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avoci
If you have heard any good news regarding the recent changes, I'd love to hear about it...

Thanks!
Tang
*ping*

Somewhere off in the distance a pin drops... and it echoes around the world...

'sigh'
avoci
QUOTE(Tang @ Feb 5 2007, 03:58 PM) *
*ping*

Somewhere off in the distance a pin drops... and it echoes around the world...

'sigh'



The people on this site are sad, lonely, scared, and confused. We are trying to hear anything positive (which is why I attempted to start this thread).

I feel that your response was immature, totally NOT necessary, and disrespectful to those of us looking for a little light in this dark tunnel!

Candace
QUOTE(avoci @ Feb 6 2007, 09:27 AM) *
QUOTE(Tang @ Feb 5 2007, 03:58 PM) *
*ping*

Somewhere off in the distance a pin drops... and it echoes around the world...

'sigh'



The people on this site are sad, lonely, scared, and confused. We are trying to hear anything positive (which is why I attempted to start this thread).

I feel that your response was immature, totally NOT necessary, and disrespectful to those of us looking for a little light in this dark tunnel!


I do not think Tang meant to be disrespectful, and in fact was just pointing out that people still do not know what is happening and there *isn't* any good news right now (and if there is, perhaps people would rather post it themselves than in your thread?) rather than being insulting to you, but of course s/he can answer that for themselves.

I am sure a lot of people were annoyed by your cross and multiple posting asking the same questions over and over and over again recently, but people took the time to look through your posts and realize that the obsessive and annoying behaviour was simply because you wanted answers and were feeling scared and desperate. Perhaps you could take some time to think about what Tang meant before taking an indignant stand.
avoci
QUOTE(Candace @ Feb 6 2007, 10:07 AM) *
QUOTE(avoci @ Feb 6 2007, 09:27 AM) *
QUOTE(Tang @ Feb 5 2007, 03:58 PM) *
*ping*

Somewhere off in the distance a pin drops... and it echoes around the world...

'sigh'



The people on this site are sad, lonely, scared, and confused. We are trying to hear anything positive (which is why I attempted to start this thread).

I feel that your response was immature, totally NOT necessary, and disrespectful to those of us looking for a little light in this dark tunnel!


I do not think Tang meant to be disrespectful, and in fact was just pointing out that people still do not know what is happening and there *isn't* any good news right now (and if there is, perhaps people would rather post it themselves than in your thread?) rather than being insulting to you, but of course s/he can answer that for themselves.

I am sure a lot of people were annoyed by your cross and multiple posting asking the same questions over and over and over again recently, but people took the time to look through your posts and realize that the obsessive and annoying behaviour was simply because you wanted answers and were feeling scared and desperate. Perhaps you could take some time to think about what Tang meant before taking an indignant stand.


I post when I need and feel I need to post. I have come across a lot of people on this site who are here for the same reason: To vent, ask questions, look for answers, and hope for some sympathetic ears. If others don't want to participate in that, then they do not have to respond to my emails. Am I obsessove about getting my husband here? YES! And if others on this site are not, maybe they don't belong here. This should not be a stomping ground. This is a place, in my opinion, people turn to for help, suggestions, and simply because they know others are going thru the same hard time as themselves

If you don't want to respond yto my topics, don't.

I love my husband and I will NEVER stop asking, inquiring, and looking until I get him here! Maybe you are different.
MargotDarko
QUOTE(Tang @ Feb 5 2007, 08:58 PM) *
*ping*

Somewhere off in the distance a pin drops... and it echoes around the world...

'sigh'


I understood what you meant.
vylex
Avoci, I understand your despair. I think EVERYONE who is a member of this board is in the same boat and has the same concern. They all handle it differently. Please don't assume that because people don't share the same posting enthusiasm as you that they are not obsessive about reuniting with their loved ones.

I think you totally misunderstood Tang's response. Please try not to get defensive. Did you see the "sigh" response in that post? Tang understands fully that we are ALL IN THE DARK right now. Also, this forum is by far one of the quickest I have seen when it comes to gathering and sorting information regarding immigration. Once something pops up people will share. I wish you the best.
Tang
QUOTE(avoci @ Feb 6 2007, 02:27 PM) *
QUOTE(Tang @ Feb 5 2007, 03:58 PM) *
*ping*

Somewhere off in the distance a pin drops... and it echoes around the world...

'sigh'



The people on this site are sad, lonely, scared, and confused. We are trying to hear anything positive (which is why I attempted to start this thread).

I feel that your response was immature, totally NOT necessary, and disrespectful to those of us looking for a little light in this dark tunnel!


Oh my goodness...

I am SO very sorry that you took offence. I didn't mean it in a joking way at all. I kept checking in to see if people would respond to this thread and it really saddened me to see that no one had. So instead, I thought I'd make atleast one post... atleast to show that you were not alone.

Because I respect your situation, and I truly do sympathise with you... and realise that you don't know me at all, and couldn't have known that I meant it only in a sympathetic way... I will let your comment go.

Again, I apologise for offending you.
ceriserose
QUOTE(avoci @ Feb 6 2007, 07:31 AM) *
QUOTE(Candace @ Feb 6 2007, 10:07 AM) *
QUOTE(avoci @ Feb 6 2007, 09:27 AM) *
QUOTE(Tang @ Feb 5 2007, 03:58 PM) *
*ping*

Somewhere off in the distance a pin drops... and it echoes around the world...

'sigh'



The people on this site are sad, lonely, scared, and confused. We are trying to hear anything positive (which is why I attempted to start this thread).

I feel that your response was immature, totally NOT necessary, and disrespectful to those of us looking for a little light in this dark tunnel!


I do not think Tang meant to be disrespectful, and in fact was just pointing out that people still do not know what is happening and there *isn't* any good news right now (and if there is, perhaps people would rather post it themselves than in your thread?) rather than being insulting to you, but of course s/he can answer that for themselves.

I am sure a lot of people were annoyed by your cross and multiple posting asking the same questions over and over and over again recently, but people took the time to look through your posts and realize that the obsessive and annoying behaviour was simply because you wanted answers and were feeling scared and desperate. Perhaps you could take some time to think about what Tang meant before taking an indignant stand.


I post when I need and feel I need to post. I have come across a lot of people on this site who are here for the same reason: To vent, ask questions, look for answers, and hope for some sympathetic ears. If others don't want to participate in that, then they do not have to respond to my emails. Am I obsessove about getting my husband here? YES! And if others on this site are not, maybe they don't belong here. This should not be a stomping ground. This is a place, in my opinion, people turn to for help, suggestions, and simply because they know others are going thru the same hard time as themselves

If you don't want to respond yto my topics, don't.

I love my husband and I will NEVER stop asking, inquiring, and looking until I get him here! Maybe you are different.


Tang's response was sympathetic and you misunderstood. She was offering sympathy and you just crapped on it, because it wasn't in a form you recognized.

And now she's nice enough to apologize for offending you. What I think probably doesn't matter to you, but I think you owe her an apology as well.

Tang, it was nice of you to try. smile.gif
JazzeroKi
Here's some truely good news.

Consular sections will once again be accepting I-130 petitions.
USCIS offices will still be doing the required checks, but with how things are being arranged it's expected to only add a 5 day delay.

Petitions that were pending and sent to a USCIS office will have the checks performed and then be mailed back to the various consular sections.
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