Well all is OK afterall. I recieved this email........ and as my tickets are in my married name and my passport in my maiden name that is fine
"Thank you for your email.
I would like to inform you that US immigration regulations will only permit
passengers travelling with their marriage certificates under the following
conditions.
Will accept:
Tickets issued in the passengers married name and
Passports issued in the passengers maiden name Will NOT accept:
Tickets issued in the passengers maiden name and
Passports issued in the passengers married name
In the view of above I can confirm that it is fine for you to travel using the
same tickets. Also a note has been placed on your booking informing the airport
staff about your married and maiden names. "