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brownnskinn

Apr 19 2006, 10:03 AM

worked pretty much 8 1/4 hours straight. They didnt show him the employee breakroom or anything, they just said if he needs to eat, dont do it right there, go out. Not sure the exact wording, but poor baby took it to mean he had to go OUTSIDE to eat, and it was raining yesterday! So he just stood in the corner, wolfed down the food, and went back to work.

Make sure he gets a back brace, did they go over proper body mech? I'm sorry to hear that. Our men have gone trough enough to get here, They should be feeling like they are not entitled to certain rights. ie..breaks. They have great work ethics, and should not feel like they have to accept whatevers been told to them to do. I told David that slavery days are over. We are not accepting just any job. They should not have allowed him to work so long without a break

jkb919

Apr 19 2006, 10:07 AM

[quote name='Sbys' date='Apr 19 2006, 09:41 AM' post='137611']
Good morning everyone

Hey Joanna - they kept Michael's original birth certificate at the interview, thankfully he had two copies. I'm glad he's safe and sound in JA

Is he going for all his certificates today?

/quote]

Yes he is going to try and get some things done today and the other things done tomorrow, poor thing it is his b-day and I keep calling him and telling him more things that he needs to get done...

brownnskinn

Apr 19 2006, 10:27 AM

[quote name='Jme3584' date='Apr 19 2006, 10:56 AM' post='137793']
Ok guys I have a question…well questions. I am not quite sure how to word it so bear with me.

How do you know when it’s the right time to have a baby? What things did you/do you want to have in place before you decide to have a baby? Do you/did you want a certain amount of money saved up, assets, certain job wage? What are those things? Do those things need to be in place before you decide to have a baby or do you decide to have a baby and then trust that those things will fall into place? I am asking for personal opinions and experience…no right or wrong…just what is right for you.

Also for those that have had children…how much do they really cost? Is it doable on a “regular” income?

Just curious

Well, Jaime I have had children on very little on up to what others would call a very descent Income. I would have to say that no time is a good time. And I would not change any of my experiences for the world. This next baby will be the only one that will be "planned" so we'll see how it goes. I always pray and hope for the best. Things will work you fine for you all as well...When the time comes that is.

I would say save up at least two- three months income unless you have PTO and ESL, so that you can stay some with the baby for a bit. The most expensive thing is the day care, then the formula. You can save money with breast feeding which is best, must in some cases you will have to supplement with formula. Lastly... the disposable diapers. When we get ready to have our next baby at the shower I'm going to ask for formula and different size diapers only.

I have always has insurance, even medicade at one point, the care is no different. but my out of pocket cost has always been next to nothing.

Sbys

Apr 19 2006, 10:39 AM

What really made us decide was Michael's age - he's almost 37 - we want to raise our kids and still have lots of retirement time after

so we thought we should get started right away. In a perfect world I would have saved a few months salary... got the house we want to stay in forever... found a new job for myself and waited for Michael to be in a job he was happy with. But, that wasn't in the cards for us.

Mostly, I think you should feel stable. Whatever that means to you - wether it be financially, emotionally, whatever.

QUOTE(Jme3584 @ Apr 19 2006, 09:56 AM)

Ok guys I have a question…well questions. I am not quite sure how to word it so bear with me.

How do you know when it’s the right time to have a baby? What things did you/do you want to have in place before you decide to have a baby? Do you/did you want a certain amount of money saved up, assets, certain job wage? What are those things? Do those things need to be in place before you decide to have a baby or do you decide to have a baby and then trust that those things will fall into place? I am asking for personal opinions and experience…no right or wrong…just what is right for you.

Also for those that have had children…how much do they really cost? Is it doable on a “regular” income?

Just curious

QUOTE(Dee&Dav @ Apr 19 2006, 07:43 AM)

QUOTE(rhondapayter @ Apr 18 2006, 09:09 PM)

Mindy,
Your photo album on Yahoo is still EMPTY

We're waiting....................

Yea we are waiting

For anyone who did not get a chance to see I added ours to the site..

I love the pics

Poor thing, well... at least he can be in Jamaica for his birthday, and he's working his way closer to you

Tell him Happy Birthday!

QUOTE(jkb919 @ Apr 19 2006, 10:07 AM)

Yes he is going to try and get some things done today and the other things done tomorrow, poor thing it is his b-day and I keep calling him and telling him more things that he needs to get done...

Jonesie

Apr 19 2006, 10:40 AM

Good morning everyone

Happy birthday Andre!

Waiting for answers to Jamie's question too...

Ms Squitto

Apr 19 2006, 10:53 AM

QUOTE(Mrs. Smith @ Apr 18 2006, 10:41 AM)

Hello Ladies,

I know it has been Quite some time since i ahve been around, but life has been real busy since Karl arrived. We are getting married this Saturday, and we have 90 people attending, so iI have had som extensive planning to do, and preparation in such a short period of time. But it will all pay off come this weekend!

It has definetly been an experience, living with someone versus the long distance relationship, alot of adapting to our living ways. I wouldn't trade it for the world. We just this weekend went to a show at a local club that had T O K, it was a great show!!! Well I just wanted to stop in and say Hello to all, and hope all is well!!!

