Hi every body, let me reintroduce my self I been a VJ member for about two years I was loging under appletree35 for some reson I can't reloged under that name that is why I changed to this name.

My husband has been here for a little nore than a year, now we have a big problem and I have an ordeal, his mother is very sick in Morocco right now she is in the ICU, she have big heart problems. Right now her heart if full of water and the doctors said that it may explode if she dosn't get better in the next twenty four hrs. my husband i devasteded and I'm so sad because she is a wonderfull woman and I love her dearly. Now I fill that my husband has to go and see her, and I'm making plans for him to go, I talked to one of my sisters in law and see said that my mother in law want to see my I will love to go but our economical situation is not very good I just change jobs and I don't know if my boss will let me go.

I'm so sorry to post here but honestly I don't want to talk to any body else right now my heart is broken in a million pieces, I love gher so much and its very painfull to see my husband this sad and I'm not able to do anything to make this pain go away, I wish I could do something for her.

Please I beg to all of you to pray for her to get better.

Thank you

I'm so sorry hon! I'll keep her in my prayers.

Im sorry that you and your husband are going through this rough time. I will keep you in my prayers.

Our prayers are with you.

thoughts and prayers are w/ you & your family appletree

I am very sorry to hear that as well...My thoughts and prayers are with you both..Inchalh everything will be good...

Appletree - I'm so sorry to hear that. I will say a prayer for you and your family

Go, I think they would understand but I know that ticket prices are up there but if you can get it I think about 5 days before you will get a good price. I wish you the best, I would run to be with my fiances mother. I am so sad and sorry, becuase I believe older people have so much to offer. I like to work with them and all my friends are older, but you would regret not going I think.

I want to thank everybody for your prayers and good wishes, you all are very supportive, my husband call his home today and they said that today she started to eat wich is a good sign because she hasn' eat in about a week, the doctors are running some more test to see what is the cause of the water in her heart, but they started to see some improvement, Insha Allah i a good sign.

Once again thank you all and God bless you.

Best wishes from me and my husband

Unfortunately, I cannot say any magic words to make all this go away, but plz know you, your husband and first and foremoste the MiL is in my prayers.
My husband's mother went throu a 5 year battle with colon cancer. She suffered a great deal. He was devastated by its effects. He put all his life on hold for her. He took her to all the best doctors and hospitals he could afford in Algerie and France. I bought her medicines from here. We prayed and prayed for her to be well... thinking, really denying she would not overcome it but unfortunately it was her time. She passed on ... We both, but esp my husband took it very hard. I could not comfort him in anyway, other to say she is not suffering now. I know it is hard to comfort loved ones when nothing can really comfort in a time like this. Cannot delete the pain of losing someone so dear. All you can do is be there for them and give them space when they need it.
I know even thou you cannot be there with her, with him...I am sure they both know you love and care for them. And understand your obligations with your works.
You all are in my prayers. I pray your MiL overcomes her illness and does not suffer. Amin.

I will make dua for your family. May you stay strong in this time of need. Salaam.