An update to my original post here.
Update:
My fiance sent me the 221g form. Under reasons for ineligibility, it says:
* Your child may have a claim to U.S. citizenship. Please contact the American Citizen Services Setion of the Consulate for more information. Please submit a copy of your child's passport if applicable.*
Weird. I don't have a child (yet). Reference to 221(g) of the U.S. Immigration and Nationality Act makes no mention of unborn children or their effect on issuance of a visa. So they are basing their decision on circumstances involving someone who doesn't exist yet. I'm failing to see the connection to immigration law.
Someone in a reply to my original post had mentioned needing to marry and changing to K3 status. This is not the case. There are provisions for claiming American citizenship for children born abroad out-of-wedlock. It is not the U.S. government's purview to determine whether children should be be born in or out of wedlock, therefore they have such provisions for both cases. As far as "losing face" in Vietnam ... we have already had dam hoi ceremony (pictures submitted with visa documents) which, in the eyes of Vietnamese, is sufficient. I've spent eight months total with my fiance, around their neighborhood, with family, etc., etc. Vietnamese will tell you the ceremony is worth more than a paper that shows marriage (which we never signed, of course, at risk of invalidating our K1).
So, if my fiance had gone in to the interview just a few months earlier, she'd have a visa now (??). The fact that she was visibly pregnant would be the only indicator to a CO. There are no requirements on any forms to disclose pregnancy. We did not need to mention it in our application (although I did in the cover letter, which the first clerk just threw in the trash upon getting our paperwork).
While I see the logic of making sure the fiance is carrying the petitioner's baby, paternity cannot be assessed based on the requirements for claiming U.S. citizenship for a child born abroad, which are available on the consulate's web site. Paternity can, however, be determined by way of a DNA test, which can happen before birth. I called to inquire about this and they said they wouldn't accept a DNA test (even through third party which historically supplies embassies with DNA test results). The Vietnamese woman on the phone at the embassy just kept saying come back after the baby is born. So what will she do, look at the baby and make a judgment?
Folks, here's the deal. The easiest way to get into the United States is to go to Mexico and cross the border, as did this political candidate to prove the point -- marching across on a parade of elephants with a mariachi band in tow.
As of now, I won't see my daughter's birth (which will happen mid-semester while I'm teaching at the university). I'll be out another $4000-5000 for short little trips over to see them during the next year (or however long it takes). I'm not criticizing the fact that the government needs to scrutinize to prevent freeloaders or worse from getting into the United States. But this defies logic. It certainly fails to be efficient.
At any rate, good luck to you all. I really appreciate all of your kind words, support, and consideration of my troubles. My hope is that each of you will face easier obstacles, or none at all. As for us, my lawyer will handle this from here on in.
Best,
3AD