Suzy

Hi Suzy,

It's great to hear from. Congratulations on your upcoming wedding. I'm glad that things are going well for you and Karl. Take lots of pics, you know we love those

QUOTE(Jonesie @ Apr 18 2006, 03:14 PM)

Good afternoon everyone

I read Elizabeth's post, but was waiting on her to announce any news/updates...

***
Another poll added in Yahoo, but I'd like to discuss it here as well

GED - IS YOUR SPOUSE PLANNING TO TAKE THE TEST OR HAS ALREADY TAKEN AND PASSED/FAILED IT?
We're on the waiting list for GED prep courses now (free). I talked to a university here and they told us that once hubby gets green card he qualifies for financial aid (grants, scholarships, etc.)

.

They asked for his JA transcripts to analyze them and see if he can enroll or if he needs GED...we decided to just take GED anyway (it will help on his resume until he gets Bachelors degree). And knowing how slow things can be back a yaad (I seriously doubt they will fax transcripts in time for May 1st enrollment), he can go to school and study for GED until he's ready to take the test. Praying for a fast green card approval!

Squito is also taking the GED test. He's prepping for it now. We've decided to wait until he gets his GC to apply to school because at least that way he'll be eligible for aid.

QUOTE(Minfay @ Apr 18 2006, 05:56 PM)

Well.....I wish I could go in and spy on him......

He said a lot of people in the class can't speak English. But, he is learning. I think it's gonna actually do him alot of good. It really is all in the translation and the stuff that they are working on forces him to use proper English -- which, I don't because I don't do it either.....and I can understand what he is talking about. The stranger on the street (and all my friends) have no clue what he is saying

We work on math at home. I'm gonna be in trouble soon because we are moving into fractions

it's crazy, you don't realize how much you don't know (or forgot) until you try to do it. I have a degree in Finance and couldn't for the life of me remember how to convert improper fractions when Squit showed in to me in his GED book. I really feel for him having to go through all this elementary level stuff again

QUOTE(rhondapayter @ Apr 18 2006, 08:58 PM)

My best advice to all you newbies is to get your man in classes ASAP when he gets here. For one, it will give him something constructive to do so he's not bored out of his mind and also, this is the best time for him to do it, before he starts working and gets too busy.

That's great advice. Squito's tried the job thing, but the first question everyone poses is "do you have work papers"? It's been so frustrating for him. For now, he's just going to focus on getting his GED. Hopefully, by the time the work papers finally materialize he'll have his GED and be ready to get a good gig.

QUOTE(rhondapayter @ Apr 18 2006, 09:09 PM)

Mindy,
Your photo album on Yahoo is still EMPTY

We're waiting....................

yeah mindy, wassup

jkb919

Apr 19 2006, 10:53 AM

QUOTE(Jonesie @ Apr 19 2006, 11:40 AM)

Good morning everyone

Happy birthday Andre!

Waiting for answers to Jamie's question too...

Close, Jonesie but it is Adrians b-day

the names are almost similar...I know i have trouble keeping up with everyones names also

Ms Squitto

Apr 19 2006, 10:57 AM

QUOTE(jkb919 @ Apr 19 2006, 08:15 AM)

Good morning everyone,

Well I am pleased to say that Adrian made it back to Jamaica safely with only a few glitchs...he was over weight on his luggage and had to pay $25.00US and then when he got to JA they made him pay almost $200.00US for the two cell phones that he had, he tried to explain that one was a US phone and one was for Jamaica but they still made him pay..(How stupid is that???)
Buy anyway, today is his birthday although he cannot enjoy it too much he has a lot of running around to do...
I know he has to have his long form birth certificate for the interview but Will they take and keep his birth certificate at the interview?? or can we make a copy for them to keep??

Joanna

Happy Birthday Adrian. Glad he made it home safely with minor troubles. They will keep the BC, at least they kept Squito's. Luckily, he requested two copies so he still has one with him now...

QUOTE(Jme3584 @ Apr 19 2006, 10:56 AM)

Ok guys I have a question…well questions. I am not quite sure how to word it so bear with me.

How do you know when it’s the right time to have a baby? What things did you/do you want to have in place before you decide to have a baby? Do you/did you want a certain amount of money saved up, assets, certain job wage? What are those things? Do those things need to be in place before you decide to have a baby or do you decide to have a baby and then trust that those things will fall into place? I am asking for personal opinions and experience…no right or wrong…just what is right for you.

Also for those that have had children…how much do they really cost? Is it doable on a “regular” income?

Just curious

I do not have children yet. Squito and I would like to wait until he has a job that can support the family w/o my working just because I'd like to stay at home with the baby for about a year. Though that's our ideal situation, we're still open to having children prior to meeting that goal. Whatever is meant to be will be. Having children is doable on just about any income. My parents are far from rich and there were four of us and we never went w/o anything. If I got pregnant tomorrow, I know we'd manage by the Grace of God. I don't think you'll ever fully prepared. IMO

Elizabethnhenry

Apr 19 2006, 11:06 AM

Hola peoples!

Happy Wednesday!

Henry came back from JA yesterday - he has a tan.

His tans wear off very quickly though. He seemed happy to be back but sad that his 10 days in JA are over! You know how it is. He said it was great being in JA again. And, get this, he honored my request for coconut water and customs let him keep it - woohoo!! Two 64 oz bottles!!!

Anyway, tomorrow and Friday he has orientation and work starts Monday!!! Please keep him in your prayers and send all your best wishes his way. His first US job!! Wohoo!!!

