QUOTE(nzimmers @ Feb 7 2007, 11:12 PM)

God I wish I had known that, I went over all the instructions for a DCF, researched it endlessly - never found a mention about a waiver - really burns me that this information is not included in the instructions. well, I'm getting an immigration attorney, unless anyone has a better idea
If you don't feel comfortable handling it yourself, a lawyer is a good idea. At minimum a consult. Lawyers make errors all the time so you can't rely on them to know everything about this - some of the work will still be up to you.
On the xrays and/or vaccinations, there are
always exemptions for pregnancy in any medical situation i.e. no xrays at the dentist. This should not be an area of concern for you.
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If you file for a K1 or K3 visa, is your fiancee or wife allowed to travel to the US on a tourist visa? For example, I get married to her in Japan in March and come back to the US. Then I file for a K3 spouse visa. Is she allowed to come here on a tourist visa while the I-130 and I-129 are being processed, as long as she returns to Japan within the allowed 90 days?Or, I file for a K1 fiancee now. Will the above situtation be allowed?
Technically allowed but always up to the decision of the officer at the point of entry and always a potentially risky proposition since a tourist visa is meant for those who do not have immigrant intent, but the very nature of being a fiance or spouse implies immigrant intent. Best to be very prepared with documentation and evidence of ties to her home country, and be prepared for the possibility of denial at the POE and having to return all the way back home without every entering the country. It does happen.