We're probably going to have to postpone getting married. (We're still fine as a couple, but I'm not going to risk a denial due to a lack of financial support, because that will be harder to fight than reapplying.)

Can I just write a letter to the NVC and formally cancel the petition?

I read your post earlier about a co-sponsor. If I remember the details I don't think you have anything to worry about going it on your own......

Did you not say you are only short the 125% by a few hundred dollars? And that you have assets to cover this?

When I cancelled a previous peition it was a simple letter sent to NSC. I would think somethig similiar could be accomplished here at this stage. I would also be prepared to stop it at the consulate since petitions may not stay that long at NVC.

Caladan

Look into things further before taking this rash step. e.g. does Canada look for 100% or 125%. There are also ways of demonstrating that the applicant will not become a public charge, the I-134 is only one thing that may be used. Don't focus totally on the I-134 as a conof generally won't. It is totality of circumstances.

Okay, thanks: I just didn't know if there was an official form.

I'm not sure if we will be okay. From what I've read, I'm fine. From all the advice here, it's 'get a co-sponsor you need one' if your income is even close to the line. I'm guessing they scrutinize it pretty closely. And I know they look at the totality of circumstances, but that those can't make up for an income deficit. The 2007 poverty guidelines will also likely be higher, and his interview will probably be in 2007 if we continue on our present course.

I'm terrified that he won't be allowed in because we *are* borderline, and then we'll have a denial on record. I can't imagine making him go through that.

I still have to talk to my fiancé and weigh in his opinion, but I wanted to have all my options clear. Really seems like it would be easier to move to Canada at this point.

your folks said no? just flat out no?
i'm so sorry about this. you need a ((hug))

and the most important thing is, DON'T DO ANYTHING RIGHT NOW.

you have just gotten the approval, you have time to think about this, and you have time to let them think about it too. first, have a nice long sleep. then, give it a week. ask them to reconsider. this is not a shiny bauble you are asking them for help getting, its the opportunity to marry the person you love. if you are convinced they will not help you, still reexamine all your options before throwing in the towel.

Don't jump to such serious decisions so quickly. You need a little patience in this process.
I saw that you did not get the answers that you wanted from your previous post. That is no reason to trash the application all together.
Have you seen somewhere that previous denials for financial reasons impact future applications? I don't think so!
K1 visas are a struggle. They are not for sissies.
This is nothing compared to marriage. If you can't handle such a minor disappointment you will never be able to stand the tribulations of a husband.