Less than a week to go
Some of you may have looked at this website
http://www.alchemyfoods.com/rossanddiana/
I created it immediately after my first trip to Russia (and Diana)
It is our story as of mid-February
What I don't mention is that I failed my final Nursing class in the RN program I was enrolled in, so I didn't graduate
I ad-libbed a "Plan B", which was to sign up for the NCLEX-PN test, which I was eligible for, which, assuming I passed, would give me an LPN license which would allow me to work as a Licensed Practical Nurse in New York State. I was afraid I might be forced to work in nursing homes - but my dream was to work in an outpatient clinic or a Medical-Surgical Floor or an Emergency Department, which would give me the experience I felt that I had to have in order to return to school in January 2008 and repeat that class
(at my school, the Borough of Manhattan Community College, you can only fail once - if you fail twice, that's it, you're done - AND if you fail the first time, they raise the bar - instead of needing a 73 to pass, you need a 77! Mind you, I had a perfect 4.0 in my pre-clinical classes - the pre-requisite classes you must take (Anatomy and Physiology, Chemistry, Psychology etc.) before you can even apply for the Nursing Program)
Anyway
I had been planning my first trip to Russia all semester - of course I was thinking that I would have passed by the skin of my teeth - but I failed - but I went to Russia anyway
when I returned I had to map everything out for myself - if I had passed I would have been told that I had to do A and B and C - but I was on my own - eventually I got my ducks in a row and I was given a three month "window" for taking the NCLEX test - end of March to end of June. And Diana wanted me to return to Russia for a second visit so I sighed and said ok, I'll take it end of June...
At this time I was working off the books for a local store owner, full time or more.... less than eight dollars an hour. I had a couple of 82 hour weeks.
Oh and somewhere in that time frame I managed to get her I-129F completed and sent off.
NOA1: 27 March
NOA2: 06 April
So I went to Russia the second time, during which time Diana received her packet from the Embassy, and notification that her interview date was going to be late June, but a few days later they called her to tell her that everything had been cancelled.
I returned and studied until I was blind and then took the NCLEX-PN test - I was so sure I had failed - I went home and cried, feeling completely hopeless - but a week later I found out that somehow I had passed (there was nothing easy about this test and I have talked to a few RNs who worked as LPNs first and they all told me that their LPN NCLEX was harder than their RN NCLEX).
So then, (because of IMBRA and Homeland Security's "no time frame" bullshit) Diana wanted a third trip to celebrate - ASAP, which meant Turkey - I knew it was important for me to get to work as soon as possible but I couldn't say no to her (and I wanted to see her again so badly myself) - and she would be paying for everything - so off I went...
The day after I returned our case was reopened: 25 July.
I received the foolish IMBRA RFE in the mail on 07 August,
it was completed and returned to the VSC on 10 August,
and our case was finally, finally reapproved on 01 September.
I started interviewing at all sorts of health-related facilities in Manhattan and DaBronx (I live in Harlem). Lincoln Hospital was my first choice and end of July I walked into the Lincoln Nursing Department and dropped off my resume and filled out their application. Now anyone who lives in the City knows, August is not the best time to be looking for a job (just like January is not the best time to visit Russia. This is my life). A lot of people were on vacation and things moved sooooooo slooooooowly. And if anyone is in the Health Care field, you know what it means when I say, JCAHO was inspecting Lincoln Hospital and interrogating the staff in September. Everything came to a complete stop. What it all boils down to is, although I filled out the application in July, I didn't get a start date until 13 October (my start date was for three days later).
There was only one other job that I was seriously considering and they were making things really hard for me. Nursing shortage? what nursing shortage?
Which brings me up to the present day.
My job is in the Lincoln Emergency Department, third busiest in the country (if not North America). I wish I had more supervision and guidance at work, a lot of the time I am just on my own, trying to figure out what to do. I hardly ever get to sit down and my ankles, knees and back ache all of the time now. I'm 40 years old. When I come home at night I am so tired I can hardly move, and my mind is like a bowl of cold mush.
Diana's interview date is 01 December.
I completed the I-134 and sent it off, along with last year's tax return (0 dollars, I was a full time student), photocopies of my first two paychecks, and the letter of offering from Lincoln Hospital stating my annual salary ($37,636). This letter is signed by the Human Resources "Senior Associate Director".
I have a co-sponsor - but his tax return from last year is also not good (about $10k). Life in the City has been hard for me and for all of my friends since the Arabs bombed us. There is no one else I can ask who can be a better co-sponsor (several better candidates failed to come through), and this is driving Diana up the wall. She has the impression that the last year's tax return and W-2s are of overriding importance (and during my lunch break calls she doesn't want to talk about anything else :-( ).
My co-sponsor has a very good job now (something like $100,000 dollars a year) but of course no W-2s as of yet. He also photocopied his letter of offering showing his annual salary, and his two most recent pay stubs. No notarized letter from his employer, I bugged him for that but he said that that wasn't possible. Eh, whatever.
I was almost evicted in September - I had to beg Diana to WU me most of the rest of her savings. Now she is tapped out and in the next week I am going to have to WU her whatever I can scrape together. WU is making a lot of money off of us. :-(
So is there any good news that I can give Diana? Or should I have told her to wait until next summer? :-( We've already waited for so long. Personally I feel that our odds are about 90%. I don't think she is that optimistic. :-(
