Oh, I'm really scared now. The liberals are upset with me.

Not.

Do what we're doing - have a 5th wedding anniversary party here in the states for family and friends and wear it then. inshaAllah we're going to have a renewal of vows and a fancy schmancy party.




If we renew our vows twice on our 5th anniversary, once in egypt, and once in the US, that means we'll have been married 4 times, and DH will have to divorce me 12 times to get rid of me permenantly

No wonder you hang out here Charles, alota drama!

Sorry but I felt that it was an extremely inappropriate comment.

Yes I wish I would saw that www before I got married. I would got a hold of one somehow. I love NA styles too, but I would enjoyed having that dress too

Why am I not surprised that Shut the ###### up doesn't phase you, but what I say does?

Ooooooooooo I love that... No way out of that marriage then Rahma:lol:

I meant your original comment to Rahma.

My husband is asleep, the gym is closed, I'm trying not to watch too much tv and I'm borrrrrrrrrrrrrred. I suppose I could continue planning my fantasy 5 year anniversary party. Hmm, need cheesecake... muddy paws is in our town, and they make delicious delicious stuff. If I start saving up now, I just might be able to afford it.





My husband is stuck with me forever (inshaAllah) Now I have the urge to go snuggle with him, but then he'd wake up and be grumpy.

oh yum!!!!!

I definitely want to have a wedding party when Usama gets here, insha Allah. It will be super important for the girls too since they feel like they've really been jipped out of being able to wear a pretty dress to mom's wedding. I want it to be at the Cheesecake factory and a strawberry cheesecake is definitely going to be on the menu!!

No need to worry doodle my dear friend. I knew it was coming, thus why I phrased it the way I did.

My comment hat advertising you sins in public is not adab bothers you? I disagree, it was quite appropriate.

When I say that headcovering is not required by God, I'm told, by Rahma, in fact, not to say that because there are people who believe it to be true, but I'm not allowed to say that fornication, which is explicitly outlawed by God, should not be publically admitted, and you think my comments are inappropriate. It's ok for several of you to mock my beliefs, but inappropriate for me to hold to them.

Ok, we disagree.

Nice cheesecake.
I personally, feel like waking my husband up too... (uuuu I have never used that emoticon yet ) Buuuuut I know it is before 4am there...and my honey should get his beauty sleep

Are you kidding? You called yourself a whore and your husband a pimp just so I would comment on it? Was it important to you to have comments made about something that was never commented on before YOU brought it forward tonight?

For the record, DH and I never fornicated, at least not according to God's law as interpreted by the 4 madhabs + zaharia


It is kinda nice to have a non western style wedding dress. I can wear both my wedding abayas for other events. I wore my white one last eid, but spilled chocolate all down the front of it Still gotta take it to the dry cleaner's



It hasn't been commented on before? Hmm, I must have imagined the whole shebang surrounding henia's wedding and layla then.

And, I felt it was releveant in a thread about wedding dresses and by extention wedding experiences to bring my experiences in, and relate it to some colorful board history.

Islamic Police on the beat

I love this one too

You called yourself a whore and your husband a pimp; no one else did that. If you don't believe yourselves to be fornicators, why label yourselves as such, then claim cover by the 4 madhabs + zaharia, and also clain that you knew someone would call you a fornicator, so that's why you did it?

As a Muslim, you know that the the 4 madhabs, God and the Prophet direct us to advise when we see improper behavior. That is what I did, and I was correct. If you do not want comments about what you do not believe to be your sin, please don't solicit it, then blame the response you get on anyone else but yourself.

If you're so worried about Rahma and what she does and says, why couldn't you PM her?
There's no need to bring up what you think people do wrong in front of everyone else.

Charles: Good one too funny
Melly: Some people believe it is their duty to point out everything (even thou we all could see it was meant as a joke, that invited comments )

Didn't you do just that in the thread where you admit to masturbating with a vibrator? I mean come on!!! And I for one didn't think she was seriously calling herself a whore and her husband a pimp. I know she is a very pious muslim and would never think otherwise and to insinuate that because someone got married not in the way that you personally believe to be totally Islamic is indeed a fornicator is just as wrong as what others said about your masturbating with a vibrator, though I think the latter is less debateable as a sinful act.