He too is in GED class, which he now has to leave. He is real torn up about that - he LOVED that class.
I think he will just have to bite and take the test or find a night class. UGH!

As for other updates...those "pee sticks" are all negative even though I am one week late. So I will wait a week and then go see the "groinocologist" (remember Archie Bunker used to say that...

)

Happy Birthday, Adrian!!!

I will go give my poll answers now. :-)

Minfay

Apr 19 2006, 11:12 AM

QUOTE(Ms Squitto @ Apr 19 2006, 10:53 AM)

QUOTE(rhondapayter @ Apr 18 2006, 09:09 PM)

Mindy, Your photo album on Yahoo is still EMPTY

We're waiting....................

yeah mindy, wassup

Okay.....I have the pictures -- just cannot seem to get the electronic files from my friend. Maybe I shouldn't call her my friend

I keep asking, she keeps telling me she will e:mail them....blah, blah, blah. Believe me, I am NOT doing this on purpose.

Happy Birthday Adrian!!!

Joanna -- If he can, get two originals of his birth papers. They took an original of Roy's at the interview and we did need the additional original that he had....and I have made plenty of color copies of it also. If he can't get it now he can always order it and have it sent to your address in Florida.

Babies, Babies, Babies......personally, I like my lifestyle way too much to give anything up to have children right now. My clock is ticking though......Roy wants ONE but understands that I cannot quit my job to take care of "it" -- and we all know how much money he is contributing at this point. We have decided to not talk about this again until he has a GOOD job.

Henry -- WELCOME HOME!!

Ms Squitto

Apr 19 2006, 11:23 AM

QUOTE(Elizabethnhenry @ Apr 19 2006, 12:06 PM)

Hola peoples!

Happy Wednesday!

Henry came back from JA yesterday - he has a tan.

His tans wear off very quickly though. He seemed happy to be back but sad that his 10 days in JA are over! You know how it is. He said it was great being in JA again. And, get this, he honored my request for coconut water and customs let him keep it - woohoo!! Two 64 oz bottles!!!

Anyway, tomorrow and Friday he has orientation and work starts Monday!!! Please keep him in your prayers and send all your best wishes his way. His first US job!! Wohoo!!!

He too is in GED class, which he now has to leave. He is real torn up about that - he LOVED that class.
I think he will just have to bite and take the test or find a night class. UGH!

As for other updates...those "pee sticks" are all negative even though I am one week late. So I will wait a week and then go see the "groinocologist" (remember Archie Bunker used to say that...

)

Happy Birthday, Adrian!!!

I will go give my poll answers now. :-)

Glad to hear that Henry is home safe and sound. Where is he taking the GED classes? In NYC or CT? I will keep both you and Henry is our prayers. We hope to hear some good baby news soon

Rhonda,

Where did you and Henry stay when you went to DR? Squito and I are trying to plan a honeymoon. I'm a bit hesitant about going ahead and booking w/o having his AP document in hand, but I cannot think of a good reason that it would be denied. But with all of the trouble we've been having as of late, I dont want to buy a trip until I know that he can travel outside of the US. We found a great package deal to DR for only 600 pp all inclusive for 5 nights, that's not bad...

Elizabethnhenry

Apr 19 2006, 11:25 AM

P.S.

For any K-3s in the thread....can't remember if there are. Henry travelled on his K-3 with zero drama. He landed at JFK and was asked only two questions - was I his wife (my name is on the visa) an what was his "A number". So all in all - quite easy POE.

Ms Squitto

Apr 19 2006, 11:26 AM

QUOTE(Elizabethnhenry @ Apr 19 2006, 12:25 PM)

P.S.

For any K-3s in the thread....can't remember if there are. Henry travelled on his K-3 with zero drama. He landed at JFK and was asked only two questions - was I his wife (my name is on the visa) an what was his "A number". So all in all - quite easy POE.

are they supposed to know their a number by heart?

Minfay

Apr 19 2006, 11:39 AM

QUOTE(Ms Squitto @ Apr 19 2006, 11:23 AM)

Rhonda -- Where did you and Henry stay when you went to DR?

I went about 5 years ago and stayed at the Iberostar Bavaro. It was the BEST!! I have stayed at many other "all-inclusives" and the Iberostar properties far surpass every other place I've stayed at. I would highly recommend them.

Also, check www.debbiesdominicantravel.com -- there are TONS of review on this site. Damn, do I sound like Kelly?

Elizabethnhenry

Apr 19 2006, 11:50 AM

QUOTE(Ms Squitto @ Apr 19 2006, 12:26 PM)

QUOTE(Elizabethnhenry @ Apr 19 2006, 12:25 PM)

P.S.

For any K-3s in the thread....can't remember if there are. Henry travelled on his K-3 with zero drama. He landed at JFK and was asked only two questions - was I his wife (my name is on the visa) an what was his "A number". So all in all - quite easy POE.

are they supposed to know their a number by heart?

indeed! I guess so. He did not (and I never knew mine back in the day). Anyway, he gove the PO his EAD and while he was looking at that - he looked in the passport and they had written it in his passport when he arrived the first time, so he handed the PO the passport opened to that page and the PO transcribed it onto the I-94.

Rats! Wont let me edit my old post.

Ms. Squitto,

Oh - his GED class was in the city - catholic charities provides the room and the teachers.

