QUOTE(john_and_marlene @ Nov 21 2006, 12:40 PM)

You do not have to apply for EAD or AP. They are both optional.
Once she gets the permanent residence card, neither is needed.
(That said, be aware that you could potentially be in for a very long wait for your AOS. EAD and AP are like insurance -- optional, but if you're waiting a long time, you may wish you had them!)