She said that we could apply for conjugal spouse immigration for me and once it's done then I would be a permanent resident and could work immediately but it could take 4-6 months if she helped us but longer if we did it ourselves. Much like the spouse visa in the U.S. I suppose. I was also told that I could come there to visit and then if we happened to marry while I'm there then I could still live there and apply within the country but that could take as long as a year to get processed, or we could marry and I could come back to the States and we could apply for spousal, and that would be the quickest way. Plus, supposedly I could still come to Canada and visit him while waiting for it to go through. She said I'd only need to tell customs I'm there to visit a friend. I don't know about that. sigh.
She also said that he could NOT be on disability and sponsor me, that they would refuse our case. I just want to cry. I don't know any good way to handle this and I don't know who I can trust to lead me in the right direction and not charge me my life savings and then some to guide my way.
I guess there is no such thing as a 'good' attorney who won't rob us blind.
I'm just trying to do preliminary research so that I am prepared to know what to do when the time comes.
It's all I can do to keep from panicking about all this.