Re the DR vacations, my travel agent recently sent me this. Price aside, it would be nice. sigh.

The luxurious villa, Castellamonte, is taking a 7 night minimum for the New Years Eve dates of Dec. 30 to Jan 7. Most villas have a 14 night minimum over the holidays so this is an opportunity to jump on! Castellamonte is located on the Northern Coast of the Dominican Republic, 7 minutes from the famed Playa Grande Golf Course. The 7 bedroom, 7 bath villa sleeps 20 and rents for $30,000/week over the holidays.

For more information and pictures:
http://www.villacollections.com/caribbean/...stellamonte.asp

Please let me know if you are interested!

Ms Squitto

Apr 19 2006, 11:56 AM

Thanks for the info on DR ladies...

Elizabeth, I sent you a pm

Mrs. Smith

Apr 19 2006, 12:05 PM

I got Karl a bike like over a month ago, and he ventures out quite often, just cause he can now!!! H eloves it as well! So did you get hitched yet?

QUOTE(Jamaicagyaldat @ Apr 18 2006, 02:42 PM)

QUOTE(Mrs. Smith @ Apr 18 2006, 09:41 AM)

Hello Ladies,

I know it has been Quite some time since i ahve been around, but life has been real busy since Karl arrived. We are getting married this Saturday, and we have 90 people attending, so iI have had som extensive planning to do, and preparation in such a short period of time. But it will all pay off come this weekend!

It has definetly been an experience, living with someone versus the long distance relationship, alot of adapting to our living ways. I wouldn't trade it for the world. We just this weekend went to a show at a local club that had T O K, it was a great show!!! Well I just wanted to stop in and say Hello to all, and hope all is well!!!

Suzy

Hi Suzy! I am sure your wedding will be fabulous.

I bought Neil a bicycle and he is going crazy. Riding it everywhere too.....

Ms Squitto

Apr 19 2006, 12:26 PM

I just looked into my bank account and saw that the USCIS cashed the EAD check yesterday, finally

Minfay

Apr 19 2006, 12:29 PM

QUOTE(Ms Squitto @ Apr 19 2006, 12:26 PM)

I just looked into my bank account and saw that the USCIS cashed the EAD check yesterday, finally

Yipee!!

brownnskinn

Apr 19 2006, 12:34 PM

Yea

our AOS receipt notice came in the mail!!!!!

Sbys

Apr 19 2006, 12:41 PM

Yay!!

QUOTE(Ms Squitto @ Apr 19 2006, 12:26 PM)

I just looked into my bank account and saw that the USCIS cashed the EAD check yesterday, finally

Yay Again!!

QUOTE(Dee&Dav @ Apr 19 2006, 12:34 PM)

Yea

our AOS receipt notice came in the mail!!!!!

nyseness

Apr 19 2006, 12:43 PM

Hello everyone,

Happy Birthday Adrian!!

Jamie, I have to agree w/both Dee & Squitto. When I had my daughter I was young and trust me a decent wage was a understatement. I didn't have much but I was very grateful. I had a wonderful baby shower got everything from a crib to pampers. I did buy a few things here and there but didn't need anything big until she was 1. Formula was very expensive but I was on WIC. Technically, it's base on your income but I've seen ppl make a lot more then I do today, married, and still qualify for WIC. It's all on you. As far as medical goes I had my mother's ins since I was still under the age of 22 but my daughter had an "in house" ins policy thru the hospital. They have clinics within and the copays were based on your income vs expenses. It is great and very reasonable. I personally don't think ANYONE can be fully ready but having some funds reserved doesn't help at all. If/when it happens just have faith and you will pull through. It's about about hope. My next child is going to be planned as well and although I don't have the finances like I wished for once Javon and I are married and he has a stable job we plan to complete our family.

Ms Squitto

Apr 19 2006, 12:43 PM

Thanks!!

How long does it take to get the EAD typically? How long does it take to get the AP?

nyseness

Apr 19 2006, 12:49 PM

Congrats Dee & Squito!!!

jkb919

Apr 19 2006, 12:52 PM

QUOTE(Sbys @ Apr 19 2006, 01:41 PM)

Yay!!

QUOTE(Ms Squitto @ Apr 19 2006, 12:26 PM)

I just looked into my bank account and saw that the USCIS cashed the EAD check yesterday, finally

Yay Again!!

QUOTE(Dee&Dav @ Apr 19 2006, 12:34 PM)

Yea

our AOS receipt notice came in the mail!!!!!

WAAAAHHHOOOOO!!!

Ms Squitto

Apr 19 2006, 12:56 PM

I neglected to mention this before, as things have been ridiculously hectic for me as of late (as you can probably tell by my scarcity on the boards) but I have a new job. My current gig just wasn't cutting it on the financial end. With Squito not working, all of our regular living expenses, plus the wedding expenses (not to mention the immigration expenses) I knew I needed to supplement my income some way. I considered taking on a second job, but I didn't want to spread myself too thin. So after a great deal of consideration and prayer, I decided to put myself back in the job market. I've been here for just over two years and had grown very comforable in my position but I wasn't exactly being challenged. I went on a series of interviews with one of the major ad agencies here in NYC and got a new job, making significantly more than what I am making now. My last day here is Friday and I have one week off before I start my new job on May 1st. I am really looking forward to the challenges that await me. The Lord has been so good to Squito and I.

