QUOTE(mybackpages @ Oct 19 2006, 04:46 PM)
I think haram might be a little too strong a word to use. In Islam husbands and wifes are like cloaks for one another. They shelter and protect each other. It can be harmful and even dangerous to a relationship to expose private details about the other in a public forum.
For some people this forum is a "family" and there are not other people in their lives who they can vent to who will understand because they are not in a bi-national or bi-cultural relationship. Personally for me I could never post here private things. I have close family members (or firends who are like family to us both) that I could trust to bend their ear. Otherwise it stays between us.
Dudes, Why is this about Islam? I think relationships are (read: should be) private whether they are Muslim, Christian, Rastafarian or Shinto. To be honest, knowing how many people here on VJ that were able to "date" and "get engaged" on the internet, it might not be such a big jump to declare all personal matters on that space as well. The internet gives a false sense of privacy, methinks.
