . On the consulate's side, it looks like they were right to trust my wife and I, as she's visited the US several times.....never overstayed.......and returned every time.