jkb919

Apr 19 2006, 01:01 PM

Well I just spoke with Adrian,
Since he had been sending me his pay checks while working on the ship, I now had to send him some money, so he just went and picked up the money I sent money and went and rented a car and now he is on his way to Spanish Town to apply for that No Impediment to Marriage cert CRAP!!...tomorrow I told him to go to the embassy and pick up packet 4 (it never came in the mail) and go get his police cert...I have already scheduled his Medical for May 2nd...so hopefully everything will go as planned!!! or at least I am praying it will go as planned

QUOTE(Ms Squitto @ Apr 19 2006, 01:56 PM)

I neglected to mention this before, as things have been ridiculously hectic for me as of late (as you can probably tell by my scarcity on the boards) but I have a new job. My current gig just wasn't cutting it on the financial end. With Squito not working, all of our regular living expenses, plus the wedding expenses (not to mention the immigration expenses) I knew I needed to supplement my income some way. I considered taking on a second job, but I didn't want to spread myself too thin. So after a great deal of consideration and prayer, I decided to put myself back in the job market. I've been here for just over two years and had grown very comforable in my position but I wasn't exactly being challenged. I went on a series of interviews with one of the major ad agencies here in NYC and got a new job, making significantly more than what I am making now. My last day here is Friday and I have one week off before I start my new job on May 1st. I am really looking forward to the challenges that await me. The Lord has been so good to Squito and I.

WOW great news...good luck and congrats with the new job!!!

nyseness

Apr 19 2006, 01:20 PM

QUOTE(Ms Squitto @ Apr 19 2006, 12:56 PM)

I neglected to mention this before, as things have been ridiculously hectic for me as of late (as you can probably tell by my scarcity on the boards) but I have a new job. My current gig just wasn't cutting it on the financial end. With Squito not working, all of our regular living expenses, plus the wedding expenses (not to mention the immigration expenses) I knew I needed to supplement my income some way. I considered taking on a second job, but I didn't want to spread myself too thin. So after a great deal of consideration and prayer, I decided to put myself back in the job market. I've been here for just over two years and had grown very comforable in my position but I wasn't exactly being challenged. I went on a series of interviews with one of the major ad agencies here in NYC and got a new job, making significantly more than what I am making now. My last day here is Friday and I have one week off before I start my new job on May 1st. I am really looking forward to the challenges that await me. The Lord has been so good to Squito and I.

Great news Squito!!!

Are you still moving to CT or did you guys decide to stay in NY?

sjb1221

Apr 19 2006, 01:25 PM

QUOTE(Ms Squitto @ Apr 19 2006, 01:56 PM)

I neglected to mention this before, as things have been ridiculously hectic for me as of late (as you can probably tell by my scarcity on the boards) but I have a new job. My current gig just wasn't cutting it on the financial end. With Squito not working, all of our regular living expenses, plus the wedding expenses (not to mention the immigration expenses) I knew I needed to supplement my income some way. I considered taking on a second job, but I didn't want to spread myself too thin. So after a great deal of consideration and prayer, I decided to put myself back in the job market. I've been here for just over two years and had grown very comforable in my position but I wasn't exactly being challenged. I went on a series of interviews with one of the major ad agencies here in NYC and got a new job, making significantly more than what I am making now. My last day here is Friday and I have one week off before I start my new job on May 1st. I am really looking forward to the challenges that await me. The Lord has been so good to Squito and I.

Hello everyone.

Congrats on your new job and your check getting cashed.

Dee - Congrats

Happy Birthday Adrian.

Jamaicagyaldat

Apr 19 2006, 01:38 PM

QUOTE(Mrs. Smith @ Apr 19 2006, 12:05 PM)

I got Karl a bike like over a month ago, and he ventures out quite often, just cause he can now!!! H eloves it as well! So did you get hitched yet?

QUOTE(Jamaicagyaldat @ Apr 18 2006, 02:42 PM)

QUOTE(Mrs. Smith @ Apr 18 2006, 09:41 AM)

Hello Ladies,

I know it has been Quite some time since i ahve been around, but life has been real busy since Karl arrived. We are getting married this Saturday, and we have 90 people attending, so iI have had som extensive planning to do, and preparation in such a short period of time. But it will all pay off come this weekend!

It has definetly been an experience, living with someone versus the long distance relationship, alot of adapting to our living ways. I wouldn't trade it for the world. We just this weekend went to a show at a local club that had T O K, it was a great show!!! Well I just wanted to stop in and say Hello to all, and hope all is well!!!

Suzy

Hi Suzy! I am sure your wedding will be fabulous.

I bought Neil a bicycle and he is going crazy. Riding it everywhere too.....

YEAH CONGRATULATIONS!!! I AM SO HAPPY FOR YOU TWO!

Mrs. Smith..yep we did get hitched.

brownnskinn

Apr 19 2006, 01:57 PM

......and prayer, I decided to put myself back in the job market. I've been here for just over two years and had grown very comforable in my position but I wasn't exactly being challenged. I went on a series of interviews with one of the major ad agencies here in NYC and got a new job, making significantly more than what I am making now. My last day here is Friday and I have one week off before I start my new job on May 1st. I am really looking forward to the challenges that await me. The Lord has been so good to Squito and I.

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WOW great news...good luck and congrats with the new job!!!

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Yes! Congrats thats great!!

