QUOTE(stina&suj @ Jan 8 2007, 08:27 AM)

QUOTE(Reynaldo @ Jan 8 2007, 08:55 AM)

QUOTE(wife_of_mahmoud @ Jan 7 2007, 11:19 PM)

If anyone wants to know what my husband said, he is ready to translate it, but he didn't want to shame you in front of everyone.
WTF?
Yeah arguing in another language is not right anyway...how can anyone know if the TOS is being violated if the words are made secretive by being typed entirely in a language most people on here cannot read or understand. I have no problem with people writing in their native tongue, but a translation should always follow. And if it is something that "shames" someone, it could be a violation of the TOS.
What was said is a violation of the TOS, that's why it was said in Arabic. I offered to take it private, but no takers. I'm not going to be rude and talk in another language here when few understand. There's not even a point in that.
QUOTE(LisaD @ Jan 8 2007, 09:39 AM)

QUOTE(stina&suj @ Jan 8 2007, 10:27 AM)

QUOTE(Reynaldo @ Jan 8 2007, 08:55 AM)

QUOTE(wife_of_mahmoud @ Jan 7 2007, 11:19 PM)

If anyone wants to know what my husband said, he is ready to translate it, but he didn't want to shame you in front of everyone.
WTF?
Yeah arguing in another language is not right anyway...how can anyone know if the TOS is being violated if the words are made secretive by being typed entirely in a language most people on here cannot read or understand. I have no problem with people writing in their native tongue, but a translation should always follow. And if it is something that "shames" someone, it could be a violation of the TOS.
I think the Arabic was typed to prove a point as far as 'who's more Palestinian', but that's just my take on it.
I do think WOM's analogy about being French was very relevant. omG, did I just agree with WOM?

You're right about the Arabic, wrong about the French. Unlike Europeans, Arabs don't cut their ties. Palestinians will always be Palestinian, and we don't stray far from our roots.
Mahmoud doesn't know me from Adam, so he has nothing to go by about my heritage but the comment that offended he and WOM. Some things about me simply aren't known because I don't discuss them publically, so there is no objective way to measure my relationship to Palestine through my own experience or thru my family ties. I'm 4th generation on only one side.
The custom of shaming was mentioned before, but shaming doesn't work well on people you don't know and who don't know you. You got the opportunity to see someone try to shame another one, but that's not what you come here for.
Continue the discussion, if you want. I'm weary of all the fighting over nothing. Anyone desparate for a translation is free to PM me.
Have a great day, all!