Okay I'll be direct and to the point... she as worked in a massage place. I'm not talking about the spa at the Four Seasons but at a Japanese Massage place called Akane in Bangkok. It's not like she's a registered sex worker or anything but this place isn't Wat Pho if you know what I mean.

Should she list it or not. It's her most recent job and is more than 1 year. It's the only job anything like it. Some time at a medical clinic, the counter at a Dunkin Doughnuts that sort of thing. Now that we are together she no longer works at Akane and is going to office work interviews as I type this...

So there it is... how honest need we be?

She's 24, from Roi-et and went to Uni there for 2 years and got a certificate in computers so it's not like she got on the bus to Bangkok from Roi-et at 16 and went straight to work as a happy-ending massage girl. Like so many others after a few years of working really hard for maybe 10,000 baht a year she realized she could make that in a month (without having sex) at a place like Akane.

Thoughts (go ahead... I've got thick skin).

Sorry, don't know what to say...I am speachless.

What, exactly, does that mean?

I am just shocked, but at the same time respect you for coming here and talking about something like this. That is all...nothing more, nothing less.

We are both quite worried about it...

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=49432

wow is right.. your suppose to leave your wallet and not your heart in places like that Anyway, I got to give you credit only a man in love would bring stuff like this up. If there is no money trail I would skip it unless she lives alone.. if she is with family then there is someone there that was supporting her.. IF not there has to be some show of support. Maybe you can twist is as a foot massage only place.