QUOTE(dougyceci @ Nov 8 2006, 01:40 PM)

You filed the I-130 for your CR-1 but never filed the I-129F for the K-3. Is that correct? But in your letter you said "no wedding" and were wondering how to sneak this info in? Maybe I misunderstood, if you could put your situation a bit more clearly it may help in getting more advice. Thanks
There is no K3; we're dropping it. It turned into a CR1/IR1 because I waited too long to file an I-129F. I've been advised that having no wedding photos, and having a large age gap (ours is 21 years with the wife older) are two big red flags that can cause suspicions of fraud if not addressed prior to the interview. We have good reasons for not having wedding photos. We prepared for a wedding, but ran into trouble with a stubborn judge that didn't want to grant permission for us to marry, so we hired a lawyer to deal with him, which held things up 5 more days. The permission came thru at 6:30 pm; we got the registration done at about 8 pm, took a taxi home and barely had time to have dates and milk with his family before getting to bed by 9:30 pm. Then, up again by 2 am to catch a taxi to the train station to catch a train to another city where my plane left at 10 am.
The age gap, well, that wasn't planned
I was advised to add an addendum to the I-129F that would discuss all the red flags that US consulates are known to look for, whether they were an issue for us or not. With the I-129F now not part of our package, I'm wondering if there will be another piece of paperwork sent to the NVC that I can attach this addendum to that will serve to allow us to give them our information beforehand. Unfortunately, I know much less about CR1/IR1, having studied for the K3.
Thanks, everyone!
One more thing. I received TWO separate AOS fee requests with the same number for the same visa request. Am I supposed to pay twice?