Elizabethnhenry

Apr 19 2006, 02:01 PM

QUOTE(Ms Squitto @ Apr 19 2006, 01:56 PM)

I neglected to mention this before, as things have been ridiculously hectic for me as of late (as you can probably tell by my scarcity on the boards) but I have a new job. My current gig just wasn't cutting it on the financial end. With Squito not working, all of our regular living expenses, plus the wedding expenses (not to mention the immigration expenses) I knew I needed to supplement my income some way. I considered taking on a second job, but I didn't want to spread myself too thin. So after a great deal of consideration and prayer, I decided to put myself back in the job market. I've been here for just over two years and had grown very comforable in my position but I wasn't exactly being challenged. I went on a series of interviews with one of the major ad agencies here in NYC and got a new job, making significantly more than what I am making now. My last day here is Friday and I have one week off before I start my new job on May 1st. I am really looking forward to the challenges that await me. The Lord has been so good to Squito and I.

Wohoo!! Congratulations!!!

And congrats on the check being cashed!

Adding good news! Henry just opened the envelope with his drivers license!!!

This blessings in this thread are contagious!!!

And I applied for a new social security card with my new name. I made my maiden name my middle name and my new middle initial will appear on the card (I just can't let go

)

Ms Squitto

Apr 19 2006, 02:04 PM

Thank you all for the congratulations...now I may be a little late and possibly missed this before, but did anyone hear from Eric???

Sbys

Apr 19 2006, 02:14 PM

Wow! That's great news MsS - congrats on the new job

QUOTE(Ms Squitto @ Apr 19 2006, 12:56 PM)

I neglected to mention this before, as things have been ridiculously hectic for me as of late (as you can probably tell by my scarcity on the boards) but I have a new job. My current gig just wasn't cutting it on the financial end. With Squito not working, all of our regular living expenses, plus the wedding expenses (not to mention the immigration expenses) I knew I needed to supplement my income some way. I considered taking on a second job, but I didn't want to spread myself too thin. So after a great deal of consideration and prayer, I decided to put myself back in the job market. I've been here for just over two years and had grown very comforable in my position but I wasn't exactly being challenged. I went on a series of interviews with one of the major ad agencies here in NYC and got a new job, making significantly more than what I am making now. My last day here is Friday and I have one week off before I start my new job on May 1st. I am really looking forward to the challenges that await me. The Lord has been so good to Squito and I.

You sound organized so everything should go smoothly

QUOTE(jkb919 @ Apr 19 2006, 01:01 PM)

Well I just spoke with Adrian,
Since he had been sending me his pay checks while working on the ship, I now had to send him some money, so he just went and picked up the money I sent money and went and rented a car and now he is on his way to Spanish Town to apply for that No Impediment to Marriage cert CRAP!!...tomorrow I told him to go to the embassy and pick up packet 4 (it never came in the mail) and go get his police cert...I have already scheduled his Medical for May 2nd...so hopefully everything will go as planned!!! or at least I am praying it will go as planned

Elizabethnhenry

Apr 19 2006, 02:15 PM

QUOTE(thndrdancr @ Apr 19 2006, 10:25 AM)

He goes 4 days a week, and I just NOW found out about free computer classes at the job development center, but he will be too wiped to go.

This temp job he started yesterday, its REAL physical, and he worked pretty much 8 1/4 hours straight. They didnt show him the employee breakroom or anything, they just said if he needs to eat, dont do it right there, go out. Not sure the exact wording, but poor baby took it to mean he had to go OUTSIDE to eat, and it was raining yesterday! So he just stood in the corner, wolfed down the food, and went back to work. Lots of lifting. He is working with two other folks, one gal, and one other guy. Neither one of them introduced themselves, but the gal did chat him up an bit, and laughingly asked at the end of the day if he would be back tomorrow. I told him...well, mebbe the guy didnt talk or introduce himself cuz they see so many people here one day and gone next, you get to where you are like "Whats the point?", but he was still felt slighted the guy never muttered a word to him the whole day.

I asked him..well..wasnt it a lot harder doing sugar cane? His reply was yes, but at least he got BREAKS! I told him to take care of himself, and take them, they DID tell him he could break for a few minutes whenever he needed, but he didnt know where to go, so he didnt do it.
Arghhhhh!

Ay pobrecito (poor baby)!!! Folks can be harsh man. Tell him to hang in there. It won't be forever. Henry starts work Monday and I am a bit nervous - I don't anyone mistreating my baby. I get mistreated sometimes too but I can handle it and they compensate me for the abuse.

Sbys

Apr 19 2006, 02:24 PM

Dang, it really is contagious! Congrats to Henry - he must have a big smile on his face today

QUOTE(Elizabethnhenry @ Apr 19 2006, 02:01 PM)

Adding good news! Henry just opened the envelope with his drivers license!!!

This blessings in this thread are contagious!!!

And I applied for a new social security card with my new name. I made my maiden name my middle name and my new middle initial will appear on the card (I just can't let go

)

AnnTaylor

Apr 19 2006, 02:30 PM

[quote name='Dee&Dav' date='Apr 19 2006, 02:57 PM' post='138319']
......and prayer, I decided to put myself back in the job market. I've been here for just over two years and had grown very comforable in my position but I wasn't exactly being challenged. I went on a series of interviews with one of the major ad agencies here in NYC and got a new job, making significantly more than what I am making now. My last day here is Friday and I have one week off before I start my new job on May 1st. I am really looking forward to the challenges that await me. The Lord has been so good to Squito and I.