Not toward, you, no, and not on this thread before YOU raised it. If you wish to take up the mantle of Layla and use your position as a Muslima to promote fornication as an Islamic value, then be my guest. It hasn't been an issue for a while.

I hear a lot of crap about how everyone here is allowed to have a view and if you have an issue with someone, take it up off the board, but no one has EVER approached me off the board when they have an issue with my beliefs. You mock me in public, and expect me to lay low. I don't. If you haven't figured that out yet, and you don't respect me enough to approach me off the boards, as you say is best, then you will hear from me on the boards.

uh oh here we go again with that topic

LOL! I'm so glad that we have you here to inforce proper islamic adab.

I am a very pious Muslim, too, doodle.

I said I had a vibrator. I did not say what I did with it. The critics of someone saying they have a dildo are the ones who embellished the statements, as YOU are doing now.

Allah is very explicit about fornication. Dildos for married women separated from their husbands is highly debatable.

I'm mocking you? I'm having a little fun at my own expense and at the expense of board history.

And I'm glad I have the right to say what I feel is correct from study, not pick and choose what I like for myself from desire.




Your comment that you made your statement to bring on comment belies that.

It's Allah is watching you... or maybe it's Szsz....

oookiedokie then

I'm not Islam-lite. Sorry if that bothers anyone.

Which would of course seem to imply that others do pick and choose and are Islam-lite. Okiedokie then

This is VERY OFF-TOPIC!

top this pic, henia

You admitted that you were trying to start something, Rahma. You were successful. I hope you're proud of yourself. My advisement was sincere and gentle. The big deal came later.

Make comments in a Post either direct or implied toward another member that are purposely designed to upset, antagonize, make fun of, belittle, or otherwise instigate an argument that takes away from the personal enjoyment of the Service by other users.

game set and match.

Wow bed hazard Charles:lol: Now that is fornicating
Hmm let me see if I can top that

Actually, the first time this whole argument went down, it was a whole huge bloody mess with people being called fornicators. I merely thought I would pre-empt the whole prolonged, drawn out schpeels, cut right to the fornicating name calling and be done with it

I'll admit, in szsz's madhab, I'm a fornicator. I thought I'd save you the trouble of labeling me as such

I guess I am/was one too

I have the same madhab the Prophet had, and they stoned fornicators.

Guess what, Rahma? I wasn't thinking about you tonight, much less devising ways to label you. I hadn't even posted on this thread. Whatever your point was in calling yourself a whore and your husband a pimp, don't say it was for my benefit. You, as a Muslim, know that it is not proper adab to call out your sins in public. That you challenge me for reminding you of that is a contradiction of your own stated beliefs that we should do our best toward each other.

Perhaps you were seeking to be entertaining by trying to be more like those who do not follow God. I don't know what was your motivation, but blaming me is a red herring.

All righty then. Since I am not a fornicator, and my husband is not a pimp, I was not broadcasting any sins in public. Maybe my sense of humor is not to your liking, but it's not my job to make you laugh.

I'm off to bed. I'll be here all week. Try the veal.

I got the joke

So why claim that you directed your "joke" at me expecting to be negatively labeled? I never labeled you, you labeled yourself.

Perhaps my seriousness about Islam is not to your liking, but it's not my job to carry your burdens either.

Good night!

so funny Rahma. We've missed you around here, it's good to see you around more! How is everything going?

I would like to see some more of the beautiful wedding dresses - Islamic and otherwise - please:-).

Yes me too
Here is some dresses from Constantine Algerie:

here's a very traditional berber wedding dress from the Mid atlas....not my style

MBP- that looks rather stiff and heavy and also somewhat wide.

heheheh when i was in morocco last year, some carpet seller wnated me to dress in a traditional berber costume. i refused but made another woman do it. Se said everything weighed at least as much as her own body weight. It just doenst look like you could enjoy your wedding day LOL