I lived in this little village a little south of the city of Sunderland. That's in the NorthEast. We lived in a 3 bedroom terraced house on a quiet street. I am completely 'big city' girl, so you can imagine the culture shock for me!!
When I first moved there, we moved into a new house together from his 'bachelor pad'. It wasn't the greatest house, but it was close to the village green & everything was nearby. It's a smaaaaaaaaale place....the day we moved in...he went to the corner shop for bread and the old woman behind the counter asked how he and his American girlfriend were getting on! hahahahah His old house was like 5 miles away, and you'd think we had moved to another country! All his friends were still in the old town, and tbh...it became a pain turning out on a night with them several times a week. It would cost us 10 quid in taxis...which is not the end of the world, but if you're doin in 4,5 times a week, it gets ridiculous. So we slowly stopped hanging out with them & all our free money went to traveling.
At that point, I went home for a visit. After I went home, he was very lonely...we had at that point, segregated ourselves from his 'marras' and since we had spent so much time traveling, we didn't really make too many new friends in our new place. So D was terribly lonely when I left. I said 'hey why don't you go to that pub on the green?' cos we had been in there before..and it's a SAFC supporter's branch. He's a BIG Black Cats fan. So he started going in & making friends...one day they were short staffed so he helped the stewardess. Then that started her asking him to 'help out' more and more. I said 'why the hell not? you'll make friends and you won't spend our money! lol'
So long story short, he became the assistant steward of this social club. And it was really great fun. By the time I got back...a few mos later...we couldn't swing a cat without someone sayin hello to him. It was nice! We made all sorts of really good friends...very decent people, and we became a very large dysfunctional 'family' of sorts. When I got back, we also bought a nice house...the 3 bedroom I mentioned earlier. Our neighbors were nice, the street looked out for us, and when ya walk down the street, horns would pip and people would wave. And one time we got into a rip roaring fight, and later that night when we went' to the club, everyone knew about it, lol.
The old men in the town are mostly ex-miners. Some of them I can hardly understand because they speak 'pityakker' or summat. It took me a long time to figure out the slang, and I can't tell you how many times I told people 'my name's not Bonnie!"
We'd have great times at the pub...I became the 'designated game maker' when there was nowt better to do....I thought up the infamous strip rock-paper-scissors game...strip sh!thead (a card game)......strip fruit machine and pool......comparing the sizes of bare azz prints in the snow....and my personal fave, 4am drunken 3-legged races to the paper shop, lol. With a hill, hahahah
We'd barbeque in the summer and have all our friend over. Our old friends decided it wasn't too much trouble at that point to head our way every now and again, so they were all back in the fold, which was really great. We always had our friends around us...they are top people. Despite what many may think about 'Northern Monkeys', some of the kindest and smartest people I met were there. And they'd go to the ends of the earth for ya if you needed it.
Sunderland's a great place...of course, there are tons of chavs as there will be anywhere you go, but still...nice place to spend the day shopping at The Bridges or taking the metro to Newcastle's Eldon Square. Love the outside of Eldon Square...not so much on the inside, lol. I'd spend my days walking the streets with a coffee shopping at Karen Millen, Lush, Fennicks, La Senza....and of course hitting TK Maxx
Durham's nearby and everyone knows how beautiful that place is. And the shopping or a night out there aint too shabby either! Metrocentre (which supposedly is one of Europe's biggest malls) doesnt' necessarily blow my skirt up, but there was a kiosk which sold choccie covered coffee beans, which is a fave of mine.
London's not too bad a trek if you book like 2 weeks in advance...you can get a supersave ticket which is like only 20 quid return. My friends and I used to go down to spend the day, do some shopping, or even spend several days going out clubbing. We used to love going to G-A-Y and I hooked up a guy friend of mine there who's in the closet, cos you can't be gay in a lil village without gettin major chew
Newcy airport's not too bad as far as where it goes cept it's a bit limited....sometimes we'd have to fly into Stanstead and then chill out for a few hours to get our connection. But Teeside was a great lil airport for quick jaunts to Ireland.
Anyways, I've talked too much...but I will close with this...if I had to live anywhere in the UK, I'd live right in my lil village. So much for the big city girl