[/quote]
WOW great news...good luck and congrats with the new job!!!

[/quote]

Yes! Congrats thats great!!
[/quote]

Congrats Squito! I'm looking to go back to work. The once a month check is killing me.

AnnTaylor

Apr 19 2006, 02:57 PM

QUOTE(Dee&Dav @ Apr 19 2006, 09:36 AM)

***
Another poll added in Yahoo, but I'd like to discuss it here as well

GED - IS YOUR SPOUSE PLANNING TO TAKE THE TEST OR HAS ALREADY TAKEN AND PASSED/FAILED IT?

David is enrolled in GED classes, he did not do very well either on the inital test. They encouraged him to take ESL as well, because right, it forces you to use, understand correct English. If he understood it more he would have done much better, so he is taking it day by day. He was learning fast, he can add and subtract faster than me. He started helping with landscaping, now he needs to get enrolled in the evening class. He also heard through the grape fine that as long as he was enrolled in a GED class he could attend this trade school, where they teach carpentry/painting...all free, once they send him out on "practals" he could start earning pay.

, once it's okay with the gov

that is..

Anthony is still taking the GED. He plans on going to Nursing classes in the fall. Hopefully he will get his EAD and AOS by the summer and can make some money before starting nursing.

ChristineJames

Apr 19 2006, 03:05 PM

Quick question from one of the polls on the yahoo site....

For the ladies who's men are MoBay...what part of MoBay? and where did you meet them. I just wonder if its possible if our guys know each other. I know my guys works at pretty touristy spot in MoBay...just curious if they may know each other. Considering most of us met our guys while on vacation.

And I wonder them same thing about the other areas as well. Ever wonder if they know each other?

Sbys

Apr 19 2006, 03:25 PM

Hmm... I don't even know what part of MoBay Michael lived in. I think it was called Pieceview - I really don't know. He worked at the Doll's House on the Hip Strip for about a year before he came up. I met him when he worked at Errol's in Negril.

QUOTE(ChristineJames @ Apr 19 2006, 03:05 PM)

Quick question from one of the polls on the yahoo site....

For the ladies who's men are MoBay...what part of MoBay? and where did you meet them. I just wonder if its possible if our guys know each other. I know my guys works at pretty touristy spot in MoBay...just curious if they may know each other. Considering most of us met our guys while on vacation.

And I wonder them same thing about the other areas as well. Ever wonder if they know each other?

Minfay

Apr 19 2006, 03:39 PM

QUOTE(ChristineJames @ Apr 19 2006, 03:05 PM)

For the ladies who's men are MoBay...what part of MoBay? and where did you meet them.

Roy lived in Albion.....we met at the Wyndham.

QUOTE(Ms Squitto @ Apr 19 2006, 02:04 PM)

did anyone hear from Eric???

He ditched us...

Dee -- Congratulations on the NOA1.......now the wait begins

Squitto -- Congrats on the new job. I know how hard that can be. Good Luck to you!!!!

E -- I actually just got back from the DMV and got my new license. I got the SS card a few weeks back....now it's pretty much official. BUT, I couldn't wait to ditch my maiden name

sjb1221

Apr 19 2006, 03:39 PM

QUOTE(ChristineJames @ Apr 19 2006, 04:05 PM)

Quick question from one of the polls on the yahoo site....

For the ladies who's men are MoBay...what part of MoBay? and where did you meet them. I just wonder if its possible if our guys know each other. I know my guys works at pretty touristy spot in MoBay...just curious if they may know each other. Considering most of us met our guys while on vacation.

And I wonder them same thing about the other areas as well. Ever wonder if they know each other?

Damien was living in Westgate Hills. He lived in Reading when we first met. And he worked at the Baywest Centre mall. I'm sure they crossed paths.

Minfay

Apr 19 2006, 03:41 PM

QUOTE(ChristineJames @ Apr 19 2006, 03:05 PM)

Ever wonder if they know each other?

I have shown Roy all the pictures on Yahoo. He said nobody looks familiar.....

jkb919

Apr 19 2006, 03:44 PM

Well Adrian is from Kingston so I am sure he does not know any of you guys men...but Adrian and Kim's husband Rickie know each other, they worked on a ship together....(small world)

Yaads

Apr 19 2006, 04:04 PM

QUOTE(Minfay @ Apr 19 2006, 01:41 PM)

QUOTE(ChristineJames @ Apr 19 2006, 03:05 PM)

Ever wonder if they know each other?

I have shown Roy all the pictures on Yahoo. He said nobody looks familiar.....

Same here...Andre didn't recognize anyone.

Thanks everyone for all the baby related comments!

Very helpful

Feel free to add some more

Yaads

Apr 19 2006, 04:17 PM

QUOTE(Ms Squitto @ Apr 19 2006, 10:56 AM)

I neglected to mention this before, as things have been ridiculously hectic for me as of late (as you can probably tell by my scarcity on the boards) but I have a new job. My current gig just wasn't cutting it on the financial end. With Squito not working, all of our regular living expenses, plus the wedding expenses (not to mention the immigration expenses) I knew I needed to supplement my income some way. I considered taking on a second job, but I didn't want to spread myself too thin. So after a great deal of consideration and prayer, I decided to put myself back in the job market. I've been here for just over two years and had grown very comforable in my position but I wasn't exactly being challenged. I went on a series of interviews with one of the major ad agencies here in NYC and got a new job, making significantly more than what I am making now. My last day here is Friday and I have one week off before I start my new job on May 1st. I am really looking forward to the challenges that await me. The Lord has been so good to Squito and I.

How wonderful

Good luck at your new job! Hope you love it

QUOTE(Elizabethnhenry @ Apr 19 2006, 12:01 PM)

Adding good news! Henry just opened the envelope with his drivers license!!!

This blessings in this thread are contagious!!!

And I applied for a new social security card with my new name. I made my maiden name my middle name and my new middle initial will appear on the card (I just can't let go

)

Thats great! Lots of good news today

Jamaica to CT

Apr 19 2006, 06:06 PM

Good evening everyone,

Lots of good news on the board...congratulations to all!

Safe travels and happy reunions to Dru(woogietail) and Kelly(luvtravelin) as they travel to JA. I'll be joining them next week too.

Kelly I'll pm you to let you know where I'll be staying in MoBay. Dru- I know you're in Negril; so I know we won't be able to see each other.

Michele

rhondapayter

Apr 19 2006, 07:50 PM

QUOTE(Jme3584 @ Apr 19 2006, 10:56 AM)

How do you know when it’s the right time to have a baby? What things did you/do you want to have in place before you decide to have a baby? Do you/did you want a certain amount of money saved up, assets, certain job wage? What are those things? Do those things need to be in place before you decide to have a baby or do you decide to have a baby and then trust that those things will fall into place? I am asking for personal opinions and experience…no right or wrong…just what is right for you.

Also for those that have had children…how much do they really cost? Is it doable on a “regular” income?

Just curious

Jamie,
I ask myself these things all the time

I'm not sure when me and Tony will be ready. We're worried about the cost of child care since we are both working. Also, I hate my job and being on 2nd shift so I've been looking for a new job. I don't want to be unemployed and/or going on job interviews while pregnant

Most of the people I know didn't really plan on getting pregnant, it just happened and then things just kinda fell into place because they HAD to

I wish I had a better answer for you (and myself!)

QUOTE(Dee&Dav @ Apr 19 2006, 11:27 AM)

I would say save up at least two- three months income

Yes, I definately agree with this

We want to save about 3 months worth of living expenses so I can use the FMLA (Family Medical Leave Act) to take 3 months UNPAID leave from work. This would be in addition to the 6 weeks PAID leave that I think we already get.

rhondapayter

Apr 19 2006, 08:13 PM

QUOTE(Ms Squitto @ Apr 19 2006, 12:23 PM)

Rhonda,

Where did you and Henry stay when you went to DR? Squito and I are trying to plan a honeymoon. I'm a bit hesitant about going ahead and booking w/o having his AP document in hand, but I cannot think of a good reason that it would be denied. But with all of the trouble we've been having as of late, I dont want to buy a trip until I know that he can travel outside of the US. We found a great package deal to DR for only 600 pp all inclusive for 5 nights, that's not bad...

Me and TONY

(not Henry!) stayed in Punta Cana, DR. We stayed at Ocean Bavaro Spa & Beach Resort. It was nice except for the nasty food that gave me food poisoning and made me sick

The beach, pools, entertainment, etc. were all good. A few problems with getting service - our A/C had to be worked on 4 different times before they finally got it fixed right

We will not be going there again because there are so many other places I want to see. We would DEFINATELY not revisit that particular resort because of the issues we had. Check out Tripadvisor.com. It gives lots of peoples different reviews on different resorts. It's very helpful.

QUOTE(Minfay @ Apr 19 2006, 12:39 PM)

Also, check www.debbiesdominicantravel.com -- there are TONS of review on this site. Damn, do I sound like Kelly? [/color]

Yes, I used this website too for additional info. before our trip. It's pretty good.

QUOTE(Elizabethnhenry @ Apr 19 2006, 03:01 PM)

And I applied for a new social security card with my new name. I made my maiden name my middle name and my new middle initial will appear on the card (I just can't let go

)

I did the exact same thing with my maiden name too

I didn't want to give up my old name completely!

BelwinMills

Apr 19 2006, 09:16 PM

QUOTE(ChristineJames @ Apr 19 2006, 03:05 PM)

Quick question from one of the polls on the yahoo site....

For the ladies who's men are MoBay...what part of MoBay? and where did you meet them. I just wonder if its possible if our guys know each other. I know my guys works at pretty touristy spot in MoBay...just curious if they may know each other. Considering most of us met our guys while on vacation.

And I wonder them same thing about the other areas as well. Ever wonder if they know each other?

My guy works at Sandals Montego Bay, and at the other Sandals in the area. He also works at Margueritaville on The Hip Strip some nights. We meet at his High School Herbert Morrision years ago.

QUOTE(Jamaica to CT @ Apr 19 2006, 06:06 PM)

Good evening everyone,

Lots of good news on the board...congratulations to all!

Safe travels and happy reunions to Dru(woogietail) and Kelly(luvtravelin) as they travel to JA. I'll be joining them next week too.

Kelly I'll pm you to let you know where I'll be staying in MoBay. Dru- I know you're in Negril; so I know we won't be able to see each other.

Michele

What wonderfull news. Congrats with your upcoming new job. may it be wonderful